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wristbangle:
Nice comment.

Are u telling me that most creams produced nowadays has been compromised from the manufacturers?

wristbangle:
Despite the saying that all that glitters is not gold, many guys are still being swayed by mere physical appearance/attributes of a lady without thorough or proper evaluation to know if truly these attributes complement the heart.

However, many guys tend to be disappointed and discouraged to stay in a relationship when they later discover that what they thought she is, is not truly what she is.

The following points buttress the misplaced attributes guys check in a lady that often land them into bad relationship/ marriage.

1. Gigantic Butt and Bosoms

I believe that what defines a lady is not the size of butts and bosoms but tell this to some guys and watch them tear you to pieces. Once a lady has huge bosoms and backside, they don't care if her attitude is bad or not. They will try to gain her love and at the end of the day, they will end up regretting because the lady in question only has huge bosoms and but nothing upstairs.

2. Beauty

No doubt beauty remains one of the major reasons why guys approach a lady but what beats my imagination is that, ironically, a lady can be so pretty but won't be able to compute a simple arithmetic. I mean, could it be that these guys are extremely senseless to have chosen a beautiful lady who can't engage in intellectual discussions. To a broad view, one who marries because of beauty may not find joy in that relationship.

Sorry beauty is the first thing I see in a lady...even if she is more virtue than virgin marry I won't notice her
3. Skin colour

In Nigeria, guys normally over-hype fair skinned ladies while neglecting black skinned ladies making it look like being fair in complexion is a blessing and that being dark is a curse. I still don't know what skin colour has got to do with good/fruitful marital life. In fact, this neglect and discrimination cause low self esteem to our dark skinned ladies and therefore triggers competition when many of our ladies resort to bleaching.

4. Experienced in several sex positions

The world has gone weird that you will hear some guys saying they cannot date/marry a lady who is not experienced in sex let alone a virgin lady. Most guys are obsessed with ladies who during love making give them scissors-kick style, cow girl, reverse cow, hot doggy, girl style, devastating bllow job etc. The truth of the matter is that infidelity is their watchword when you can't satisfy their high libido. Prof Tosyne and Dr Ronald4lif can bear me witness.

5. Angelic voice

Some guys can urinate on their body when they exchange contact with a lady they met online, only to ring her up and discover that her voice is as angelic as that of Celine Dion. But when they get to meet this lady offline, she will look exactly like Julius Agwu. They will be disappointed and will look for a way to dismiss her. This is to say that sweet voice has landed many guys into wrong choice.

6. Rich Background

The fact that a lady is from a rich background doesn't mean she will be giving you her father's money. The erroneous belief of many guys is that when a lady is from a rich background, they have narrowly escaped from poverty when they date her, not knowing that their financial troubles just begun. This kind of ideology can send such guys to early grave if care is not taking.

7. She's a regular church goer

The fact that a lady is a committed worker in church or mosque doesn't mean she will become a good wife. In fact, some of them are even worse than we could ever imagine. Guys just need to be very careful so as not to be deceived by these ladies lifestyle because even the perceived wayward ladies may actually be the best wife.

8. Body stature

When you ask question to guys on how they want the body stature of their girlfriend or wife to be, you will hear funny answers such as "I don't want orobo or too skinny ladies o", "I can't marry a muscular lady because she won't be romantic and will end up beating me", etc. Lol, anyway what if you marry your preferred body stature and she turns out to be a nightmare in marriage?

MzPecs:
Virgins
Some guys will think because she's a virgin then she'll automatically make a good wife.

My cousin got married to a virgin and till date, himself and his virgin wife are regular customers of a particular eatery. The guy dey murmur everyday ehn..

LORDSAMURAI:
WHAT is this one typing? no iota of sense in your post, no sense at all, who have ever fallen in love with a girl just because she is a good cook? that means we all should fall for every cook in a restaurant. "ur post makes no sense at all, well u too have no brain so im not suprise.

Speechless3:
Yes they have been largely compromised speaking from experience haven been a victim so many times. I am becomimg careful these days. And i think people shouldnt rush to use just any cream except they have gathered enough information on them.

Michellla:
4. Experienced in several sex positions The world has gone weird that you will hear some guys saying they cannot date/marry a lady who is not experienced in sex let alone a virgin lady. Most guys are obsessed with ladies who during love making give them scissors-kick style, cow girl, reverse cow, hot doggy, girl style, devastating Mouth Action etc.
and when you show them all them skills they'd tag you a hoe

misspicy:
cooking skills

some guys will go crazy for a good cook,forgetting that relationship/marriage is not all about food,they might even let go of a gentle and beautiful lady all for food,and the cook might end up been a very wicked woman,then they will start regretting,this happens mostly to guys we know as FFO(for food only)

dollyjoy:
you can do better.why insult her cos ur opinion differ from hers?



Btw,the way to a man's heart is food,most guys can kill for a good cook

My dear that goat is just a trolling,don't engage a fool na

tosyne2much:
OP, you are so on point.. Lemme add my own to the list


9. Tight Kitty-Cat


I can't but smh each time I see saying they can't date a lady whose kitty-cat is loose.. All I know is that it's not kitty-cat that defines a lady.. Whether it's as wide as Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, it doesn't matter.. A lady might have a tight kitty-cat and won't make a good wife while a lady might have a loose kitty-cat and will make a good wife


10. Walking Steps

Just because a lady can cat-walk like Beyonce, some guys go wan die on top her neck.. All I know is that it doesn't matter how a lady walks, whether she walks sideways like a crab, or she walks slowly like a tortoise; all that matter is true love

dollyjoy:
you can do better.why insult her cos ur opinion differ from hers?



Btw,the way to a man's heart is food,most guys can kill for a good cook

misspicy:
cooking skills

some guys will go crazy for a good cook,forgetting that relationship/marriage is not all about food,they might even let go of a gentle and beautiful lady all for food,and the cook might end up been a very wicked woman,then they will start regretting,this happens mostly to guys we know as FFO(for food only)

LORDSAMURAI:
MCHEEEEW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! a way to a man's heart is not food, he can eat a good food in a restaurant.

misspicy:
My dear that goat is just a trolling,don't engage a fool na

wristbangle:
What about people like me that are FFO fan?

make sure your criteria should be met in the lady not about her cooking skills alone,to avoid stories that touch the bumbum

kayswag726:
I disagree with this, so you and ur wife will spend ur entire life time eating in a restaurant

tosyne2much:
OP, you are so on point.. Lemme add my own to the list


9. Tight Kitty-Cat


I can't but smh each time I see saying they can't date a lady whose kitty-cat is loose.. All I know is that it's not kitty-cat that defines a lady.. Whether it's as wide as Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, it doesn't matter.. A lady might have a tight kitty-cat and won't make a good wife while a lady might have a loose kitty-cat and will make a good wife


10. Walking Steps

Just because a lady can cat-walk like Beyonce, some guys go wan die on top her neck.. All I know is that it doesn't matter how a lady walks, whether she walks sideways like a crab, or she walks slowly like a tortoise; all that matter is true love

dollyjoy:
i wouldnt

misspicy:
make sure your criteria should be met in the lady not about her cooking skills alone,to avoid stories that touch the bumbum

wristbangle:
Lol. So what criteria are u talking about now?
Lalasticlala, kindly place this article for wider view

skywalker240:
i agree with u on this we need to change some of our views on our idea women to avoid stories dat touch d ass

Expecting the counter thread soon

tosyne2much:
OP, you are so on point.. Lemme add my own to the list


9. Tight Kitty-Cat


I can't but smh each time I see saying they can't date a lady whose kitty-cat is loose.. All I know is that it's not kitty-cat that defines a lady.. Whether it's as wide as Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, it doesn't matter.. A lady might have a tight kitty-cat and won't make a good wife while a lady might have a loose kitty-cat and will make a good wife


10. Walking Steps

Just because a lady can cat-walk like Beyonce, some guys go wan die on top her neck.. All I know is that it doesn't matter how a lady walks, whether she walks sideways like a crab, or she walks slowly like a tortoise; all that matter is true love

adepeter26:
@tosyne,2much, that your no 9 ehhh..

Could help but LOL

No mind me jawe.. The thing funny shey?

Michellla:
Gigantic Butt and Bosoms I believe that what defines a lady is
not the size of butts and bosoms but
tell this to some guys and watch them
tear you to pieces. Once a lady has
huge bosoms and backside, they
don't care if her attitude is bad or not. They will try to gain her love and at
the end of the day, they will end up
regretting because the lady in
question only has huge bosoms and
but nothing upstairs.

Michellla:
Gigantic Butt and Bosoms I believe that what defines a lady is
not the size of butts and bosoms but
tell this to some guys and watch them
tear you to pieces. Once a lady has
huge bosoms and backside, they
don't care if her attitude is bad or not. They will try to gain her love and at
the end of the day, they will end up
regretting because the lady in
question only has huge bosoms and
but nothing upstairs.

bqlekan:
why not, if i can date a lady with tatoo, why not one with tribal marks.. sometimes, they are more of a woman compared to the regular ladies out there.. .. my orientation changed when dad told me how i escaped being given tribal mark...

Me I no escape the tribal mark oooo... I've got slight ones on my face

tosyne2much:
OP, you are so on point.. Lemme add my own to the list


9. Tight Kitty-Cat


I can't but smh each time I see saying they can't date a lady whose kitty-cat is loose.. All I know is that it's not kitty-cat that defines a lady.. However, it doesn't matter whether it's as wide as Lagos-Ibadan Expressway. A lady might have a tight kitty-cat and won't make a good wife while a lady might have a loose kitty-cat and will make a good wife. This implies that the tightness of kitty-cats has led many dude into wrong choice


10. Walking Steps

I have no atom of regard for guys who lose their right sense of reasoning when they see a lady cat-walking like Beyonce, and will wan to die on top her neck.. All I know is that it doesn't matter how a lady walks, whether she walks sideways like a crab, or she walks slowly like a tortoise; all that matter is true love