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Hello nairalanders. I'm in my early thirties. I had my first daughter wen i was 22, den i was in my 200l in the uni. During my youth service i met another man. We love each other & courted for 4years before we did our introduction, we picked this june for our wedding. I got pregnant in december, but in march problems started. He said he is not the one responsible for the pregnancy that it is a bastard child, he does not want to have anything to do with me again and all that. To my surprise, his family supported him. I told him we will go for a dna test but he said he is not ready for a stupid test. I am almost 6months gone and i can not terminate the pregnancy anymore. By then boyfriend who i had my 1st child for met wit me yesterday after 7years but broke into tears as he has come to marry me but another baby is involved now. Kindly advise me on what to do. What comes to my mind is suicide.

This is serious oo.
If u are on fbk, goan like 'Amara van-lare's page. She will definitely help u.

Again, it's is serious.
Lalatisclala, what's d solution

which kind devil be this self wey no want your happiness.sister ask God for a way and he will surely show u the way forward.Goodluck

Afolasade2016:
Hello nairalanders. I'm in my early thirties. I had my first daughter wen i was 22, den i was in my 200l in the uni. During my youth service i met another man. We love each other & courted for 4years before we did our introduction, we picked this june for our wedding. I got pregnant in december, but in march problems started. He said he is not the one responsible for the pregnancy that it is a bastard child, he does not want to have anything to do with me again and all that. To my surprise, his family supported him. I told him we will go for a dna test but he said he is not ready for a stupid test. I am almost 6months gone and i can not terminate the pregnancy anymore. By then boyfriend who i had my 1st child for met wit me yesterday after 7years but broke into tears as he has come to marry me but another baby is involved now. Kindly advise me on what to do. What comes to my mind is suicide.

Dnt give the devil a chance by thinking suicide. Life s beautiful and you can achieve a lot irrespective of your current situation. Go on with the DNA test to clear issues with your man. If he insist s on not going as planned for the wedding,take it as another experience. Believe me God has not finished. Be sure your Ex s real this time before you give him another chance. I hope he was providing for the baby.

Thank much. God bless

hardworker:
Dnt give the devil a chance by thinking suicide. Life s beautiful and you can achieve a lot irrespective of your current situation. Go on with the DNA test to clear issues with your man. If he insist s on not going as planned for the wedding,take it as another experience. Believe me God has not finished. Be sure your Ex s real this time before you give him another chance. I hope he was providing for the baby.

@hateu2 lol. @cruzita thanks

Afolasade2016:
Hello nairalanders. I'm in my early thirties. I had my first daughter wen i was 22, den i was in my 200l in the uni. During my youth service i met another man. We love each other & courted for 4years before we did our introduction, we picked this june for our wedding. I got pregnant in december, but in march problems started. He said he is not the one responsible for the pregnancy that it is a bastard child, he does not want to have anything to do with me again and all that. To my surprise, his family supported him. I told him we will go for a dna test but he said he is not ready for a stupid test. I am almost 6months gone and i can not terminate the pregnancy anymore. By then boyfriend who i had my 1st child for met wit me yesterday after 7years but broke into tears as he has come to marry me but another baby is involved now. Kindly advise me on what to do. What comes to my mind is suicide.