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Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Ayauche(f): 11:58am On Apr 07, 2016
firstking01:
how does that statement consyn you, or are you guilty??

Just go and receive sense my dear.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by sLentlover7778(m): 11:58am On Apr 07, 2016
That's exactly what APC supporter said during GEJ tenure. Dem dey regret now... wishing they could have stay under GEJ instead of leave





cruzita:
undecided what I'm I waiting for?I will leave and go to were I will be appreciated not tolerated
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by ATMC(f): 12:00pm On Apr 07, 2016
halfricanadian:


Tank u very mch

Its my choice my life my way my desires


By the way if not for d fact u were so so eagar to blast me u wud av noticed i didnt mean i wanna date d guy bt cos of d insult bf gave i returned d favor nd now u tellin me bou datin some one new !

Smh nlders b very swift dan usain bolt to judge me

Nd to b fair its allowed do u i do me! No body win nobody loose
Fair? Most of the people on here do not know what FAIR is. It's pitiable.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by ifeomaekol(f): 12:01pm On Apr 07, 2016
The words ll hurt me bt I ll nt do anything, jux simply walk away frm him @ dt moment and away frm d r/shp too. No need slapping him, he did me a favour by telling me on time hw he sees n feels abt me, no need creating a scene.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by flokii: 12:02pm On Apr 07, 2016
@OP

if I be girl.. I'll stop looking at d event

as simple as a,b,c...
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by kazyhm(m): 12:02pm On Apr 07, 2016
hisoko:
1 . the guy must be very insecure with himself for having a reaction out of his girl giving another guy a hug,

2. he has trust issues

3. he has a very expired and ancient idea of how his girlfriend should act around other guys

4. if this simple act of human interaction results in such a demeaning verbal abuse, one wonders what sort of demons this bf possesses deep within that will cause many harsh and xrated insults hailed at the gf

5. this will only continue as the bf will find any and all excuse to accuse the gf in cheating him


6. the girl will, from seeing this kind of comment, subcontiously be hugging guys outside of the bf's vision ,

7. she would unwittingly start lying, little white lies initially, and also start hiding things from him

8. the relationship will fail eventually anyway because there is no respect




stop judging the scene bro
you're not in their relationship
some girls can be very dramatical
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by firstking01(m): 12:03pm On Apr 07, 2016
Ayauche:


Just go and receive sense my dear.
hehehehe...na only person wey carry shiit for nyash wey fly dey followgrin...one word for you, stop giving\having illegitimate sex with men who dnt have your interest @heart sweeryundecided...i'm not here to banter words with you, just a word of advice.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by uchennaq(m): 12:07pm On Apr 07, 2016
[b]Most contributors here are shallow minded, there are issues that lead to something. This story is incomplete and am talking from experience. Insecurity in any relationship can be caused by so many things. No relationship is secured if it is one sided. I have a girl I love so much and she claims she do love me(quote), but her character says otherwise.

1. A girl that finds it difficult to call, only call to express her love month ending because I give her monthly stipend.
2. A girl that doesn't even remember my birthday, has never bought a single boxer or even socks for me, which is not even my problem. I just needed her concern towards my birthday(she doesn't know). But I keep on trying my best to shower her with blessings ranging from cash to when Nokia x came, she was the first set to use it.
3. I know it's not ideal for a Man to read women sms, the day I stumbled on her sms, I saw all sorts of useless text. Obvious that she cheated on me yet I still love her.
4. A girl that claim she was raped in school, that why she had a baby out of wedlock, yet I still stood by her and supported her, including the lovely baby I love and care for so much.
5. A girl that can't and has never put up my pic on her whatsapp before yet she puts other peoples pic(Men as whatsapp DP), where is the love?
6. A girl that asks for money money and has no time to talk about marriage, yet she is not getting young.
7. Now she wants me to support her in school, when will I start having my own life, since she is not interested in marriage...shouldn't I start investing on the girl I want to marry, if i see one?

It's very unfortunate that people wake up and type useless responses with their useless Symbian phones on trivial matters like this. I have being a victim of this issue. DO YOU EXPECT THE WRITER TO TELL YOU THE FULL STORY....WHY WON'T I GET ANNOYED? MY EXPERIENCE. [/b]

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Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Apr 07, 2016
angry Who u epp? Who u epp? Who u epp? U don baff? Who u serve? Don't slam my door whats wrong with you angry
Se television nie ni ko ye mi gan
Ye se frapapa kilo gbena papa
Kini nkan na kini toti lapa
Emi luko gan ibile buruku ni mio
H-factor abale sha or kin tabon
Mio form posh mio so oyinbo ju
Gboju nbe ko’lor gba ile s’agboju
Huhuh mio fe mo sha
Emi lion, eyan baddo osha
Shout out to my ngga Tunji Adeleke
Anywhere taba tidale gbogbo wanma ferege
Emi o worry o, un bothered
So girlfriend mi you’re covered
Coming through, issue
Pounds sterling lawa fin se tissue
Married to the game olojun mio kin sun
Fvck my exes cos i don’t miss you
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Gassa007: 12:10pm On Apr 07, 2016
MzLarem:
'The only difference btw you nd sum1 sleeping with a prostitute is dat u don't park @ d corner of d street to hire one'..Dat will be my reply nd I'll call it quit with his ass..God 4bid I cry over such guy cos he's nt worth crying over..Life goes on!!!
Then you are in another relationship, opening your legs once again for the new boyfriend and goes on....
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Apr 07, 2016
How did this made front. ..This NL administrator na really dumb
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by legendsilver(m): 12:24pm On Apr 07, 2016
halfricanadian:
I will simply tell him the only difference between him and the guy i just hugged is dat d other guy is more charming at heart than him!

Nd i take my leave!
maybe you haven't read Isaiah 4 vs1.

This verse will calm your busy body down grin
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Apr 07, 2016
firstking01:
Op, in general, i dnt think there's much diff, if et-all there's diff between a girl who constantly have sex with her bf and a prostitute...the line between the two of em is very thin.


by your logic, all girls are prostitutes right?
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by sben2308(m): 12:26pm On Apr 07, 2016
All I can say is that if u r in his shoes will u not do more Dan that ?
I advise to avoid future issue,alwz define ur relationship with people and Pls both party should alwz carry each other along cuz atimes we r unpredictable I tell u .Note I think he said that out of anger cuz its was unexpected for him.


And for those saying it's d end that they will not take rubbish then I say u r not mature enough yet to be in a relationship cuz a good and wonderful relationship will stress u to b better because good tinz nevr comes easy .

So pls alwz carry each other along cuz u might b d one tomorrow seeing him hug someone and ur action will shock u .Believe me

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Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by onstelly(f): 12:28pm On Apr 07, 2016
unapapadeycraze:
Let's look at this event.

Mayb your boyfriend saw you with a guy, perhaps you were hugging him and he got infuriated and said "the only difference between you and a pros.titute is dat you don't stay at the corner of the streets at night." what would you do?
You try oh
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by echike(m): 12:29pm On Apr 07, 2016
I will be shocked at the comment and definitely take him on it at the appropriate time. Activate *frown*
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by firstking01(m): 12:37pm On Apr 07, 2016
ollah1:



by your logic, all girls are prostitutes right?
I beseech you to think young manundecided, think, again i say thinkundecided...then come back and qoute me wrong...




Note, all beggers are beggers, the diff in some is just their location...think brother.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by shehuolayinka(m): 12:41pm On Apr 07, 2016
Sorry you can't blame the guy, he is probably a jealous type and someone with a trust issue. My take on this, is that when ladies know they are dating a jealous dude, they need to be cautious atimes with opposite sex. I was always like that some few years back, but I later noticed that some girls are not worth the stress. If you notice or have the impression that they are cheating just they look and do your part (sleeping with her hard) and leave her later. But in the process they look for better girl. No time sweating over a lady that is not worth it.

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Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Apr 07, 2016
firstking01:
I beseech you to think young manundecided, think, again i say thinkundecided...then come back and qoute me wrong...




Note, all beggers are beggers, the diff in some is just their location...think brother.

You aren't making any sense
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by halfricanadian(f): 12:45pm On Apr 07, 2016
legendsilver:
maybe you haven't read Isaiah 4 vs1.

This verse will calm your busy body down grin


oga i go for wat i want no story!!!!!!!!
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by firstking01(m): 12:46pm On Apr 07, 2016
ollah1:


You aren't making any sense
well, since i have 3 witnesses concerning my statement, i ain't bothered...i dnt have to make sense to everybody, you know cool
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by kascoman: 12:47pm On Apr 07, 2016
The truth of the matter is that, ladies stop hugging another man in the presence of ur guy, no man will tolerate that unless d guy is a dummy. Though d reaction to it might be different, am not in support of foul language d guy used for his girl friend. But atleast, ur guy deserves respect too, u can't hug a man in d presence of ur guy and expect him to praise u.
NB:- men are jealous than women.

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Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by unapapadeycraze: 12:48pm On Apr 07, 2016
onstelly:

You try oh

Yes darling, thanks to lalasticlala.



Lalasticlala, I nvr knew you are this nice. Let this continuecheesy.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by karleone(m): 12:53pm On Apr 07, 2016
halfricanadian:

Nd to b fair its allowed do u i do me! No body win nobody loose
You neva hear "First to do no dey pain"?
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by halfricanadian(f): 1:00pm On Apr 07, 2016
karleone:


You neva hear "First to do no dey pain"?

cheesy bt he who laughs last laughs best too
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by RexTramadol1: 1:00pm On Apr 07, 2016
Cheap girls everywhere


Y u go hug anoda man boyfriend if u no be olosho fvcktard!



The guy suppose talk more.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by adroitvezy(m): 1:04pm On Apr 07, 2016
Just reading comments...
I think guys should know there gf cuz some girls like to dey share share hug and peck any how.
Understanding is key. Seek to know understand before action.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Sistem007(m): 1:05pm On Apr 07, 2016
I hate seeing posts where the situation cited isn't lucid enough and I am asked to judge or react. More light has to be thrown on this for you to get a perfect judgment else u will get a one sided response from everybody.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by Rajosh(m): 1:05pm On Apr 07, 2016
you're probably dating a kid. this is why they said relationship is not for kids. he is a small boy in a grown body.
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by karleone(m): 1:08pm On Apr 07, 2016
halfricanadian:

cheesy bt he who laughs last laughs best too
That's the point I'm trying to make. At the end of everything, the second bidder wins the day!
Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by AAABBB123: 1:10pm On Apr 07, 2016
hugging and hugged are different....hugging in a context could mean n leads to another thing....Moreover, most guys I know will not just say that if they didn't know something else is happening or about to....the place he saw u, the time, the guy he saw u with, and your personal record plays an important role in his reaction.....

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Re: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by halfricanadian(f): 1:10pm On Apr 07, 2016
karleone:


That's the point I'm trying to make.
At the end of everything, the second bidder wins the day!

cheesy ok

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