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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by baminasri(m): 4:50am On Apr 23, 2016 |
you forgot to mention soul ties. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by peacengine(m): 4:52am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex: Guy you too much, your tots are valid |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by peacengine(m): 4:54am On Apr 23, 2016 |
DanceVille: |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by mummydirect(f): 5:20am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Op you have a point there and I totally agrees with you but unfortunately, I was guilty of your topic but thanks be to God, we are married today and waxing stronger in God and in love. May God almighty have mercy on us and forgive us our sins, amen. Believe me you ladies, there is nothing so sweet to ones soul like marrying as a virgin, mehnnn......., hubby will be so much proud of you, ready to show you off to friends and family members at any given time and also respects you a lot, though not all men do appreciate it but honestly if u meet a guy who do, then you will understand what am saying (talking from experience) but this applies to ladies that are cultured and well brought up and not an arrogant virgins. God bless u op and us all, amen. Abeg mak una overlook any grammatical blunder sighted. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by menxer: 5:21am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Naija always spiritualizing everything. How many people make heaven u know wey no sex before marriage? Did Abraham had extra marital affairs with his maid? Did David had extramarital affairs with a married woman? Did Judah had sex with his daughter in law? Did Lot had sex with his daughters? Did any of the above mentioned make hell? Even Jesus is alleged to have had an affair with Mary Magdalene. Should Sex before marriage and extra marital sex not be seen the same way? 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Ifeogunleye1(f): 5:36am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Very right n correct. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by AreaFada2: 5:36am On Apr 23, 2016 |
CFCman: My brother, a man just around 40, educated and gainfully employed should be able to seek medical help. I doubt it is medical. Other issues seem to suggest to me that he married the beautiful lady as a thing a man has to do. I also suspect that during their so-called no sex courtship, he was probably having it with another lady. He might still be doing it. You know some ladies make excellent bedmate but seemingly not a good match for a wife. Maybe after marriage, sex with the wife proved abysmal. You start to regret both the wait & the marriage. A warning women fail to heed: if a guy readily/easily agrees to wait for marriage b4 sex, don't jubilate too soon. He might not be a virgin. And might have other girlfriends. If you can have sex to your heart's content outside, doing no sex courtship with another lady becomes easier. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Orikinla(m): 5:38am On Apr 23, 2016 |
DanceVille:. OP is naive. How would you know if your man can perform or not before marriage? How would you if your girlfriend has frigidity or not before marriage? You better test your reproductiive health in sexual intercourse before marriage. Linda Ikeji's father once told me how his buddy could not get his wife pregnant and suggested I could help him out. You better confirm your sexual fitness before marriage. My #GidiBlues is seeing is believing in love and sex. What's yours? |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by pussyeater(m): 5:45am On Apr 23, 2016 |
DanceVille: Op! This your English nor be here oh! 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by olyrayy(m): 5:54am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex:Exactly my point. Your underlying reason for abstaining from sex is not because of its reasonableness, but because of it's religious implication. True? |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by yinkslinks(m): 5:57am On Apr 23, 2016 |
All these op writing about sex as if they are saint. Keep advising people to play with konji okay. I have dated a girl we agreed on no sex till after marriage, only for me to discover she has no Virginia hole after a year and half. Guys please be careful from all these kind of post. They are so misleading. Nack your partner well to know if he/she will satisfy you forever. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by yinkslinks(m): 5:58am On Apr 23, 2016 |
God bless you Orikinla: |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by chineloSA(f): 6:07am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Sex should be had by two consenting adults who are preparing to get married. I am no saying sex should be had by teenagers or early 20s young adults who are still confused and finding themselves. If you don't hav sex before marriage you may face realities like Diabetes, BP, undesirable size, low performance etc, and then it will be very hard to make a proper decision because marriage will be binding you.. It's better to make informed decision with all the facts in front of you. Now that I know what I know now, I wouldn't advice anyone to wait for after marriage. You may regret. About the Bible,park well ooo. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by khalhokage(m): 6:09am On Apr 23, 2016 |
1. First of all, you won't ever have to worry about getting pregnant, you will never experience the fear and anxiety of having to tell your parents, "I'm pregnant.." or "I got my girlfriend pregnant".Pregnancy should be a happy announcement after marriage. Wrong, even married folks can have unwanted pregnancies, especially if they care about family planning 2. You will never have to worry about getting "STD"[Sexually Transmitted Disease]. Wrong again, if you get married to a philandering A-hole you still run the risk of get an STI, marriage isn't magic, it is never perfect. [b]3. You'll be free to grow emotionally, psychologically, intellectualy and spiritually. Now this is rubbish, it's like you are saying that virgins are the most emotionally, psychologically, intellectually and spiritually(whatever that means) mature, so I guess that every world leader, internationally acclaimed scholar, Inventor e.t.c are all celibate? 4. You will feel good about yourself, knowing that you didn't give in to your partner pressure. Lol, this is for people getting pressured into sex, if you don't want to have sex for your own reasons fine, not because of this ignorant write-up 5. By not falling into "the sex-trap" , you're building your psychological strength and self-esteem. Self-esteem? lol, tell that to the guy or girl that's getting relentlessly teased about being a virgin, this advice doesn't make sense 6. You will be setting an example for others, siblings, friends and people around you, showing them that sexual activity can be avoided. I guess you're now sharing your sexual activities or lack thereof with everyone around you then, ok 7. You will be protecting your own reputation, no lady wants to be known as "Loose" or "Olosho", no guy wants the reputation of being a "Stud" or "Maniaks". lol, nawa o, having sex doesn't make you an olosho or loose, and being a virgin doesn't stop people from calling you one either, that's the world we live in and yes guys want the reputation of being a stud I have no idea what maniaks mean. It's like you're living in a different universe, probably the effects of celibacy 8. You will known for certain that he or she cares about you for who are and not just for your physical person. Can't argue with this one, but some guys are very very patient, ladies take note. 9. You will be free to channel your energies into healthy activities such as Reading, Studies, Sports, etc. Yes, like a sexually active person has never excelled in anything. According to this Bill Gates must have been celibate before he became the richest man in the world same goes for Dangote and i'm sure Usain Bolt doesn't have sex in other to conserve his strenght for running. You speak like sexually active people are just busy having sex all day long. 10. The last buh not least... You will learn not confuse love with sex.Sex can be spontaneous and brief (A One Night Stand).Love takes time to grow and lasts forever. Yes, don't confuse love with sex people!, but how are you supposed to learn how to differentiate between two things if you have never experienced one? Op sex is not evil, it's a natural part of human development, the only reason people like you see pre marital sex as bad is because of religion. The only advice i agree with on pre marital sex is Practice safe sex, anything else is nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by rahman3853(m): 6:11am On Apr 23, 2016 |
cnt help bt 2 concur with u op |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by johnsonjosbles(m): 6:13am On Apr 23, 2016 |
DanceVille:waiting posible, 100% of ppl who keep sex till after marriage are those who are not sexually active according to research, they tends to have marital problems that may lead to mariage colapse. another factor is economy situation! bible confirmed it that if u cant hold urself go and get maried, but in cases at age 30, you have no beter job, u cant even feed urself let alone of feeding a woman. so u will stay witout bang. sory, u r @risk of raping minor oneday. may i let u know that having sex b4 marriage is never a sin but it become sin the moment you refuse to marry thesame girl u fonicate with. its in the bible, dont ask me wc varse. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by JoeCutie(m): 6:14am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Yet they are giving us more reasons to lead a boring life... Get a life and stop fighting sex. It did nothing to contribute to whatever situation you may be in. Sex did nothing to you, stop fighting it. Shut up and mind your business if you've nothing better to say. FYI, sex is one of the best things to have happened to the human race. Everyday you see 'reasons not to have sex'. You think/talk about sex too much, and it can only mean one thing... Please, get a life, hypocrites! Mtcheww. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Bigcake: 6:27am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex:where did bible conderm it. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by mukhcech(m): 6:33am On Apr 23, 2016 |
slyIsaac: The day of judgement will also be spontaneous. Badluck as u prepare ur abode in Hell. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by BrainnewsNg(f): 6:34am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex: They will never listen. Satan has taken over the world. It takes the grace of God to meet a woman that is not of the world. Op i appreciate your good writeup. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Juliesexy(f): 6:39am On Apr 23, 2016 |
JoeCutie:Don't mind them. Hypocrites! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by mira4u: 6:49am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Number 1 (should be) Its a sin against God. (fornication) |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by JoeCutie(m): 6:51am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Juliesexy:Imagine! |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Ohamzee: 6:53am On Apr 23, 2016 |
funnynation:Its the devil na? I know them. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Vikky014(f): 6:54am On Apr 23, 2016 |
DanceVille:nice points bt we hv to wise up o... |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by sarutobie(m): 6:56am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Notice how the male monikers are seriously and aggressively kicking against the OP? they are the same species that will tag a sexualy adventurous woman "olosho"...They are the same species that will try to find a virgin to marry..they are the same specie that will take the moral ground when they see women expressing their sexuality on public media..bloody hypocrites! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by OmaFresh(m): 6:56am On Apr 23, 2016 |
MUst al these reasonz be always 10?? , ,na wa o 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Orikinla(m): 7:00am On Apr 23, 2016 |
yinkslinks:. How did your ex girlfriend without vaginal hole solve her predicament? Through surgery? |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Rexhenrex(m): 7:01am On Apr 23, 2016 |
olyrayy:bro I said there is every reason to abstain and it includes an array comprising of religion,self worth, and also doing the right thing because I birth if most youths engage in this act grow to have kids they won't allow them to be sexually active before the marry so who are we fooling? the reason ain't only religion...thank you |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by treasuredkids(f): 7:09am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Dear beautiful and gorgeous ladies, it is worth every penny for you to keep yourself for that special person till after marriage cos your worth will be most valued at that stage of your life. In the African setting a man has got nothing at stake but the woman has got all. Even if u end up sleeping with ur husband b4 marriage do u think he will not one day call u a slut just to prove a point that u were worth nothing and he only did u a favour by marrying you. No matter how the society is fast changing, good principles should guard the heart of every wise and discerning person. Mind u giving in to societal pressures will only make u be an increase to the world statistics of those with STDs, abortions, broken marriages and the likes. The world wnt be there to pat u on the back and give u the support needed to heal and recover, by then u will be totally OYO. A word is enough for the wise. Nice one OP. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by Haryohdeji(m): 7:10am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex:my question is Are u a virgin? |
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex Before Marriage- Danceville by igidaduro: 7:21am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Just a simple question, are you meant to enjoy your wedding or endure it? If after wedding you find out that he or she is impotent and the bible forbids divorce what happen? Most of your points are not relevant. Marital life is not slavery, though it is not good to be hopping around But any day any time tested good is the best |
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