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BoiledHead:
There is this girl i was in a relationship with 7 years ago. We were devoted to each other. In fact, we met at a crusade so i was happy i have found someone who isnt like me. And i tried my best to repent just for her sake. She broke my heart 2 years later. Cheated on me in my face!

I let her be. I remember then she had financial issues and her sister needed a transplant surgery, i know how hard i worked to raise that money to save her sister. What did i get as thank you? Oh yes, my girlfriend with another guy in my own bed! That same year, the guy used her and dumped her. She didnt have the guts to come back to me, so we went our separate ways.

Just last week easter she came around. We got talking again and seems something has gone wrong with her sister again and it is critical. She needs my help now. I saw her and her sis as the sister was a good friend to me even for the past 5 years we still talked even hang out some time. The sister is lying sick in some hospital her father is late and the mother doesnt have much so she remembered me.

I think this is the right time to take my revenge of 5 years ago. I have the money to save her sister but what can i do to make her pay for what she did 5 years ago? (Although she apologized 5 years ago, i did not forgive and i did not forget). I want her to feel the pain that i felt when she cheated on me. I know how i took a dangerous loan from my boss to save her sis then. My boss almost arrested me because i failed to pay thanks to my brothers who helped me pay back and she cheated on me after everything.

I want her to pay! I don't want the sister to be the instrument of my revenge if i do not help the sister and leave her to her fate. What else can i do? Or do i use the sister?

truth is this, op you already had your revenge by becoming successful and not accepting her back and bear in mind that she s filled with regrets till date..if the sis is really that sick then help her out, am sure you created a bond with the sick sis.

Jes think about dis! What will jesus do if he were in ur position?

Cutehector:
Pay for her sister's medications and marry her sister!

That is d best revenge

how do you know if 'the sister' is fine sef

THE BEST REVENGE BY THATNAIJANIGGER:
1)Tell her you'd help her sis only if she sleeps with you,make it sound like yu miss her nd u just want to be with her one more time in bed
2)Take 2 bottles of origin with baby oku and bleep her in a way she wont forget you in the next 20yrs and use a hidden camera to record it
3)After the sex,tell her you wudda helped the sis with or without the sex,all you wanted to do was to f**k her and record it to humilate her..
If i were in your shoes this is what i wudda done.
#SheMustBeDealtWith

Vinshu:
I love this!

Yes use the sister. Sometimes the best way to revenge is by hurting who they love the most. Enact your revenge on the sister.

Leave her alone. Don't help her. I understand how you feel. That's why I am encouraging you to ensure she feels it.

Also let her know it's because of what she did. That's the best part.

Jeez! Ure evil!

Op u just said it yourself, u don't want her sister to b d instrument of ur revenge.... I tell u op revenge does not pay. she has begged u for forgiveness, I no it is hard but u need to let it go, forgive and forget. if u cannot forgive ur frd how much more will ur father in heaven forgive u. and God gave u dat money for a reason.

OP, if your mind tells you to help, do so. If you're having second thoughts about helping, then don't!

You really are not obligated to help them.

However, because you don't help her doesn't mean someone else won't.

One thing I've learnt in life is you are miserable if u refuse to let go of old wounds, to be more happy you have to forgive. Anyways, the girl has already learnt her lesson in a hard way and I'm very sure she has died inside a lot of times and she is regretting what she did in the past. You are her last option, that's why she came to you for help, do not rub it in her face, you've been justified already, if u can, help her, if not tell her you can't and remember no one knows tomorrow, you might need her help in the nearest future.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Jeez! Ure evil!

I'm not. People should pay for their bad things

Vinshu:
I'm not. People should pay for their bad things

You really are dark!!!

@op. Help the sister if you can afford it. Your reward is in God's hands.


Just ignore the cheating skank.

sir, u can only make ur revenge by saving her sis......it won't only save a soul but also kill her somehow emotionally.....pls don't let her sis pay for what she did.....save a soul bro

Cutehector:
it's not a matter of may, it's sealed already.. u have been sacrificing for her sister all these while while u were loving the wrong person...


God has been using her to make u come closer to her sister. Something u should realize. The handwriting on the wall is nw very clear to u. Pls dnt fail to read and understand it. Her sister is d one

Marry just like that? Lollll

Monalisa185:
come, e be like sey atomic bomb dey your head abi? don't you know how to click the "REPLY" button to give your own opinion? why must you quote me to tell me that my opinion is "RUBBISH" when you ain't even the op?

RUBBISH!!!

Tabula rasa!!!!!!

Cutehector:
it's not a matter of may, it's sealed already.. u have been sacrificing for her sister all these while while u were loving the wrong person...


God has been using her to make u come closer to her sister. Something u should realize. The handwriting on the wall is nw very clear to u. Pls dnt fail to read and understand it. Her sister is d one

Thanks bro

BoiledHead:
There is this girl i was in a relationship with 7 years ago. We were devoted to each other. In fact, we met at a crusade so i was happy i have found someone who isnt like me. And i tried my best to repent just for her sake. She broke my heart 2 years later. Cheated on me in my face!

I let her be. I remember then she had financial issues and her sister needed a transplant surgery, i know how hard i worked to raise that money to save her sister. What did i get as thank you? Oh yes, my girlfriend with another guy in my own bed! That same year, the guy used her and dumped her. She didnt have the guts to come back to me, so we went our separate ways.

Just last week easter she came around. We got talking again and seems something has gone wrong with her sister again and it is critical. She needs my help now. I saw her and her sis as the sister was a good friend to me even for the past 5 years we still talked even hang out some time. The sister is lying sick in some hospital her father is late and the mother doesnt have much so she remembered me.

I think this is the right time to take my revenge of 5 years ago. I have the money to save her sister but what can i do to make her pay for what she did 5 years ago? (Although she apologized 5 years ago, i did not forgive and i did not forget). I want her to feel the pain that i felt when she cheated on me. I know how i took a dangerous loan from my boss to save her sis then. My boss almost arrested me because i failed to pay thanks to my brothers who helped me pay back and she cheated on me after everything.

I want her to pay! I don't want the sister to be the instrument of my revenge if i do not help the sister and leave her to her fate. What else can i do? Or do i use the sister?

Only God forgives and only a fool forgets. Temper revenge with mercy, but never fall a victim again. U can never underestimate the power of a woman, u might fall for her again.

Vinshu:
I love this!

Yes use the sister. Sometimes the best way to revenge is by hurting who they love the most. Enact your revenge on the sister.

Leave her alone. Don't help her. I understand how you feel. That's why I am encouraging you to ensure she feels it.

Also let her know it's because of what she did. That's the best part.

what an advice!! have being inclined to read some of ur comments on this forum and trust me they all seem short ranged...I can't imagine what kinda specie u are, to literally give that kind of advice ...u sure have a loved one ?? #its not every time u have to be shallow with ur reasoning...

BoiledHead:
There is this girl i was in a relationship with 7 years ago. We were devoted to each other. In fact, we met at a crusade so i was happy i have found someone who isnt like me. And i tried my best to repent just for her sake. She broke my heart 2 years later. Cheated on me in my face!

I let her be. I remember then she had financial issues and her sister needed a transplant surgery, i know how hard i worked to raise that money to save her sister. What did i get as thank you? Oh yes, my girlfriend with another guy in my own bed! That same year, the guy used her and dumped her. She didnt have the guts to come back to me, so we went our separate ways.

Just last week easter she came around. We got talking again and seems something has gone wrong with her sister again and it is critical. She needs my help now. I saw her and her sis as the sister was a good friend to me even for the past 5 years we still talked even hang out some time. The sister is lying sick in some hospital her father is late and the mother doesnt have much so she remembered me.

I think this is the right time to take my revenge of 5 years ago. I have the money to save her sister but what can i do to make her pay for what she did 5 years ago? (Although she apologized 5 years ago, i did not forgive and i did not forget). I want her to feel the pain that i felt when she cheated on me. I know how i took a dangerous loan from my boss to save her sis then. My boss almost arrested me because i failed to pay thanks to my brothers who helped me pay back and she cheated on me after everything.

I want her to pay! I don't want the sister to be the instrument of my revenge if i do not help the sister and leave her to her fate. What else can i do? Or do i use the sister?

u mentioned u and her sister are quite close. Why dont u do it for the sister and not her, it would have been a different case if ur Ex was the sicl one here.

Save the sister and move one, act like u did just it for the sister and not for ur Ex

optimistbynature:
what an advice!! have being inclined to read some of ur comments on this forum and trust me they all seem short ranged...I can't imagine what kinda specie u are, to literally give that kind of advice ...u sure have a loved one ?? #its not every time u have to be shallow with ur reasoning...

Say whatever you want. The op wanted a tip on how to get his revenge. That is what I gave him so take your hypocrisy else where.

help her sister, tell ur ex that you didnt wanna help cos of what she did. lash at her and walk away. i can guarantee that guilty conscience will eat her up.

Take revenge

Vinshu:
I love this!

Yes use the sister. Sometimes the best way to revenge is by hurting who they love the most. Enact your revenge on the sister.

Leave her alone. Don't help her. I understand how you feel. That's why I am encouraging you to ensure she feels it.

Also let her know it's because of what she did. That's the best part.

Op 4give her and 4get,...even if u dont help her sister, i understand its acceptable..but never ever heed the advice of a Lithwack,.. labusa

Will ur concience allow u to seat and watch someone die when u have the power to save her?..its up to you..

****..its up to u.

Vinshu:
I love this!

Yes use the sister. Sometimes the best way to revenge is by hurting who they love the most. Enact your revenge on the sister.

Leave her alone. Don't help her. I understand how you feel. That's why I am encouraging you to ensure she feels it.

Also let her know it's because of what she did. That's the best part.

That's so cold... the Sis did nothing wrong..

emitoz:
That's so cold... the Sis did nothing wrong..

When two elephant fight, the grass suffers.

Vinshu:
I love this!

Yes use the sister. Sometimes the best way to revenge is by hurting who they love the most. Enact your revenge on the sister.

Leave her alone. Don't help her. I understand how you feel. That's why I am encouraging you to ensure she feels it.

Also let her know it's because of what she did. That's the best part.

Seriously!!! Which coven do you belong to?

[quote author=coolsix post=44252933]This is the best revenge:

Tell her it is because of what she did 5 years ago, that you wont help save her sister. So whatever happens to her sister, will be on her hands. Not yours. Then walk away. I like this. Forgive ko.. forget ni[/
May your family members never suffer from your stupidity IJN. Amen

BoiledHead:
Thanks i'm also considering it.

Preservation of life above all. May your conscience be your judge

Vinshu:
I love this!

Yes use the sister. Sometimes the best way to revenge is by hurting who they love the most. Enact your revenge on the sister.

Leave her alone. Don't help her. I understand how you feel. That's why I am encouraging you to ensure she feels it.

Also let her know it's because of what she did. That's the best part.

are you for real

Apina:
Seriously!!! Which coven do you belong to?

None.

stubbornman:
are you for real

Yeah

Vinshu:
Yeah

its kinda crazy dear