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Cholls:
my brother Lies only hurt if you know about them.If she is pro at keeping it secret then I dont know and I dont care.I would prefer her to cheat on me and be more happy than be faithful and unhappy.
Because if woman is unhappy she will make your life a hell.

sadly, LIES and TRUTH hurts, because obviously, if your wife is happier with someone else then such TRUTH will hurt you (thats the reason why you dont want to know about it)... so, in a way, you'd rather be happy living a FAKE life, instead of accepting reality and being REAL to one another. why stay together if you cant even be honest to this person?!

what i see here is the same thing as the women who are miserable in marriage but do not want to divorce their deadbeat evil partner, in order to keep the charade that they are "happily married". another version of NIGERIANS PRETENDING/LIVING FAKE LIVES

MRBrownJ:
sadly, LIES and TRUTH hurts, because obviously, if your wife is happier with someone else then such TRUTH will hurt you (thats the reason why you dont want to know about it)... so, in a way, you'd rather be happy living a FAKE life, instead of accepting reality and being REAL to one another. why stay together if you cant even be honest to this person?!

what i see here is the same thing as the women who are miserable in marriage but do not want to divorce their deadbeat evil partner, in order to keep the charade that they are "happily married". another version of NIGERIANS PRETENDING/LIVING FAKE LIVES

my brother I've never been married but I'm fairly loyal, in part out of my own moral code, in part because of sheer laziness, in part because of relative contentedness in relationship, and in part because I can hardly tolerate 1 woman, much less 2. The only times I've cheated was when the trust was gone in the relationship anyway.

Cholls:
my brother I've never been married but I'm fairly loyal, in part out of my own moral code, in part because of sheer laziness, in part because of relative contentedness in relationship, and in part because I can hardly tolerate 1 woman, much less 2. The only times I've cheated was when the trust was gone in the relationship anyway.

@the above in bold
- was cheating gonna bring back the trust in that r/ship?
- why didnt you just leave the r/ship since there was no trust any longer?

MRBrownJ:
@the above in bold
- was cheating gonna bring back the trust in that r/ship?
- why didnt you just leave the r/ship since there was no trust any longer?

my brother i can tell you in all seriousness, i tend to have what i can only describe as little panic attacks at the thought of being faithful to a woman starting at that point for who knows how long. then i remember i can always do it without them knowing and everything is ok again

Cholls:
my brother i can tell you in all seriousness, i tend to have what i can only describe as little panic attacks at the thought of being faithful to a woman starting at that point for who knows how long. then i remember i can always do it without them knowing and everything is ok again

thats because you havent met the RIGHT woman, with whom your heart/mind will be so at ease, that all your phobias will disappear (and you will finally live a normal life). if cheating makes you be at peace with yourself then something is wrong with you, because you dont cheat as a weakness/desire for a sexy/beautiful women you met, you cheat as a NECESSITY in your life (aka an addiction)

i had a friend like you before, he was so damaged that he didnt believe that a woman could love and be faithful to him ever, so he would cheat with whoever he could find (like an insurance policy), so that "if ever" his woman cheated on him, he would have the satisfaction to say he did it 1st. that is as sick as the arab proverb who says "Beat your wife once a week, If you don't know why, she will certainly know"

Yes, I can be faithful to one woman(wife).

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