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halfricanadian:
If we dont friend zone some guys we would date all guys

Then we are accused of cheating nd being a slot

If u are in d friendzone it means dat girl has got dignity nd respect for her bf

Sumtin u shd go seek nd find in anoda woman!

Nicely said.

currently in that zone right now, babe tells me she sees me as her younger brother. just that I can't leave now and I really like the girl

LordAdam:
The reality is that you make preparations for exigencies. Do a checklist of what-ifs.

Fiancees, engaged, bethroted, boyf, wifes. All of it, depending on how you see it, is wickedness. You did talk about Karma.

But, I ain't preaching. Far from it. I'm just telling you what every new employ at an Oil & Gas coy is told--SAFETY first.

You can pull out that shit on most people and the girl involved will receive the burden of being tagged a slut if the escapade should come to light.

In other cases, you get a stab wound, have acid thrown on you, or some embarrassment in your workplace, or boys get to beat you up. There are so many options for the twisted mind with no iota of self-respect.

From a concerned citizen.

-Lord

I never saw it like that naa... Does anyone really lay claim to a lady he is not married to..Shit happens!...a lotta 'em don't even give a damn...in the western world sex is not that big a deal...well I will try and be discreet

Julietcutie:
how na am offering him a high post

Haha!..
who wants high post in hell??

VanUrch:
I never saw it like that naa... Does anyone really lay claim to a lady he is not married to..Shit happens!...a lotta 'em don't even give a damn...in the western world sex is not that big a deal...well I will try and be discreet

No sensible person does. But there are a lot of effed up people. That I'm certain about.

Had some nigg* call me late in the night then I was in school warning me not to see his girl at her place again. Apparently, that was a courtesy call. The a**hole was a paranoid bastard.

Guess, he had been nursing the thought. Believe it or not, he manipulated the girl into giving some information by telling her that I told someone about the escapade and the "person" I told, told him. The girl had to spill some to save her relationship, so it seems.

I swear, if I had a Glock and the guy said that sh** to my face, I would have sent him to his creator. Was really peeved about how it went down.

Never really got a confrontation from him after that even though I visited the girl and the girl visited me for an umpteenth time after that ish happened.

The girl still wants to visit to this day. But I'm prepared now, if the f**ker makes that mistake again, Imma make sure he regrets it.

The moral of the story is not to bleep those in relationships, although everyone would admit the taboo part takes the fun to an all new high. The moral is to know what the risks are and be prepared.

If I slapped a guy from an average background on the streets of NY, I'll spend a couple of time in the police cell. If I slapped a member of the Colombo crime family, I'll be dead before the police arrive.

-Lord

I think guys should friendzone themselves with a lady before knowing if making a move is worth it.

Typcially if you friendzone yourself (not her putting you in the zone) the coming out of the friendzone is easy.

LordAdam:
No sensible person does. But there are a lot of effed up people. That I'm certain about.

Had some nigg* call me late in the night then I was in school warning me not to see his girl at her place again. Apparently, that was a courtesy call. The a**hole was a paranoid bastard.

Guess, he had been nursing the thought. Believe it or not, he manipulated the girl into giving some information by telling her that I told someone about the escapade and the "person" I told, told him. The girl had to spill some to save her relationship, so it seems.

I swear, if I had a Glock and the guy said that sh** to my face, I would have sent him to his creator. Was really peeved about how it went down.

Never really got a confrontation from him after that even though I visited the girl and the girl visited me for an umpteenth time after that ish happened.

The girl still wants to visit to this day. But I'm prepared now, if the f**ker makes that mistake again, Imma make sure he regrets it.

The moral of the story is not to bleep those in relationships, although everyone would admit the taboo part takes the fun to an all new high. The moral is to know what the risks are and be prepared.

If I slapped a guy from an average background on the streets of NY, I'll spend a couple of time in the police cell. If I slapped a member of the Colombo crime family, I'll be dead before the police arrive.

-Lord

I see your point sir.. Some guys can be funny.. the first lady I tried this shit with actually turned it against me...I was actually in love with her but she had a boyfriend who nobody knows apparently so I thought it was one of those things..when I insisted she practically made me the prime minister of her "friendzone"..she was in my dept and we stayed in the same lodge..so I practically did everything for her in hopes that she might actually "like" me...just like...everyone thought we were dating..everyone except us ofcourse...well it happened one day..I mean the "sex" and I actually thought it was a beginning of "something new" until later when she told me shit like "she was experimenting, that she missed her boyfriend so much and she was weak,that it was nothing, that we could have sex but we can't date......", I should have accepted that offer of "sex with dating" but I was hurt ...totally hurt,.she obviously wanted to tie me down with the sex cos of the "benefits" she gets from having a loyal friend like mua. Well it ended there and here I am...cutting my own pound of flesh.

VanUrch:
I see your point sir.. Some guys can be funny.. the first lady I tried this shit with actually turned it against me...I was actually in love with her but she had a boyfriend who nobody knows apparently so I thought it was one of those things..when I insisted she practically made me the prime minister of her "friendzone"..she was in my dept and we stayed in the same lodge..so I practically did everything for her in hopes that she might actually "like" me...just like...everyone thought we were dating..everyone except us ofcourse...well it happened one day..I mean the "sex" and I actually thought it was a beginning of "something new" until later when she told me shit like "she was experimenting, that she missed her boyfriend so much and she was weak,that it was nothing, that we could have sex but we can't date......", I should have accepted that offer of "sex with dating" but I was hurt ...totally hurt,.she obviously wanted to tie me down with the sex cos of the "benefits" she gets from having a loyal friend like mua. Well it ended there and here I am...cutting my own pound of flesh.

In retrospect, can't say the end was entirely that bad.

Most of us have that experience of one girl that we'd rather have had a thing with, but who fell through the fingers. However, only a few can say they got the "you know what," before she fell through.

Regardless, sex is overrated. That's how I see it.

Nice having a convo with you. All the best in your endeavors and stay safe.

-Lord

Silvereze:
I think I have been friendzoned. But the problem is that I cannot just walk away because I have spent a lot of energy, time and emotions trying to win her heart.

My guy you better walk away oooo!!!!
Do not trick yourself to believe into a false fantasy that would never happen.. The earlier the better
. Speaking from experience tho...