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Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by Cutezt(m): 2:51pm On Apr 20, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
no wonder u are this bitter. cheesycheesy


i just checked your pic and what i saw was an ape trynna showcase its big head cheesycheesy..



Pele
lol...I don't wanna engage myself in a ruckus with you,I am obviously better looking than you,I ain't blowing my trumpet o,but I am just trying to make the fact known to you.. peace
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by PoliticalThuG(op): 3:08pm On Apr 20, 2016
Cutezt:
lol...I don't wanna engage myself in a ruckus with you,I am obviously better looking than you,I ain't blowing my trumpet o,but I am just trying to make the fact known to you.. peace
shut up ur ugly mouth
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by Cutezt(m): 3:11pm On Apr 20, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
shut up ur ugly mouth
Lol,Peace bro,your moniker says it all.
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by Nobody: 3:15pm On Apr 20, 2016
Well-cooked bushiiit. Even gave you two weeks ? You can lie ooo cheesy
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by PoliticalThuG(op): 3:18pm On Apr 20, 2016
Cutezt:
Lol,Peace bro,your moniker says it all.
learn to tread your damn lane next time.... I dnt joke with "id io ts" when i am having fun. It pisses me off
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by ebyoma(f): 3:29pm On Apr 20, 2016
Shame on this Lady. I mean a very big shame on her.
PoliticalThuG:
She gives me money when i need it l.

she washes my clothes, cook me food, sweeps my compound

!
You do all this for a guy who hasn't proposed to you and he didn't even ask you out after all this boi- boi. you still went ahead to ask him to date youhuh Ahhh!! I'm shaming for her already.
How desperate and shameless can some girls be??

Anyways @Op just take her out get her something nice to eat or drink then you can talk to her calmly.. just tell her you ain't ready for a relationship yet.
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by PoliticalThuG(op): 3:37pm On Apr 20, 2016
ebyoma:
Shame on this Lady. I mean a very big shame on her.

You do all this for a guy who hasn't proposed to you and he didn't even ask you out after all this boi- boi. you still went ahead to ask him to date youhuh Ahhh!! I'm shaming for her already.
How desperate and shameless can some girls be??

Anyways @Op just take her out get her something nice to eat or drink then you can talk to her calmly.. just tell her you ain't ready for a relationship yet.
hey u dnt have to sound that way.

She is one of the few women i respect for taking a bold step to ask me out.

How many nigerian ladies will do that? They will be forming hard to get like a solid shit!!!
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by nerdfrost(m): 3:42pm On Apr 20, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
why? undecided
. angry angry u again?? Wetin I do u na. Lemme abeg undecided
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by ebyoma(f): 3:45pm On Apr 20, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
hey u dnt have to sound that way.

She is one of the few women i respect for taking a bold step to ask me out.

How many nigerian ladies will do that? They will be forming hard to get like a solid shit!!!
Then you should overlook her shortness and date her since she's a wife material.

No one is perfect.

that doesn't change my opinion abt her tho'
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by kaboninc(m): 3:46pm On Apr 20, 2016
when she was doing all that, you did not think about the shortness.
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by Nobody: 4:37pm On Apr 20, 2016
Audray:
Op.Grab her gently,look her in the eyes and say ever so slowly:."My dearest Blah blah blah, I can't date you cos you are down to earth. All "down to earth" women married into my family die young. *sob*I don't want you to die! *more sobs*" and watch everything sort itself out.8-)
grin

grin
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by Gebbson007(m): 4:40pm On Apr 20, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
rejecting her gifts may hurt her. And i dnt want to hurt a friend
ayah.I feel Ur pain bro dre r sm gift u CNT just reject frm a female frnd .....dat kinda gift
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Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 20, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
This lady in question is a nice lady. She is almost a perfect lady.

She is intelligent
beautiful
romantic
neat
clean
booblicious
asslicious

she is really helpful to me.
She gives me money when i need it (i am not poor tho)

she washes my clothes, cook me food, sweeps my compound.

Now just last week, she asked me if i would date her. I told her - let me think about it.

She gave me 2 weeks to think about it.

Now i am confused because i have vowed not to date a short lady.

This lady is short - i dnt mean dwarf ooo. She is just short.

How can i say no to her without hurting her?

Your advice is needed!!!!!
[email] Bro, you prolly led her on.

Anyway, my advice:

Since you [b]vowed
not to date an orente, but you don't wanna hurt this nice one.

How about you break your vows for her sake? [/b][/email]
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by NTAChannel5: 4:48pm On Apr 20, 2016
Tell her "Biitch! Get out of my life!"
Re: How Do I Turn Her Request Down Without Hurting Her? Help!! by PoliticalThuG(op): 5:52pm On Apr 20, 2016
Tobiee:
[email] Bro, you prolly led her on.

Anyway, my advice:

Since you [b]vowed
not to date an orente, but you don't wanna hurt this nice one.

How about you break your vows for her sake? [/b][/email]
nice one. Thankuu
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