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Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Saylawchar(m): 6:04pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
chrisbaby24: Funny you, from my personal experience, the wife does not need him to use CD again since she has done family planning. She's well protected 'cos the doctor must have given her the best one which is good for her. So let her play on #bumper2bumper and #back2back |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 6:14pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
MirandaPrestly: This is more like it! I salute you, you are an intelligent woman. This response is very balanced and mature not like the emotional rubbish piled up there by Tufanja. Respect. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Ay04z(m): 6:18pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
chrisbaby24:and Nigeria keep increasing with d little drop DAT drop in DAT womb. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 6:27pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
asalimpo:Vasectomy is the best idea....with it the man can wipe in and out freely. and if with d vasec...and by chance d woman still gets impreg, she can always do a D and C. What's d point of giving birth to so many kids you cant adequately take care of.....the man might claim he's financially buoyant at a certain period. but then he might never predict the future....that stable job might not be there in the next ten years, that investment at the stock exchange might crash to rock bottom....the bread giver ( who in most cases, is the man) might kick the bucket whilst the children are still washing their bellies first.... uncontrolled breeding is a disaster. 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by HaneefahRN(f): 6:28pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Saylawchar: I guess she is just very scared and needs to reassure herself wt him using a CD. I belief she wld av been educated abt the family planning methods including the natural methods, b4 making an informed choice, but I dnt understand why she still wants him to use CD, she is d only one tht knws her reasons |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by saintandsinnerz: 6:31pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja:So because it failed in other women then it must fail in her on case. So if you're in her situation you will insist that your husband should be using condoms? really? If you don't know know it now that having unprotected sex helps in solidifying a relationship. Once couples start having sex with condoms, there is a big tendency that there will be problems in the relationship. The only time it's permissible for couples to use condom is if any of the partner has an STD |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 6:33pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Why does headship not involve taking the lead in controlling the number of children a couple has. If you leave it all to the woman, then you should be willing to do whatever she feels is best. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by cao(f): 6:43pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja, I applaud you for your vast display of common sense, especially in the vast sea of nonsense that is some misguided/misinformed NLers. And to whoever said vasectomy was permanent. Dude, you are very very wrong, it's a reversible process. So please re-educate yourself. 17 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by legendsilver(m): 6:50pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal:op, are you sure it's not your case we are trying to solve here? They way you handle the issue is more alarming than the true story itself. Anyway, the woman is only asking the man to taste okro soup so as to differentiate between ogbono and ewedu. I can't for once imagine condom with my wedded wife, tufiakwa pentag0nal:op, are you sure it's not your case we are trying to solve here? They way you handle the issue is more alarming than the true story itself. Anyway, the woman is only asking the man to taste okro soup so as to differentiate between ogbono and ewedu. I can't for once imagine condom with my wedded wife, tufiakwa |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Classicalman(m): 6:50pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Even condom fails woefully atimes. To avoid stories that touch, let her go and get her fallopian tubes tied. That is a sure permanent solution of family planning since she is done with having kids. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by confi4all(m): 6:51pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal:The MAN did Not pay the bride price thats why he allows the woman to take decision am Not using Condom owk lets follow ur menstral circle |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by wiloy2k8(m): 6:53pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: abeg free the woman . woman dey outside ... which 1 be all this stress |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by wiloy2k8(m): 6:55pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
saintandsinnerz: well said |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Jonwesley(m): 6:58pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
I want to believe that the woman's fear is uncalled for. She shouldn't have done the procedure on herself then and rather insists on the husband using Condoms, then I will agree. Why punish or sentence your husband to that misery of condom for rest of his life when U have the protection done, even if it fails or not 100% safe. I also wonder how a wife will appreciate love making with a husband that way. That idea is abnormal and kills the essence of marriage. Vasectomy is good as suggested but it's not reversible as the women's procedure and prone to cancers in later life as stated by medical research. I even think this woman will still insist on the man to wear a condom if he has a vasectomy done on himself for the fears she keep having. The likes of Tufanja, though knowledgeable are a bit emotional about the subject and may not understand the practical nature of matrimony yet. Now with what is in place, the couple can add safety/rythm method but skin to skin, unsafe/withdrawal or spermicide or use CD method as supports to her not getting pregnant but then they both enjoy freedom within these periods with the agreement of both shifting grounds to accommodate each other. She also ought to know that the skin to skin is for her perfect feel and enjoyment except she's just hypocritical about love making or she has something yet to say or hiding. Doesn't CD burst at times, so what kind of guarantee is she asking for, abeg. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by mamajaz(f): 6:59pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
menabae:Wey DNA test 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Mekus68: 7:07pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: OP, if l hear say u re not d man in d story/its not ur own story u re talking about. Otherwise y would u carry other couple's matter on ur head, or is d two of u marrying d woman @ d same time? Tell us u re d one lets know hw to help u. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by inkon: 7:16pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja: I spot some streaks feminism tendencies here. lol 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Olufemiolaolu(m): 7:21pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
menabae:Cd isnt good abeg. How can a husband not feel d flesh of his wife. Flesh 2 flesg is d sweetest. If she's my wife i wont take dat bullshit grm her. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by 100Cents: 7:24pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: She is illiterate. Smh. Make the man give his own ultimatum. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by upuphim(m): 7:28pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
@Tufanja, I support you hundred per cent. The problem of unwanted child can also destroy peace of family. Let the husband go for vasectomy if he dislike CD. 8 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by MsGlobalwonder(f): 7:49pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal:are you sure you are not the man? What other explanation do you need? He should get a vasectomy, is that too much to ask? Will he carry the pregnancy if the contraceptive fail? Haba! Why so selfish? The woman has done a contraceptive that is not fail-prove, now she needs a backup; is that too much to ask? Oh.. because she didn't demand a vasectomy. So, only the woman should sacrifice? What is wrong in using a condom anyway? Smh! 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by MsGlobalwonder(f): 7:51pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege:thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by MsGlobalwonder(f): 8:01pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
abbey621:see how you slyly forgot to suggest a VASECTOMY for the man. You try 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 8:05pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
chrisbaby24: "insert out " RIP English language teachers. SMFH 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by abbey621(m): 8:19pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
MsGlobalwonder: If the man was the one complaining or afraid of getting his wife pregnant and he's not contented with the various birth control techniques available, I would have suggested a vasectomy for him, the complainer should be the one willing to try anything |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Kennydoc(m): 8:21pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja: On the contrary, she isn't very well informed. The luteal phase of the menstrual cycle is generally safe for all women. Within 24 hours of ovulation, the egg is already dead. That woman cannot get pregnant till some days after the next menses. For an average 28 day-cycle, it means the woman has at least 13 days post ovulation in which there is zero chance of conception, before the next menses. Why can't she give her husband these 13 days, while she insists on condoms on the other days? |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by gaddafe(m): 8:28pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: I'm guessing you're not married. Forget about what google or any doctor says, all those methods are bound to fail at a certain point. Condom is still the safest. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by MsGlobalwonder(f): 8:37pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
abbey621:does a man get pregnant or complication during child birth? Marriage is a union where issues are shared and solved like one. For God's sake, this woman may have had terrible pregnancies and her life may be on the line if she dares get pregnant again. Nit everyone can stand an abortion. Contraceptive is not 100% and she has gotten one, what is wrong in a man using something as simple as a condom. Condom is a form of contraceptive too and some couple use it. If he can't use a condom, he should do a vasectomy, it is reversible. So, she should use double dose of contraceptive on herself alone or risk her life by getting pregnant because she used just one contraceptive? This woman is not refusing her husband sex, she just wants a little sacrifice and you people are screaming your lungs. It's just pathetic. You guyz are the kind of men women pray against. You know nothing about marriage and sacrifices. *sigh 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by kellsblingsz(m): 8:40pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
The solution is simple - kindly ho and buy a carton of POSTINO 2 and take 2 pills after each intercourse den u wldnt get pregnant. But be ready to accept the side effect..thank u |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by confun: 8:50pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Gosh, can't just believe many comments here, op, if u enter labour ward 3 times, if u are unlucky to av obstructed labour resulting in emergency CS, d next time u hear "preg" , dem no go finish d "nancy" before u run for ur dear life, For those talking abt family planning, u na never hear woman on IUCD who got pregnant and delivered both IUCD and baby together, no family planning is 100% abeg, let's be educated. Wats d big deal in condom, if d man loves his wife, let him sacrifice it na, at least she has done one family planning, let d husband do his own too "EQUATION BALANCED" 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by confun: 8:50pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Hmm |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 9:02pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal:Then he should go take it raw . His wife wants him using a sheath Kilode |
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