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In this 21st century where every single lady out there dream to marry a rich, cute, handsome and intelligent guy, not only these qualities but the guy should also be God fearing. The question is, is it a must the guy must have or possess all these before you settle down with him? This is where Naija single ladies make a very big mistakes because they expect the guy they want to Marry to be perfect not minding we are all imperfect humans. Naija girls want the to be handsome, rich, intelligent and God fearing. You can't have it all my sister. I'm not saying you should go ahead even if you see red flag in your relationship but at least try to overlook certain things. That's what keeping relationship going which leads to marriage if not you will keep on searching till you clock menopause. Have a nice day nairalanders.

Lalastical, seun

Broke ass nigga!!!!

If you are handsome and rich you won't post this.

Nice thread

But same goes for the men

Dey want a beautiful, endowed, intelligent, hardworking, good cook, humble, a woman who can take care of the home, and independent lady

Not knowing u can't have all in one package

Vinshu:
Broke ass nigga!!!!

If you are handsome and rich you won't post this.

wicked!

Vinshu:
Broke ass nigga!!!!

If you are handsome and rich you won't post this.

i pity your type because you will end up badly. Calling me a broke nigga won't help you marry a rich guy, calling me an ugly guy won't help marry handsome guy, rather it will surely add more to your problems. No time to exchange words with you

Wisdomkosi:
i pity your type because you will end up badly. Calling me a broke nigga won't help you marry a rich guy, calling me an ugly guy won't help marry handsome guy, rather it will surely add more to your problems. No time to exchange words with you

No time to exchange words with her, but dats wat u r doing

myfantasies:
Nice thread

But same goes for the men

Dey want a beautiful, endowed, intelligent, hardworking, good cook, humble, a woman who can take care of the home, and independent lady

Not knowing u can't have all in one package

my next thread will focus on that

nigga you're getting this wrong, its men that wants it all(submissive, endowed, beautiful...)..

women wants only one thing; money. to buy everything they want for themselves(that's why rich women don't easily marry).. you could be ugly, midget, "satan-fearing"(if that exist) for all they care.. just have ur doe!!

Vinshu:
Broke ass nigga!!!!

If you are handsome and rich you won't post this.

hello!



A man can't have it all,it either he is handsome and broke or weathly and ugly,if a man have it all then marrying such a guy would be dangerous since so many girls out there will surely be on the chase!


So if you are not ready to share your man,go for one that will not pose much treat!!!

lekjons:
nigga you're getting this wrong, its men that wants it all(submissive, endowed, beautiful...)..

women wants only one thing; money. to buy everything they want for themselves(that's why rich women don't easily marry).. you could be ugly, midget, "satan-fearing"(if that exist) for all they care.. just have ur doe!!

and most times,you guys tend to forget yourselves in the process of looking for money!




Money is paramount but not the ultimate!

Wisdomkosi:
my next thread will focus on that

Good

Just keep me posted, i will love to read it

Specialbaby:
hello!



A man can't have it all,it either he is handsome and broke or weathly and ugly,if a man have it all then marrying such a guy would be dangerous since so many girls out there will surely be on the chase!


So if you are not ready to share your man,go for one that will not pose much treat!!!

A man who will cheat will cheat. Rich or poor.

So that's not an issue. Even if girls flock around it doesn't mandate that he cheats.

Wisdomkosi:
i pity your type because you will end up badly. Calling me a broke nigga won't help you marry a rich guy, calling me an ugly guy won't help marry handsome guy, rather it will surely add more to your problems. No time to exchange words with you

Lol you know I have a husband.

Unfortunately, I have not seen a 'perfect lady'.


It's either she's too short and well mannered, tall and ill mannered or cute and unable to cook good food especially pounded yam, but the truth is we have to move along with them, nobody is perfect.


For the ladies, stop having tall dreams, I am sorry to say this, most of your mothers didn't marry your daddy because he had a good ride, or a mansion, infact some of you grew up in face me, I face you, a vast majority of you are still living there with them, some of your parents still go about trekking without cars.

I have made my findings and I discovered that most of these women today endured hardship at one point or the other with their husband.

While we pray for a better life than that of our parents, I encourage the ladies to marry a guy with vision not minding his present status, you can key into his vision and help fine tune it.

I love you all.

Vinshu:
A man who will cheat will cheat. Rich or poor.

So that's not an issue. Even if girls flock around it doesn't mandate that he cheats.

it takes the grace of God to prevent a man from cheating dear especially when there are so many temptations!!!



Will you condone a cheating hubby If NO, why go for the man that is the prince charming of every young girl and expect him to be all faithful all his life knowing fully well the flesh is weak Or do you think those ladies would back out even after knowing he is legally married?

EastGold:
Unfortunately, I have not seen a 'perfect lady'.


It's either she's too short and well mannered, tall and ill mannered or cute and unable to cook good food especially pounded yam, but the truth is we have to move along with them, nobody is perfect.


For the ladies, stop having tall dreams, I am sorry to say this, most of your mothers didn't marry your daddy because he had a good ride, or a mansion, infact some of you grew up in face me, I face you, a vast majority of you are still living there with them, some of your parents still go about trekking without cars.

I have made my findings and I discovered that most of these women today endured hardship at one point or the other with their husband.

While we pray for a better life than that of our parents, I encourage the ladies to marry a guy with vision not minding his present status, you can key into his vision and help fine tune it.

I love you all.

i endorse this!


Brilliant and perfect!!


Morning

Specialbaby:
it takes the grace of God to prevent a man from cheating dear especially when there are so many temptations!!!



Will you condone a cheating hubby If NO, why go for the man that is the prince charming of every young girl and expect him to be all faithful all his life knowing fully well the flesh is weak Or do you think those ladies would back out even after knowing he is legally married?

Like I said, even a guy who is broke will still cheat if he wants to so will a rich prince charming do same. If you are good for your hubby he won't cheat on you.

Besides if he does and you haven't caught him, it's ok. When you find out, a divorce is free.

Vinshu:
Like I said, even a guy who is broke will still cheat if he wants to so will a rich prince charming do same. If you are good for your hubby he won't cheat on you.

Besides if he does and you haven't caught him, it's ok. When you find out, a divorce is free.

i still stand on my view as regard your first sentence, it takes the grace of God to prevent a man from cheating,a man will worship the ground his wife stood on but can still cheat the next minute,so it not about being good to your man or not!let pray to marry someone with the fear and spirit of God,with sound moral inclinations else..,...................


Love alone is not anough friend!!


@last sentence, well,divorce ought to be the last resort though,if he is repentant,forgiving is best but if he chose to be a chronic philanderer,then divorce is best,life is too short to waste on an undeserving hubby

Not knowing that when you'r handsome to be intelligent becomes difficult ( woman no go let u ) and once u'r not intelligent to be wealthy n God fearing becomes herculean , because u will seek wealth through illegal means.

Wisdomkosi:
In this 21st century where every single lady out there dream to marry a rich, cute, handsome and intelligent guy, not only these qualities but the guy should also be God fearing. The question is, is it a must the guy must have or possess all these before you settle down with him? This is where Naija single ladies make a very big mistakes because they expect the guy they want to Marry to be perfect not minding we are all imperfect humans. Naija girls want the to be handsome, rich, intelligent and God fearing. You can't have it all my sister. I'm not saying you should go ahead even if you see red flag in your relationship but at least try to overlook certain things. That's what keeping relationship going which leads to marriage if not you will keep on searching till you clock menopause. Have a nice day nairalanders.

Well, as much as I agree with your post, I have to tell you the truth... when you have enough money, you look fresh, you will hardly expend energy chasing any girl.

So bro, work hard... it's the rule of the world. HARDLY will any girl want to be with you when you are broke. Even when you are broke, dude, box up in other ways. get yourself NICE clothes, shoes, box up you apartment with some gadget if you can afford it. Many bad boys don't even have 100k in their account BUT they make sure they look good and ensure their home is well tidied. It's the reality bro. LIVE by its rules or die trying. That is why the likes of Atlantia will always tell you to chase money, not women or love.

The time used to chase women can be used to strategize, network with REAL Gs and shoot the skies...