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Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Evidence1000(m): 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2016

This world ehn... When some girls are looking for breast, someone wants his own to be cut off.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2016

Irishrena1:
OP I really feel your pain. Its just a hormonal imbalance ish and nothing more. Feel free. People will get used to seeing you that way and it won't matter to them. You're not the first person and you won't be the last. I know of a hairdresser I mean big time hairdresser who has been like that for as long as I can remember who looks just like a female. He has the boobs, the structure, the skin and all of that but he doesn't hide himself and nobody even cares, nobody mentions it and he's doing well financially, has a family. It not a rare sight, stop inconveniencing yourself.

Like they've said, hit the gym and build a masculine figure shikena. I'm hairy on my legs only. I don't have them on my arms or elsewhere. I used to think it was unattractive but men, even women envy me and some jokingly ask me to dash them my legs. But I was still not comfortable with it. There was a guy who was asking me out, he said he liked it. I told him that I didn't and he told me that I don't know that there are people who love me for that reason and that I should go into the stores if possible, find something to rub on it that will make it more attractive and all of that and flaunt it. Since then, I started doing that and I've been the better for it.

Just go on and enhance your looks and that will be the end of your discomfort.

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Thank you sir, God bless you sir. Am very greatful sir.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Ekakamba: 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2016

He don't forking need a gf who can play with such abnormality. He needs advice on how to make it go. Mtcheew.

Empress2014:
It's will be so fun to have a bf like you, playing with your breast in the bedroom, I can imagine how it's gonna feel like

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Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 4:38pm On Mar 28, 2016

sheunsheun:
Hmmmmm, but doesn't change the fact you have to visit a medical expert

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I would have done that long ago if i hade the money to spend, i just have to wait till i make it in life. I will be patient till then.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Nobody: 4:38pm On Mar 28, 2016

LazyGoat:
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May be when i become somebody in life i will see a doctor, but for now. No money.

Noooo...it wouldn't take becoming somebody in life to see a Doctor at a public hospital dear.

I believe getting a card in a public hospital wouldn't take more than N1000. That means, with that amount, you can at least see a Doctor, and hear what he has to say. #In fact, there's a General Hospital close to where I work, which issues cards free. Although, you may be asked to go for further tests, I believe having a Doctor examine you will make you a bit calmer. And then, if you're asked to go for further tests, you can start making plans towards raising the money. I feel all these are better options than just allowing your mind roam endlessly on the issue.

It is well. Take care.

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Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Ekakamba: 4:39pm On Mar 28, 2016

hope you've cut off junior already? grin

greatness22:
.....And Jesus said, "any part of your body that won't take you to heaven, CUT IT OFF"

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by gradeA(m): 4:39pm On Mar 28, 2016

Go see a doctor ASAP.

btw why name yourself lazygoat. Those are the sort of growths that occurs in goats.

#justsaying.

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Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 4:41pm On Mar 28, 2016

yvelchstores:
I knw ur problem very well. It happened to a very close family member, his started from junior sec skl n he was greatly disturbed by this, it was even harder for him as he was in boarding skl. He went to doctors here in Nigeria but they were speaking grammar. Latter he had the privilege of schooling abroad. He had to use his medical insurance card to undergo a surgery to remove all the tissues from both breasts. He has been happy ever since. Baring his chest in pictures for the first time ever. It costed about 320 k in Naira equivalence. It's not easy, hang in there, your opportunity will come. Take care.

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Thank you ma, a guy also said here that the condition can only be taken care of outside Nigeria, which is the most painful part of it all.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Naff24(f): 4:41pm On Mar 28, 2016

brandnew3:
OP how old are you?

I guess u read to comment and attains fp u didn't read to understand and contributes to d topic undecided

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Eeroh95(m): 4:43pm On Mar 28, 2016

Wetin we no go see for 9ja?................... Swallow abgalumo seed and the tree to grow on our head never do us?

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Nobody: 4:44pm On Mar 28, 2016

LazyGoat:
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Ma, can the surgery be done here in Nigeria

ofcourse yes, UNTH, LSUTH, etc

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by iyibest: 4:44pm On Mar 28, 2016

It is well with you

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by toocoded: 4:44pm On Mar 28, 2016

Pele bro, try hitting the gym first before anything

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 4:45pm On Mar 28, 2016

Gaborone:
Noooo...it wouldn't take becoming somebody in life to see a Doctor at a public hospital dear.

I believe getting a card in a public hospital wouldn't take more than N1000. That means, with that amount, you can at least see a Doctor, and hear what he has to say. #In fact, there's a General Hospital close to where I work, which issues cards free. Although, you may be asked to go for further tests, I believe having a Doctor examine you will make you a bit calmer. And then, if you're asked to go for further tests, you can start making plans towards raising the money. I feel all these are better options than just allowing your mind roam endlessly on the issue.

It is well. Take care.

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Thank you ma, you would not beleave i just shed a little tears with this great advice, God bless you ma. God bless you

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Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Krismart(m): 4:45pm On Mar 28, 2016

Empress2014:
It's will be so fun to have a bf like you, playing with your breast in the bedroom, I can imagine how it's gonna feel like

Another Lez on d loose

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Lexusgs430: 4:46pm On Mar 28, 2016

LazyGoat:
Hello dear nairalanders, there is this thread i saw on nairaland fp, about a man with a female brest who came to a church. And since that day i saw that thread my mind has not been at rest ever since, because i have been living with the same condition for over 5 years now, without anybody knowing except myself.
I have this big tissue on both sides on my brest under my nipple, it looks like a seed, at first when it first started it was so very painful for me, but now it is no longer painful.
I think i have endured this very shameful burden for so long now and i think now its the time i seek some solution to it before it will be too late.
Let me give a brief explanation on how this problem has affected my life in so many ways.
I will be 22 on july 13 this year.
It first noticed this tissue growing on my chest in the year 2009 it looks like a woman's brest and to make matter worst it did't match my skin colour its more fairer than my actual skin. It all started when i was still in secondary school i was in SS1 then, it caused me so many embarassment then because its showing in my uniform when ever the breeze is blowing towards my direction, you will notice that there is something in there, i avoided all forms of gatherings including my school assemblings, i avoided camps like a plague, i no longer use bare chest into the bathroom, not even singlet, i always wear shirts into the bathroom, since the year 2009 till date am still wearing shirts to the bathroom when ever am about to take my bath, and in all no body not even my mother or any of my family members has ever seen my chest or my back since 2009 till date as am typing this now, never had a relationship with any girl since then.
It has caused me great pains and sorrows, i just think i should end my life now because of this problem am so ashamed of my self, i don't know what to do with my life my life has been very miserable and pitiful since this problem started i just hate my self, i always loves been alone and i only moves at night with my normal shirts, any single movement in the daytime from me i always goes with my big sweater to make it less noticeable.
Am tired of life, my life is so frustrated and miserable all am always thinking about is how to end my life.
please nairalanders help me please if at all there is any solution to this problem. I want to know and how much it will cost to get rid of it.
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Please mods help me push this to front page to get more reviews and replys.

Carry your man-boobs with pride or opt for cosmetic surgery!!!!

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 4:48pm On Mar 28, 2016

Adaure4ever:
ofcourse yes, UNTH, LSUTH, etc

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If this is true ma, then i guess am the most happiest man on this planet right now, i will go to the hospital tomorrow. I know it will be very embarassing because am the very shy type. But i will try and it must be tomorrow.
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At least i still have a little hope of getting rid of it.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 4:48pm On Mar 28, 2016

iyibest:
It is well with you

. . Amen sir!

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Nobody: 4:49pm On Mar 28, 2016

LazyGoat:
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Thank you ma, i would not beleave i just shed a little tears with this great advice, God bless you ma. God bless you

It's well dear.

God bless you too.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Gr8amechi: 4:50pm On Mar 28, 2016

LazyGoat:
Hello dear nairalanders, there is this thread i saw on nairaland fp, about a man with a female brest who came to a church. And since that day i saw that thread my mind has not been at rest ever since, because i have been living with the same condition for over 5 years now, without anybody knowing except myself.
I have this big tissue on both sides on my brest under my nipple, it looks like a seed, at first when it first started it was so very painful for me, but now it is no longer painful.
I think i have endured this very shameful burden for so long now and i think now its the time i seek some solution to it before it will be too late.
Let me give a brief explanation on how this problem has affected my life in so many ways.
I will be 22 on july 13 this year.
It first noticed this tissue growing on my chest in the year 2009 it looks like a woman's brest and to make matter worst it did't match my skin colour its more fairer than my actual skin. It all started when i was still in secondary school i was in SS1 then, it caused me so many embarassment then because its showing in my uniform when ever the breeze is blowing towards my direction, you will notice that there is something in there, i avoided all forms of gatherings including my school assemblings, i avoided camps like a plague, i no longer use bare chest into the bathroom, not even singlet, i always wear shirts into the bathroom, since the year 2009 till date am still wearing shirts to the bathroom when ever am about to take my bath, and in all no body not even my mother or any of my family members has ever seen my chest or my back since 2009 till date as am typing this now, never had a relationship with any girl since then.
It has caused me great pains and sorrows, i just think i should end my life now because of this problem am so ashamed of my self, i don't know what to do with my life my life has been very miserable and pitiful since this problem started i just hate my self, i always loves been alone and i only moves at night with my normal shirts, any single movement in the daytime from me i always goes with my big sweater to make it less noticeable.
Am tired of life, my life is so frustrated and miserable all am always thinking about is how to end my life.
please nairalanders help me please if at all there is any solution to this problem. I want to know and how much it will cost to get rid of it.
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Please mods help me push this to front page to get more reviews and replys.

Thank God you were able to post this, please don't take advice randomly especially those saying go and gym, this is GYNECOMASTIA, agreed but there could be different root cause of it, the best advice is go see a doctor

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Empress2014(f): 4:51pm On Mar 28, 2016

Ekakamba:
He don't forking need a gf who can play with such abnormality. He needs advice on how to make it go. Mtcheew.

he thinks it's abnormality but it's not, he needs people to encourage him he can live a normal life like other men...stop the crap of he doesn't need a gf that can do that....mtcheeew...your comment can even make him commit suicide bcus u've point it out that it's abnormal

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Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 4:53pm On Mar 28, 2016

Gr8amechi:
Thank God you were able to post this, please don't take advice randomly especially those saying go and gym, this is GYNECOMASTIA, agreed but there could be different root cause of it, the best advice is go see a doctor

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Thank you sir! I will go and see a doctor to see what he has to say.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Empress2014(f): 4:53pm On Mar 28, 2016

Ekakamba:
He don't forking need a gf who can play with such abnormality. He needs advice on how to make it go. Mtcheew.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Jabioro: 4:54pm On Mar 28, 2016

Op you offended me,I mean my very self .how dare you have such abnormality, and keeping it to yourself ,,yourself only.It is very wrong and risky if is something that will kill within a very short period you won't has been .Anyway thanks to Nairaland and all commentator. Measure you see your parents right away ,then see medical doctor, it is not a strange thing ,it can be medically corrected .please I beg don't ever keep whatever illness with secret let the world jest of you,and get a solutions than suffering in silent...I for give you.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by 41lady(m): 4:55pm On Mar 28, 2016

OP, in addition to zeetyzin and other's advice of hitting the gym, stop if possible eating fried Chicken and beef. Engage in press-up/push up, take more fruits and vegetables like cucumber, orange, almond seed, watermelon e.t.c and see a doctor for professional advice.
Don't commit suicide pls.... life is sweet, u will not know untill U miss one day.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Nobody: 4:57pm On Mar 28, 2016

LazyGoat:
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If this is true ma, then i guess am the most happiest man on this planet right now, i will go to the hospital tomorrow. I know it will be very embarassing because am the very shy type. But i will try and it must be tomorrow.
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At least i still have a little hope of getting rid of it.

yes, go to the hospital and meet a doctor, don't be shy if they ask u to show it to them, they are medical officers and will help put you through..

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by Eze2000(m): 4:59pm On Mar 28, 2016

zeetyzin:
yes i experienced it when i attained puberty.
there where some hard tissues arround both nipples..
but they became soft some years after.
i did some weight lifting to boost my chest muscles which in turn occupied the fatty space.
hit the gym bro, it works

I second that.
I had the same problem at puberty but weight lifting and physical workouts solved it. I'm now proud of my chest muscles.
HIT THE GYM AND STAY THERE AT LEAST SIX MONTHS. U SHOULD HAVE GONE THERE 5 YEARS AGO

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 5:00pm On Mar 28, 2016

Jabioro:
Op you offended me,I mean my very self .how dare you have such abnormality, and keeping it to yourself ,,yourself only.It is very wrong and risky if is something that will kill within a very short period you won't has been .Anyway thanks to Nairaland and all commentator. Measure you see your parents right away ,then see medical doctor, it is not a strange thing ,it can be medically corrected .please I beg don't ever keep whatever illness with secret let the world jest of you,and get a solutions than suffering in silent...I for give you.

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Thank you sir, but sir i also have some other conditions in my body that am hiding because of shame, they are even more worst that this. I don't even think i can dis close them here. Because its so shameful.
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Thank you sir!

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by ojac1: 5:01pm On Mar 28, 2016

Pls let's see a pix. What u are describing tends to be confusing. I'm a. Dr. Cheers

LazyGoat:
Hello dear nairalanders, there is this thread i saw on nairaland fp, about a man with a female brest who came to a church. And since that day i saw that thread my mind has not been at rest ever since, because i have been living with the same condition for over 5 years now, without anybody knowing except myself.
I have this big tissue on both sides on my brest under my nipple, it looks like a seed, at first when it first started it was so very painful for me, but now it is no longer painful.
I think i have endured this very shameful burden for so long now and i think now its the time i seek some solution to it before it will be too late.
Let me give a brief explanation on how this problem has affected my life in so many ways.
I will be 22 on july 13 this year.
It first noticed this tissue growing on my chest in the year 2009 it looks like a woman's brest and to make matter worst it did't match my skin colour its more fairer than my actual skin. It all started when i was still in secondary school i was in SS1 then, it caused me so many embarassment then because its showing in my uniform when ever the breeze is blowing towards my direction, you will notice that there is something in there, i avoided all forms of gatherings including my school assemblings, i avoided camps like a plague, i no longer use bare chest into the bathroom, not even singlet, i always wear shirts into the bathroom, since the year 2009 till date am still wearing shirts to the bathroom when ever am about to take my bath, and in all no body not even my mother or any of my family members has ever seen my chest or my back since 2009 till date as am typing this now, never had a relationship with any girl since then.
It has caused me great pains and sorrows, i just think i should end my life now because of this problem am so ashamed of my self, i don't know what to do with my life my life has been very miserable and pitiful since this problem started i just hate my self, i always loves been alone and i only moves at night with my normal shirts, any single movement in the daytime from me i always goes with my big sweater to make it less noticeable.
Am tired of life, my life is so frustrated and miserable all am always thinking about is how to end my life.
please nairalanders help me please if at all there is any solution to this problem. I want to know and how much it will cost to get rid of it.
.
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Please mods help me push this to front page to get more reviews and replys.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by LazyGoat(op): 5:01pm On Mar 28, 2016

41lady:
OP, in addition to zeetyzin and other's advice of hitting the gym, stop if possible eating fried Chicken and beef. Engage in press-up/push up, take more fruits and vegetables like cucumber, orange, almond seed, watermelon e.t.c and see a doctor for professional advice.
Don't commit suicide pls.... life is sweet, u will not know untill U miss one day.

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Thank you sir, i will do as you instructed sir.

Re: Help He Wants To Commit Suicide Because Of A Female Brest Growing On His Chest by danemenike: 5:02pm On Mar 28, 2016

NIGERIANS are funny people, just dishing advise like you guys know what the OP is going through. OP pls listen carefully to what I'm to say.....
I noticed those breast tissues when I was in secondary school, JSS3 to be precise. I still hate the experience, I was in boarding school it wasn't easy @ all, my friends used it mock me.....Forget all this talk to a doctor, talk ur mum, talk to this or that. I spoke to my Pastor about my condition, did it change the way I felt? the answer is NO. Until that tissue is removed you will continue to feel depressed, very depressed infact. My pastor who is a doctor connected me 2 a doctor who led me UNIVERSITY OF NIGERIA TEACHING HOSPITAL, ITUKO OZOLLA where I underwent surgery and the tissues were partially removed. why shld they advise you to hit the gym, don't the know that shirts are removed in the gym centers? well I don't blame them, they don't know what you are going through.
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