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RoyalBlak007:
Guy..what you should be thinking everyday is this....."How can i make more money" "How can i be richer".....they will be the one chasing you when you are richer

Rone16:
Capital NO..You can see everyone's number on the group chat nw.Get her number and whatsapp her privately.

BeansAndBread:
I was thinking she'll be offended? Or what do you think sis?

Rone16:
You have nothing to loose either ways.Besides if she has actually been looking at you and smiling like you said,she won't be offended so I think you should try but please don't tell her you want to marry her .Start by being her friend then graduating gradually to bf etc

lexiconkabir:
just two questions, after you answer that, i willl give advice you asked for. (1)what is your original moniker?....(2)why must you open a new moniker just to ask this question(i have such intentions tho! ), you opened the moniker on the 15th, you asked on the 15th, thats how i know .

BeansAndBread:
1. I've always been a visitor, but I needed an answer that's why I registered immediately.

2. No this is my first time on Nairaland, I have always been a visitor.

lexiconkabir:
oh! no problem, i was forced to believe you had an original moniker because you mentioned some nairalanders, anyway, i will advice you chat her up privately, and not in the group, dont tell her you want to marry her o! just tell her you've been noticing her in school(after you've introduced yourself) and you want her to be your friend, if she likes you as your story implies, then things will work out magically, its bit by bit, but remember not to transgress the limits set by Allah. goodluck!

BeansAndBread:
Bro that's not a problem by the grace of God, an uncle told me I'll get a spot at LLNG when I graduate.

lexiconkabir:
oh! no problem, i was forced to believe you had an original moniker because you mentioned some nairalanders, anyway, i will advice you chat her up privately, and not in the group, dont tell her you want to marry her o! just tell her you've been noticing her in school(after you've introduced yourself) and you want her to be your friend, if she likes you as your story implies, then things will work out magically, its bit by bit, but remember not to transgress the limits set by Allah. goodluck!

My bros so you're so good in stuffs like this?

Demmzy15:
My bros so you're so good in stuffs like this?

looooool... Op is funny though.. that she wouldn't stop looking at you doesn't mean she has anything in mind for you.. Perhaps she sees you as a mumu (no offence). On a more serious note bro, you don't have to be shy. You are a man. You are the one expected to bring up the conversation not her.. If I were you ehn.... issorit..

RoyalBlak007:
Guy..what you should be thinking everyday is this....."How can i make more money" "How can i be richer".....they will be the one chasing you when you are richer

Everything works together..

Demmzy15:
My bros so you're so good in stuffs like this?

You are OP's junior brother.. shy shy bobo.. "she was lookin at me and i was looking at her" smh

Rilwayne001:
You are OP's junior brother.. shy shy bobo.. "she was lookin at me and i was looking at her" smh

Demmzy15:

lexiconkabir:
so you be shy shy bobo

Bros I dey shy too o

Demmzy15:
Bros I dey shy too o

lexiconkabir:
e good sha, continue "shy-ing" till you shy away from your wife/wives

Demmzy15:
Oya tips to man up, Cc Rilwayne001

Demmzy15:
Oya tips to man up, Cc Rilwayne001

Demmzy15:
Oya tips to man up, Cc Rilwayne0.01

Lol.. One major tip is that you have to be jovial and confident at the same time. You don't have to be the type that frown around all the time. Even if you are ugly (which I assume you aint), your cheerfulness and familiarity will make them want to associate with you. Even here on nairaland, it works.

The koko thing is that, as a man, you are obliged to prove that you are indeed a man.

For more tips my kind sire, you gotta pay

BeansAndBread:
In my 100lv days I saw her, but I didn't pay attention because I thought a girl as beautiful as her won't even care to notice a guy like me. I was for a second right, on our matriculation, my parents came and everyone "jollied", so after taking the matriculation oaths and other rubbish , everyone went out to snap pictures. So my dad met a friend who also had a daughter in school(she's a friend of the girl I'm crushing on), so we all took pictures together with her.

Still I had no intentions towards her during my 100lv days not until we attended a Congress organized by the school in 200lv(first semester to be precise), during and after the Congress she was just looking at me whenever I looked back, she moved her eyes, at times she delayed for like 3secs. I'm a very shy guy, so I couldn't stay long during the eye contacts. So I let that pass!

After that day, I began to develop some interest in her. So I didn't see her for another long time, until we met in the cafeteria, my friends and I were eating eba and ila(okro), we didn't even buy tablewater, just sachet water. We were really rough that day, suddenly I saw her again and she started looking at me. When I looked back, she moved her eyes again and smiled. I was so too shy to approach her, this shyness has made me lose many girls that liked me!

Some months later, we had a religious program in school(a Muslim one to be precise, I'm a Muslim and she is too), so a film show was organized. I noticed that before the movie started, she kept on leaving the hall, I was outside trying to arrange stuffs. I meet her again, I couldn't say a word(shy shy shy shy shy ), she looked at me and smiled. Till we ended the program, I couldn't say anything!

Finally we're in 300lv, I didn't see her throughout 1st semester. Whenever we're vacating the school allows public transport to enter and pick up student, some students collaborate with them too. So I loaded my stuffs in the bus(day before yesterday to be precise), then I saw her again. This time she looked at me again, but it wasn't for long, I too looked back. We continued this circle for like 20mins, still I couldn't make a move. Now I'm finally at home, regretting why I couldn't make advances to her!

There's a group chat on WhatsApp in which almost all Muslim students are in, she's there too(sometimes I just go to see her profile pics). I'm actually a group admin there, should I make advances through that medium? If I do, how should I go about it? Would she be mad, esp when this is a religious learning group? People what should I do, I mustn't lose her, my intentions are clear, I'm not that type of guy who uses ladies because I've never had a girlfriend in my life, in fact I'm a virgin.

I want her to marry her if possible, my course of study mechanical engineering is five year while her's economics is four. We both stay in Abuja, guys please please!!

Cc Nubian113 Aminat508, ladies and gentlemen!!!

Rilwayne001:
Lol.. One major tip is that you have to be jovial and confident at the same time. You don't have to be the type that frown around all the time. Even if you are ugly (which I assume you aint), your cheerfulness and familiarity will make them want to associate with you. Even here on nairaland, it works.

The koko thing is that, as a man, you are obliged to prove that you are indeed a man.

For more tips my kind sire, you gotta pay

**dies**

lexiconkabir:
Why dont you subscribe to "mtn relationship tips"

Those people no serious jare even the subscription I did with them, they're just swallowing it like water.

BeansAndBread:
Bro that's not a problem by the grace of God, an uncle told me I'll get a spot at LLNG when I graduate.

BeansAndBread:
Thanks bro, but won't she be mad?