Dear Nairaland family.

Have been married for a couple of months now and my spouse have been disturbing and threatening me to dispose my sim cards that everything about me needs to change since am now a married woman.He complain alot about frequent calls by my ex,to be sincere I have nothing to do with anyone again since am married and have explain to him but he wouldn't listen.I told him I have other business partners that calls on this same number and one of this line is for business and am well known with it,am scared I might lose some vital businesses or contracts due to this.I told him but all proved aborted.This has been an issue and am fed up.Is it mandatory after I changed name I should also change number? PLZ ADVICE ME

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so your ex still calls you? then your husband is justified. I just pity you. men can cheat for any reason.

I use to think its not until my sister got married hers. She even went as far deactivating her old Facebook account and opening a new one.

If u like be saying it's for business. By the time he gets to knw u are still flirting with ur exes, ur own don be.



Besides, some men should quit this over-jealous attitude abeg.. it's gettn so annoying these days.


Just tryna be fair.

I didn't change mine, it wasn't an issue for us. Did he change his?

You still talk frequently with your ex?

And you're here claiming married woman? Madam you're not a married woman yet.

The way some people carry this marriage thing enh. Mscheeeew. Why on earth will I change my number?

At marriage you are subject to the decisions of your husband! If you don't want change of name why get married? Is marriage by force

I can't blame your husband.

Madam, if you husband's ex still calls him, how'd you feel?

Well, changing your number means nothing. Your ex can still trace you via online platforms.

And if your ex still has your soul, then I'm sorry for your marriage. These days, things happen spontaneously, and we can't help it.

No



Else I'm marrying someone with a past I cannot deal with

To allow peace to reign in the family if your husband mandated that you should change ur numbers go ahead. When you get new number you can notify your customers or clients as the case maybe. As for ur ex(s) still calling you, I'll suggest you have them bar from calling you, the feelings you have for them before can arouse again. Play responsibly to avoid 'had I know'

That one Na before before but now if she like make she useless her self forgetting she be matar aure

very obligatory...U see females tend to have lot of contacts.. even while in a relationship some people in that contacts are still interested.. bla bla bla...and you know some men don't take no for an answer married or not dey will still chase you. my pretty ex got married I still called up to meet..even though she wasn't comfortable with it ..she obliged me. moral of the story there re some exes no matter what u will still have soft spot for them. to avoid story that touches end all communication except business maybe

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skywife:
Dear Nairaland family.

Have been married for a couple of months now and my spouse have been disturbing and threatening me to dispose my sim cards that everything about me needs to change since am now a married woman.He complain alot about frequent calls by my ex,to be sincere I have nothing to do with anyone again since am married and have explain to him but he wouldn't listen.I told him I have other business partners that calls on this same number and one of this line is for business and am well known with it,am scared I might lose some vital businesses or contracts due to this.I told him but all proved aborted.This has been an issue and am fed up.Is it mandatory after I changed name I should also change number? PLZ ADVICE ME

you mean you're married and still speak with your ex on phone?




You can only try it with the fool you call husband.




Dem never born woman wey go try am with me. I'll drive her straight to her father's house and dump her there

depends .. if she was a runs woman..

We didnt change our numbers...

But woman wey wan do runs go still do runs..

It is only God that helps!

Whatever for??
Block your ex from calling....
Case closed!!

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Ishilove:
The way some people carry this marriage thing enh. Mscheeeew. Why on earth will I change my number?

she was speaking with her ex on phone.



I wouldn't ask her to change her number though, I'll just send her away

If you are in the habit of sharing your number like groundnut, changing phone number after marriage is compulsory.

Since he is aware your ex calls you, he is justified to want you to change your line.

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If you know you were a "cheerful giver", then you have to change it.

It is not obligatory but you have given your husband the reason to insist on you changing your sim. Why is ur ex still calling ? Obey ur husband and change it and let peace reign. Your ex should move on simple.

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Deep clearing
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