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sweetilicious:
Its my life story. So frustrating. I wish i had a child

thowbie7ven:
you've kissed Four guys apart from the two guys....meaning you cheated at one point...elucidate please!

sweetilicious:
Sincerely, i have dated two people all my life. Am 24 and am a graduate.Dated my first guy for close to 5years before things fell apart. Dated my second for close to 3years now. I have kissed 4 guys apart from the ones I have dated. I am an introvert but an extrovert when in a constructive argument. I always wish to get married someday to someone that knows how to handle any situation very well and that led me into choosing my current boyfriend of close to 3years. He was so sweet. Unfortunately, fate happened. He had to travel out of the country for his masters, of which he never believed in Nigeria. He had always dreamt of living in a civilized country where there is at least good water. I don't blame him you know. He goes for what he wants with positive mind. I have been celibate for a year now with so many temptations. Someone had to advice me to go for a deliverance that am abnormal. Am i really abnormal? Well, Maybe that's why i get so lucky. Opening my laps for anyone that approaches me will give me diseases and take away the luck i got from being abnormal. I have always wished for a cool family, just happy family, just lovely family. But it seems it is not coming forth the way i desired. What can i do? With everything going on nowadays in marriages, I don't even know if i should continue wishing for my desires or just have my own children without a hubby. I am always lost in the thought of how life works. How sparks and feelings dies makes me to wonder if dating really worth it. I have met alot of men that i happened to have had a little conversation with either they want to ask me out or just talking. Few of them want different things that i know is absurd. Why do people let the sparks in their love life die. I believe in love and i wish for a healthy family. My mother always prays to God to put me where i won't have to cry everyday. I love my boyfriend but the stress of hustling is really affecting the way the relationship feels. Well, i wish him good everytime i pray in the morning even if i try to console myself that we might not end up being together and having the happy family I desire. Experiences we encounter in life moulds us. This is my Love life, it is frustrating but i still wish to be among the living. #WIPESMYTEARS. Byeeeee

sweetilicious:
Sincerely, i have dated two people all my life. Am 24 and am a graduate.Dated my first guy for close to 5years before things fell apart. Dated my second for close to 3years now. I have kissed 4 guys apart from the ones I have dated. I am an introvert but an extrovert when in a constructive argument. I always wish to get married someday to someone that knows how to handle any situation very well and that led me into choosing my current boyfriend of close to 3years. He was so sweet. Unfortunately, fate happened. He had to travel out of the country for his masters, of which he never believed in Nigeria. He had always dreamt of living in a civilized country where there is at least good water. I don't blame him you know. He goes for what he wants with positive mind. I have been celibate for a year now with so many temptations. Someone had to advice me to go for a deliverance that am abnormal. Am i really abnormal? Well, Maybe that's why i get so lucky. Opening my laps for anyone that approaches me will give me diseases and take away the luck i got from being abnormal. I have always wished for a cool family, just happy family, just lovely family. But it seems it is not coming forth the way i desired. What can i do? With everything going on nowadays in marriages, I don't even know if i should continue wishing for my desires or just have my own children without a hubby. I am always lost in the thought of how life works. How sparks and feelings dies makes me to wonder if dating really worth it. I have met alot of men that i happened to have had a little conversation with either they want to ask me out or just talking. Few of them want different things that i know is absurd. Why do people let the sparks in their love life die. I believe in love and i wish for a healthy family. My mother always prays to God to put me where i won't have to cry everyday. I love my boyfriend but the stress of hustling is really affecting the way the relationship feels. Well, i wish him good everytime i pray in the morning even if i try to console myself that we might not end up being together and having the happy family I desire. Experiences we encounter in life moulds us. This is my Love life, it is frustrating but i still wish to be among the living. #WIPESMYTEARS. Byeeeee

DukeNija:
You need to calm down. You are just 24 and there's a lot ahead for you. I lost my colleague and gf on Monday, she was also your age and she wasn't even talking marriage. She wanted her masters, ACCA e.t.c.
She has had people propose marriage to her but turned them down.
Pls don't put yourself under any undue pressure and continue to stay celebate. Keep yourself for your husband cos it will be worse if people can just sleep with you without the ring.
Godbless