Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? - Romance (3)

Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? - Romance (3) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Romance › Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? (49202 Views)

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Reply (Go Down)

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by femmygem: 10:59pm On Mar 11, 2016

Unto which level should a man slapped his gurlfriend.please and please dont marry him because is an animal in human skin.He will move frm slapping to beating and frm beating to grave.

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 11, 2016

Platinum007:
Meeeehn, you guys on nlander shaa. What is there not to understand in what she's written above. This isn't and English SAT exam.

Don't mind that guy. May be he finished reading English text book before login in on Nairaland. Somebody that does not know where and when to use period...used comma all through.

2 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by Strongbest(m): 11:00pm On Mar 11, 2016

Well, in case you are yet to be here, let me give you a special invitation: www.nairaland.com/1798724/ wink

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by mirrakk(m): 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

I dnt knw who ar but u av got big problems, real big one. U dnt av to rant d little vocabulary u learnt from d novel u jst read to acclaim ur proficiency in anoda man,s language. I guess if ppl like soyinka should behave like u do Nigerians and d world will not understand a tin he says. Ur broda patrick has gone oblivion

6 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by mbhs139(m): 11:02pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

This type of response is needless. Why not just stick to the subject of discussion and #leavetrashforlawma. You're simply embarrassing the poor and already distraught lady.

Make I stop here before NL Wole Soyinka go point out my own flaws.

2 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by sweetcocoa(f): 11:02pm On Mar 11, 2016

jeff1607:
would like to know your response to this;

let's say you cheated with about 3 different men and your man finds out and slaps you, during confrontation, would you leave him or apologise and leave him or just stick to him

I know you didn't ask me but, why should he slap me cos I was cheating? (i don't condone cheating but we are assuming)

He has no right whatsoever to hit me for cheating, if I'm a cheat, he's better off without me anyways, so why need a cheat to stay? angry

1 Like

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by meshi1990(m): 11:04pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

u ar not communicating kip it simple and short or gerara here even ppl datvowns d language don't speak complex english
i smell a fake version of patrick obiahaghon

4 Likes 1 Share

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by mirrakk(m): 11:04pm On Mar 11, 2016

Vig86:
Don't mind that guy. May be he finished reading English text book before login in on Nairaland. Somebody that does not know where and when to use period...used comma all through.

Dat guy must av failed English language many a tym in skul, now he is trying to take it on d op. Like he knws anytn

2 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Mar 11, 2016

Slap was wrong

But he is not your father to pay ur bills madam.....

Have u ever considered he might be broke?

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by meshi1990(m): 11:07pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

u ar not communicating kip it simple and short or gerara here even ppl dat owns d language don't speak complex english
i smell a fake version of patrik 0biahagh0n

1 Like

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by Nairaman1(m): 11:08pm On Mar 11, 2016

I dont support a man laying his hands on a woman. But the fact that you state that he did not pay your bills when you were hospitalized says a lot about you (eg is he your father ), if u think paying bills is a sign of love you are grossly mistaken. As long as you are not married to a man dont expect him to be your ATM. These things you listed cannot be the what u use to decide weather to marry a man. Married couples have fights and make up. So if you are meant to be you can talk things over and if you are both sincerly in love no one here has to tell you to go ahead. Any relationship that is measured by material things is doomed for failure one day.

1 Like

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by mart2k(m): 11:08pm On Mar 11, 2016

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

He is only coming back for ur toto, he already miss it so much

1 Like

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by SycophanticGoat: 11:08pm On Mar 11, 2016

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.
Mods, please front page

Ensure you purchase your coffin and pay for your funeral before getting married to him, OK? wink

1 Like

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by mbhs139(m): 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

Oga, I beg park well! We don see you, hope you're happy now? Thank you! O ya, shift. Oloyinbo!

1 Like

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by femmygem: 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2016

Please don't marry him.

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by bellarmine: 11:10pm On Mar 11, 2016

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

I think your post is incomplete. Also, your way of clearing things with someone that may end up with you is very appalling and highly immature.

See, no one is a fool. And it gets us mad when you start with such instances like "my friend's husband" this and that. How do you think your guy won't know.

Next time be mature to go straight to the point and not creating lies in the name of clearing somethings.

Left for me, you-yourself is not yet ready for settling down. You sound so mentally unprepared for marriage.

Work on yourself,please. And get yourself busy with good stuffs. So you can attract respect for yourself.

Meanwhile, no reasons why he slapped you...

3 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by mart2k(m): 11:10pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

If uar a good reader, u wil understand everything. Abeg, stop forming rubbishh here

2 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by 1miccza: 11:11pm On Mar 11, 2016

Heaven gave you a clear cut sign and you are contemplating marrying a wife beater if there's any word like that,Just get a coffin when you step into his house...

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by jeff1607(m): 11:13pm On Mar 11, 2016

sweetcocoa:
I know you didn't ask me but, why should he slap me cos I was cheating? (i don't condone cheating but we are assuming)

He has no right whatsoever to hit me for cheating, if I'm a cheat, he's better off without me anyways, so why need a cheat to stay?

Ok ma'am but would you decide to stay wit such person especially if i is his first time hitting you? or would you just leave?

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by SycophanticGoat: 11:13pm On Mar 11, 2016

Suigeneris93:
Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

Slimy cuty! Why you dey embarrass the embarrasser na? grin

2 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by lightdotcom: 11:14pm On Mar 11, 2016

Help her to make it up to the standard you want

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by So4baba(m): 11:16pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

Do yu get the message? If yes, then comment, if not, den yu shud better go bck to skul...

3 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by therapistmrs: 11:18pm On Mar 11, 2016

we are not to tell you who decide to marry but take your time to reflect on the positive and negative things you have experienced with him.base your decision on that.in conclusion don't think you can change any man.No man has the right to slap a woman.
all the best

therapistmrs..com

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by monz(m): 11:18pm On Mar 11, 2016

don't try it!! Bcus it's dangerous

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by bobbito: 11:18pm On Mar 11, 2016

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Please RUN away with your two legs and two hands even if he has money and good looks

Mods, please front page

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by AfroKnight: 11:21pm On Mar 11, 2016

Acidosis:
He said he would have given you more slaps?

Ahahahaha

I nearly fell of my chair laughing. That guy is a mad man. No remorse. cheesy

And the mumu girl is here asking question.

It's obvious she's eyeing his money.

2 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by deavicky(m): 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2016

glimpse33:
The Fact That He Onced Raised His Stinky Hand To Slap You Is Enough Reason To Arrest Him.
Do Not Marry Him Please, Else He I'd Turn You Into A Punching Bag

professional, allow the gurl to marry no use this ur yeye advise spoil her mind. Who says the one that hasn't slapped her today will not slap her tomorrow.

2 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by amokeme(f): 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2016

mineANDurs:
See question! . I wonder when my fellow womenfolk will learn. Oya go and marry a Ticking Time Bomb and come back later to complain when it Explodes. Mtcheew!

some will never learn! You are seeing the signs clearly and you are still confused about what mbok?
You will get married to him with all these signs, and when he starts beating you in his house, you will open your mouth too to insult Nigerian men. Your female children seeing what their dad is doing to you too will have the idea that Nigerian men are bad. And your male kids will see the way you nag to your husband( without knowing the frustration he is putting you through) and think all Nigerian women are nags... and that's how it all begins... and they will all go into the society creating threads on how Nigerian men are useless or how Nigerian women are useless... and start the #teamforeignguys and #teamforeigngirls

Please henergygirl don't marry him before you bring another generation of hateful kids into this alrdy hateful world,
The ones on NL are enough cheesy

7 Likes 3 Shares

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by theshaderoom: 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and[b] irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing[/b]...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

This Person am quoting just insulted himself with the bolded. The bolded is exactly what he is doing grin

, using big big grammar to cover his insecurity.

Its people that read dictionaries that write like this. Please stop reading dictionary Mr man, just use it when u need to check a word or words. It messes with your head if you are in the habit of reading it.

8 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by kizyalex10(m): 11:24pm On Mar 11, 2016

Everybody jst dey talk,leave him abi?una never ask d girl of her own attitude that makes d guy go mad,she said off nd on.is a crime because d guy came out plain,every man hav his soft spot nd his mad spot too,if u leave d soft spot nd go to the other side,u will say he is a woman beater,if he is quiet nd too cool nw,u will come here nd say he is a mumu.seriously some girls can be really annoying that d only option left Is to apply a manual reseting slap on them.or will u prefer to see a guy who pretends but when u guys re married,u will see his true colour.that u will even be praying to hav ur ex bck.nobody is perfect.jst work on the person's imperfection.or re u people here telling me that d guy in question will end up a single man.my dear my advice for u is to stick with him,always go for the soft spot nd leave d mad side alone.if u leave him,anoda lady will grab her.all dese nairaland chicks wey dey advice u make u leave ur man.dey re waiting standby to grab him.husband scarce oooo.dont say I didn't warn u.ask girls who re looking for a 6 feet tall,handsome with six packs dat works with shell,romantic etc.most of them re reaching menopause while the intelligent ones wey marry short,potbellied,average guy,re busy grooming dia families.be wise.

1 Like

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by miketayo(m): 11:24pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

stop embarrassing urself and concentrate on the topic grin

3 Likes

Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Mar 11, 2016

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

Oversabi!!!! She didn't ask you for an English lecture but a simply advice. If you had no idea about what she talking about just keep quiet

2 Likes

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Reply

Where Do Girls Meet And Marry Guys Living In The US ? • How To Make A Man Admire You, Chase You, Fall In Love With You And Marry You. • Go and Marry If You Have Barbed With This Tool (pics) • 2 • 3 • 4

Photos From The Traditional Marriage Of 2 Young Nairalanders • Nigerian Lady Weds Her Best Friend In A Simple Wedding In London. Photos • Man Gives Wife SUV At Their Traditional Wedding (Pics)