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elyna:
I'm having issues in my relationship and I'm finding it hard to get past them.

ok dear. Do you wish to share it? and see how you can move on from there...

Diddyydiva:
Following

you are welcome dear.

shrimati:
you are welcome dear.

*That Moment*
That moment when you feel downcast, when no one seems to believe in you.. You think you are losing it all. A moment in your life where you look like the second best.... even love eludes you.... It's a phase most people pass through, a state of anomie.
Many people we say embrace what life throws at you, but I differ rather I say... take the ones that make you grow and turn the bad ones to opportunities. Let me share this little story with you. There was horse in a big pit that he had no means of escaping. As everybody was passing no one seems ready to help.... but instead they were throwing objects at it. The horse did not complain but instead weaved the object aside... as the object starts growing in heaps so it rises over them till it was in a position for it to escape. Moral of the lesson... when people discourage you, see it as a challenge to be a better you... dear friends share your feelings and let solve this together.

shrimati:
Good you did not lose out totally. That you still trust yourself. many wont even be able to trust themselves after such incident again. You still need to work on trust issue more.... because when you have high degree of distrust in everybody you suddenly become paranoid and this might affect you psychologically. You need to have a bit of trust on some issues.. You can have your doubt but don't place all your trust on someone.... It makes you weaker when you can only trust yourself cos it shows you aint in control of your emotion to be strong you need this. Thank dear for sharing your feelings here.

you are very sweet so thank you for your time. i understand what you mean and i will try to trust again someday

Nubian113:
you are very sweet so thank you for your time. i understand what you mean and i will try to trust again someday

Thanks sweet for sharing your story here.... Am always lurking around waiting for someone to share his or her story and become less burden.. let's do this pal.