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For me it depends on the girl am dealing with

Kath5kouture:
Listen to yourself! LovePeddler patroniser!

Yinmu....

First meeting is not avenue to eat rice and chicken as if your life depend on it .Poor ladies will order all manners of food ,this is poverty mentality ! I

stingy guys plenty for ere oooo,guys u askin a lady on a date n u r tellin er to com to ur hauz,wats she comin to ur hauz to do?. If u spend 2k on a date to buy snacks or food for a gal is nt a bad idea,she left er comfort zone to see u,at least u shud offer her sometyn evn if its jxt a drink n u galz shud stop expectin much frm a guy on a first date.

rosieluv:
stingy guys plenty for ere oooo,guys u askin a lady on a date n u r tellin er to com to ur hauz,wats she comin to ur hauz to do?. If u spend 2k on a date to buy snacks or food for a gal is nt a bad idea,she left er comfort zone to see u,at least u shud offer her sometyn evn if its jxt a drink n u galz shud stop expectin much frm a guy on a first date.

You are right it is wrong for a guy to invite a gal to his house for a date ,however if a lady take just juice or water on a date it is not a sin! Most ladies eat as if their lives depend on d food .Ladies eat in your house before going on a date.Guys don't spend to impress a lady .Why should a guy buy meat pie for himself and chicken for a gal ?

rosalieene:
That was how last year, a very foolish Doctor that was pestering my life invited me over. Truly I liked him then. so I happened to be around the town he stays at that point and he begged me to come visit. I did..... nothing much...had d guts to even tell me to come and spend the next weekend with him. He didn't offer any better thing.I was just observing. I noticed what he was after. When I was going, he escorted me to WHR I will take Bus and left. I was so dumbfounded!!! He didn't even say manage this for your tfare. Chai.... ayaf suffer! All this stingy guys!!! I was just pondering about this.
Later he moved to another state, and had the guts to tell me again to come and visit him!! I told him bluntly, I don't have tfare...... Then he said I should come that he will give me tfare but I would stay one week with him. I was so vexed ehen! I insulted him ehen, because I knew what he wanted to achieve!! Mumu.

mayb he is testing u.

butanep:
Don't mind them. They expect us to leave our family and spend the money on them. Thats how my ex disturb me for 10k to block a course in school. I told her I don't have such money but will give her 4k and she refused. She tag me as uncaring guy and being stingy. I simply called my young brother in school and immediately transfer 5k to his account from my phone. He thank me and was so happy. I told her the money she rejected has put smile on someone else face.

She refused paying me visit for 2weeks but when she came the 3rd week, another woman has taken her place...

some gals shaa.

rosieluv:
stingy guys plenty for ere oooo,guys u askin a lady on a date n u r tellin er to com to ur hauz,wats she comin to ur hauz to do?. If u spend 2k on a date to buy snacks or food for a gal is nt a bad idea,she left er comfort zone to see u,at least u shud offer her sometyn evn if its jxt a drink n u galz shud stop expectin much frm a guy on a first date.

u sounded like a wife material

No 8, can be so annoying

wristbangle:
I find it very shameful and ridiculous when I see guys complaining that they can't spend on a lady whom they barely know on first date because they are yet to tumble beneath the sheets and that she may eventually reject their love proposal.

Even when they choose to spend on a lady, their reluctance will be so glaring just like someone being forced at gun point to drop his money and this is the reason why some ladies have resorted to attach terms and conditions before a guy can take them on a date.

So ladies if you notice the following characteristics in a guy on first date, just know that he is the stingy type.

1. He orders cheap foods for you

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that before they can order bottle water or sausage roll for a lady, they will think over and over again. Even when they are about to order such meals, they will whisper at the lady's ear that "don't you think it's better for us to buy these stuffs outside?". Can't you see that it's too expensive here? Funny enough, it's their type that will blow trumpet loud on how they spend immense money on a lady at exotic restaurants.

2. He will demand sex in exchange for his money spent

I consider this act as a big disgrace and any guy guilty of this act deserves some lashes of cane. Simply because you bought N200 suya for a lady during your first date, that doesn't give you a free entry to her kitty cat. I mean you spend such a ridiculously meagre amount and you expect a lady to surrender her body cheaply? Bros, you need Jesus in your life.

3. He chooses local restaurant for date

Sometimes I wonder how on earth a reasonable guy will take a lady to an untidy restaurant whose foods has been contaminated with flies. Just because a plate of rice goes for N100 with the inclusion of a big rotten meat, he will start feeling on top of the world that he has satisfied the lady. Anyway with the crop of ladies nowadays, I don't think they can tolerate this bullshit from any guy.

4. Sharing of Bills

It is only a stingy guy that will request that bills be split on a first date. This is an act of stinginess coupled with low self esteem. To be very candid, no lady in her right sense of reasoning will ever date such a man unless she has no choice.

5. He complains bitterly if you request for quite expensive meals

Some guys can never cease to amaze me because by the time the lady they take out on a first date request for rice and chicken, they will start looking in discomfort just like the way GEJ was looking when he lost to Buhari. The prefer the lady orders for just a bottle of coke and meat pie but when she orders for a plate of rice, discomfort will be registered on his face

6. He won't order for any meal

One of the characteristic of stingy guys on a first date is that, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating, but will be salivating inside of them. Who's deceiving who?. All they do is to engage her into meaningless discussion hoping to land her in bed.

7. Eagerness to leave you in order to avoid paying your T-Fare

This reminds of the story a female friend of mine shared about how a guy abandoned her at a bus terminus simply because he stylishly wants to dodge paying her transport fare back home even when she affirmed that he is not under her obligation to pay. Some guys think they can play smart by doing this but honestly speaking, It doesn't speak well for a gentleman.

8. He tells you his house or no where else

Another characteristic of a stingy dude is that he will always be bent on a lady coming to his house or she should forget about it. This is because he doesn't want to lose a kobo.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can also add yours

You are right, but sometimes women take advantage of the fact that they aren't paying so they order anything, when right inside them they know they can never agree for the guy. If some girls like you they can kiss and Bleep you even if it's only 200 naira you have spent.

Too many complains about who is stingy and who is not nonsense, why not make your own money and be self sufficient? if you want heaven you buy it without disturbing or expecting some other individual to do it for you. If they invite you for an outing you let them buy what they can afford if you don't like it you use your money to buy more or whatever you want, TF is wrong with people's interest in other people's expenses.

Slimzjoe:
With the Economic Situation of Things, I think its Very Selfish and Wicked of you to Mock That N!gga.

Did he or did he not still Feed your Hungry Stomach and Also Send you home?

Most people that call others broke in such situations are the real broke azzes because if you can afford that thing like a snap of your fingers then it wouldn't be a big deal. Its a psychological problem with many hungry girls, what a pity.

Onyintology:
I've experienced this shit....we went to shoprite , at the counter my guy begin dey look for his wallet...begin questioning the price of some of the goods we picked...I was embarrassed ...we had to drop some of the items we picked ..WORST DAY OF MY LIFE .. I've experienced this shit....we went to shoprite , at the counter my guy begin dey look for his wallet...begin questioning the price of some of the goods we picked...I was embarrassed ...we had to drop some of the items we picked ..WORST DAY OF MY LIFE ..

you could have helped him out dear in order to save you both the embarrassment. That's being an asset dear.

if u make up ur mind u wan go on a date..package better money for pocket and call it sacrifice..them no dey tie person rope for neck drag am go on a date..if u no get enough money,,take ur self to one better joint buy origin and suya for your self ....and watch manchester united game..

Some girls kitchen for ouse be lyk poultry....y do I av to take them to exotic restaurant wen dey are already used to yakoyo, mama bomboy,mama put,iya sikira...Make dem cum disgrace me abi...#I want jellof rize and okro,pliizzz add stock fish and dried fish,ila alasepo is also gud with plenty iru...#iyama

Etiquette is wen a lady insists they split the bill on a first date..it's just common sense, a show of maturity and independence..

Wen a guy tells u politely that the meal is quite expensive and u still want to eat...Madame ure nothing but a DESTINY EATER..#witch.

If a cute fit (works out) guy asks you out to dinner ...after the meal the next tin most ladies imagine is ''this guy is cute,gentle,calm,quite rich,az 6 pacs" Mmm I hope he is not impotent,or az small d**k" durrrrh, so me asking u to open your yansh and bend down afta taking u out is just to show you Aw wrng ur thinking iz..I'm just bin considerate...