I am 28 yrs old dating a 23yrs old lady. We met feb last year, since then our Relationship has been smooth and heading to marriage! not until last Saturday when her ex lover showed up at her door asking her to accept him back! To break my heart further they had sex that night. Am deeply in love with this lady but don't know what to do? Can you advice me on what to do? I have been thinking all night looking for someone to talk to...
Please your candid advice will be appreciated!

Mumu, u said dey had sex..u already know wat 2do na

Do u really need someone to advise u? No.

It's Either you choose to father another man's child Or you let her go,

cos seeing Her ex will continue for like forever.

Look at this dude.

They had sex and you are deeply in love.

You dont need advise just dump her She gats no respect for yaa

oladiplenty001:
I am 28 yrs old dating a 23yrs old lady. We met feb last year, since then our Relationship has been smooth and heading to marriage! not until last Saturday when her ex lover showed up at her door asking her to accept him back! To break my heart further they had sex that night. Am deeply in love with this lady but don't know what to do? Can you advice me on what to do? I have been thinking all night looking for someone to talk to...
Please your candid advice will be appreciated!

BROS NA WA FOR YOU O, SO NA HERE YOU WAN FIND TRUE WISE COUNSEL??

I FEAR WHO NO FEAR YOU.... THIS IS NOT THE PLACE O. MEET ANYONE YOU KNOW WHO CAN GIVE YOU COUNSEL... ALSO I FEEL YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO.... SO GO AND DO WHAT YOUR MIND HAS TOLD YOU TO DO EVEN IF YOU ARE SCARED OF DOING IT.... ELSE SHE MAY HAVE MORE THAN ONE EX AND GIVE YOU HIV.

guy, you no fit marry that kain girl ooo... Mba lai lai. you've been banging her for close to a year now.. what else do you want from her and am sure she is not a virgin, abi?

tripplephi:


BROS NA WA FOR YOU O, SO NA HERE YOU WAN FIND TRUE WISE COUNSEL??

I FEAR WHO NO FEAR YOU.... THIS IS NOT THE PLACE O. MEET ANYONE YOU KNOW WHO CAN GIVE YOU COUNSEL... ALSO I FEEL YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO.... SO GO AND DO WHAT YOUR MIND HAS TOLD YOU TO DO EVEN IF YOU ARE SCARED OF DOING IT.... ELSE SHE MAY HAVE MORE THAN ONE EX AND GIVE YOU HIV.

thanks boss

haykinzz:
guy, you no fit marry that kain girl ooo... Mba lai lai. you've been banging her for close to a year now.. what else do you want from her and am sure she is not a virgin, abi?

No, she's not

they had sex so fast?I think you are on a long thing

Leave that girl and thank me later.

how did u know they had sex? she told u or d ex told u or u caught dem or u guessing?

oladiplenty001:
I am 28 yrs old dating a 23yrs old lady. We met feb last year, since then our Relationship has been smooth and heading to marriage! not until last Saturday when her ex lover showed up at her door asking her to accept him back! To break my heart further they had sex that night.

I dey sure say if dem wan sell you for market u no go worth pass 50kobo.

post: Am deeply in love with this lady but don't know what to do? Can you advice me on what to do? I have been thinking all night looking for someone to talk to...
Please your candid advice will be appreciated!

oladiplenty001:
I am 28 yrs old dating a 23yrs old lady. We met feb last year, since then our Relationship has been smooth and heading to marriage! not until last Saturday when her ex lover showed up at her door asking her to accept him back! To break my heart further they had sex that night. Am deeply in love with this lady but don't know what to do? Can you advice me on what to do? I have been thinking all night looking for someone to talk to...
Please your candid advice will be appreciated!

my brother move along asap....so, what do you wanna do before??

Ifakiland:
how did u know they had sex? she told u or d ex told u or u caught dem or u guessing?

She told me..Damn hell!!!!!!!!?

Sorry bro. Leave the relationship. Take a break from relationships for like a month or 2. Sorry this happened to you.

oladiplenty001:

She told me..Damn hell!!!!!!!!?

if she told u, tell her ok dats cool its allowed.
Keep her for sex, since she now a proven hoe...get a new gf and dump d old gf a day to ur wedding.

AfroKnight:
Sorry bro. Leave the relationship. Take a break from relationships for like a month or 2. Sorry this happened to you.

Its only few guys here that knows how i feel... Thanks for d advice! I will take it

Since she has the temerity to tell u that she had sex with her ex, com'n u dont need to be told on what to do until u want it the way u are seeing it but if not dump the girl. She lack respect for u

Who told you dey had sex?
as in she gather liver tell you say she runs tins with the guy .

ask her if she still want the relationship "That if you still wanna remain in the relationship"
and for her to have sex with the guy means she still gat some feelings for the dude be dat oo

Jadekitana:
Leave that girl and thank me later.

wud u accept him?