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halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Na why I dey ask na.
Nice write-up by the way. [/color]

Abbeyunique2:
Lol. i understand

halfricanadian:
sadly im over it completely
Thank u name sake me pelu unique toh sure ju

Abbeyunique2:
Oya, come pay money for oruko. lol

halfricanadian:
Im older dan u oya drop first while i dab

Abbeyunique2:
who says u are older? while i makossa

Abbeyunique2:
who says u are older? while i makossa

ronald4lif:
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable

Rapmoney:
U will soon be reported. You are derailing this thread!

olac21:
She writes out of sense all times!you are not alone in comprehending her in this bro.
Btw,its been a long time here,anything?

Abbeyunique2:
Sorry sir, i was elated at seing my namesake.
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i can relate with ur write up. during my undergraduate days, i had a housemate that beats the crap out of his gal, he instilled so much fear in the gal that u would think he is her uncle/father. the guy calls the gal his wife. he was so possesive with the gal and the funniest thing is that they are still dating.

BumBae:
Ekaitte pls give op one cold beer n lap dance for this

Nice topic Rapmoney, alot of guys do this without knowing ..

Rapmoney:
It could be that she likes being beaten and treated like an animal!

ifeajikap:
I want lap dance

rosalieene:
Nice one Op
The only point guys would pick up is the issue of spending on girls. Trust me! they know themselves.

Go ahead and mention their names

ronald4lif:
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable

MrsPhyno:
OP you are a true son of your Father

tosyne2much:
Go ahead and mention their names

BumBae:
Ekaitte pls give op one cold beer n lap dance for this

Nice topic Rapmoney, alot of guys do this without knowing ..

Rapmoney:
It seems so many guys are so confused on dating to an extent where they erroneously equate it with marriage! Dating is just a period where two persons who find themselves attracted to each other try to know themselves better; it could even happen in a way where either one of them is not 'too interested' in the other person but as time goes on, good attitude, genuine love and care, coupled with clear understanding shown by either the guy or the lady could make both of them 'click' for good.

On a serious note, some guys can actually go the extra mile by portraying some unnecessary and irrelevant attitude that can cause them emotional pains in return

Below are some common misconceptions guys have about dating which is not supposed to be a 'do-or-die' affair!!!

1) Policing a girl: Dating period shouldn't be a time for you to police a girl as if you work for the FBI! When a girl agrees to date you, it means she has interest in you and would like to know you better. It is not a period to show your skills in detective operations and start snooping around her, trying to know her every whereabout...how she eats, who she talks to, who she calls or who calls her. You might just end up selling yourself out as a desperate and jobless fellow who has nothing serious to attend to in life! Give yourself some self-worth, Inspector Idemudia!!!

2) Exercising ownership over her: This is one big misconception that most guys have! Remember you have not paid a dime on her...so why exercise ownership? Isn't it funny that as soon as she agrees to date you, you want her to cut off every raport she has with everyone? You erroneously think that when you claim ownership, it gives you a strong ground in her life! Wrong! You could even trigger hatred. Allow her to study you and other admirers to see who has the desired traits! This is far from her playing 'hard to get' because at this stage, she has already showed interest in you! A woman hardly respects a man who act as if his life is tied around her.

3) Imposing your personal policies on her: Again, you are not married to her. There is no need for you to impose your policies on her to accept. She has her own life to live and there is no signed certificate anywhere that she is your wife or she is going to be one in the nearest future. Even husbands are not suppose to impose policies on wives talk more of doing that at the dating stage!!! You might end up selling yourself out as an undesirable tyrant!!!

4) Taking the role of a husband financially: The dating period is not a time for you start catering for the financial responsibilities of a lady because you neither owe her any duty nor obligation to do that! It doesn't mean you should become mean as Caliban! You should show generosity to the one you are dating but don't make it seem as if you running to get to the finish line and at the same time, trying to carry somebody on your back all along. You sure know what that means It is difficult to stop when you have already started; it's better not to start what you cannot end. Never you use money to impress a woman you want to get serious with; instead, let her see the work or essence of the money in your life...then, she would'nt think of 'money' you'd have to spend but the 'success' you have been able to achieve. Don't forget, women love successful men and they are loyal to them and not just a money spender!!!

Good evening everyone

Written by Kelvin Ukachukwu (Rapmoney)

Rapmoney:
Thanks sis...but my pastor said I should avoid lap-dancers!

Rapmoney:
Thanks sis...but my pastor said I should avoid lap-dancers!

ronald4lif:
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable

Rapmoney:
4) Taking the role of a husband financially: The dating period is not a time for you start catering for the financial responsibilities of a lady because you neither owe her any duty nor obligation to do that! It doesn't mean you should become mean as Caliban! You should show generosity to the one you are dating but don't make it seem as if you running to get to the finish line and at the same time, trying to carry somebody on your back all along. You sure know what that means It is difficult to stop when you have already started; it's better not to start what you cannot end. Never you use money to impress a woman you want to get serious with; instead, let her see the work or essence of the money in your life...then, she would'nt think of 'money' you'd have to spend but the 'success' you have been able to achieve. Don't forget, women love successful men and they are loyal to them and not just a money spender!!!

Good evening everyone

Written by Kelvin Ukachukwu (Rapmoney)

Rapmoney:
It seems so many guys are so confused on dating to an extent where they erroneously equate it with marriage! Dating is just a period where two persons who find themselves attracted to each other try to know themselves better; it could even happen in a way where either one of them is not 'too interested' in the other person but as time goes on, good attitude, genuine love and care, coupled with clear understanding shown by either the guy or the lady could make both of them 'click' for good.

On a serious note, some guys can actually go the extra mile by portraying some unnecessary and irrelevant attitude that can cause them emotional pains in return

Below are some common misconceptions guys have about dating which is not supposed to be a 'do-or-die' affair!!!

1) Policing a girl: Dating period shouldn't be a time for you to police a girl as if you work for the FBI! When a girl agrees to date you, it means she has interest in you and would like to know you better. It is not a period to show your skills in detective operations and start snooping around her, trying to know her every whereabout...how she eats, who she talks to, who she calls or who calls her. You might just end up selling yourself out as a desperate and jobless fellow who has nothing serious to attend to in life! Give yourself some self-worth, Inspector Idemudia!!!

2) Exercising ownership over her: This is one big misconception that most guys have! Remember you have not paid a dime on her...so why exercise ownership? Isn't it funny that as soon as she agrees to date you, you want her to cut off every raport she has with everyone? You erroneously think that when you claim ownership, it gives you a strong ground in her life! Wrong! You could even trigger hatred. Allow her to study you and other admirers to see who has the desired traits! This is far from her playing 'hard to get' because at this stage, she has already showed interest in you! A woman hardly respects a man who act as if his life is tied around her.

3) Imposing your personal policies on her: Again, you are not married to her. There is no need for you to impose your policies on her to accept. She has her own life to live and there is no signed certificate anywhere that she is your wife or she is going to be one in the nearest future. Even husbands are not suppose to impose policies on wives talk more of doing that at the dating stage!!! You might end up selling yourself out as an undesirable tyrant!!!

4) Taking the role of a husband financially: The dating period is not a time for you start catering for the financial responsibilities of a lady because you neither owe her any duty nor obligation to do that! It doesn't mean you should become mean as Caliban! You should show generosity to the one you are dating but don't make it seem as if you running to get to the finish line and at the same time, trying to carry somebody on your back all along. You sure know what that means It is difficult to stop when you have already started; it's better not to start what you cannot end. Never you use money to impress a woman you want to get serious with; instead, let her see the work or essence of the money in your life...then, she would'nt think of 'money' you'd have to spend but the 'success' you have been able to achieve. Don't forget, women love successful men and they are loyal to them and not just a money spender!!!

Good evening everyone

Written by Kelvin Ukachukwu (Rapmoney)