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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by johnson232: 10:51pm On May 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°We just begging ta date!
°*How dare he charge me!
...that's just grounds fer replacement!
it isn't enough reason for replacement..
though there seems to be a consesus that men should foot the bills for first dates, but there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman offers to pay instead...

such act reflects good on the lady... if u knw what i mean...
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 10:56pm On May 06, 2016
johnson232:

it isn't enough reason for replacement..
though there seems to be a consesus that men should foot the bills for first dates, but there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman offers to pay instead...

such act reflects good on the lady... if u knw what i mean...

Pfft.It is to reason
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by johnson232: 11:08pm On May 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Pfft.It is to reason
Pfft... it is not up to....
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 11:11pm On May 06, 2016
johnson232:

Pfft... it is not up to....
°•It is up to me an I'm replacin' him!
.....bye wink
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Mypeople2(m): 11:16pm On May 06, 2016
You ladies can't do this simple thing yet you want equality with men

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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by johnson232: 11:17pm On May 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°•It is up to me an I'm replacin' him!
.....bye wink
yeah.... u re right...

the conversation has since reach its breaking point, but i was just trying to sustain it till u get tired...

so i win... bye too wink
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 11:20pm On May 06, 2016
johnson232:

yeah.... u re right...

the conversation has since reach its breaking point, but i was just trying to sustain it till u get tired...

so i win... bye too wink
grin
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by johnson232: 11:24pm On May 06, 2016
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 11:27pm On May 06, 2016
johnson232:

cheesy
°•Lol! grin You a clown!!!
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by MzOnajin1(f): 11:36pm On May 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°•Oh Snap!!
I'm in the presence of greatness !!
.....oh,teach me!! cheesy
Yes now. No matter how stingy a guy is, there is a girl out there collecting from him. His weak point is all we need. They will be coming to NL to form strong head.
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by johnson232: 11:46pm On May 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°•Lol! grin You a clown!!!
lol...

what were u thinking, after saying the same thing over and over again...
i was just after the winning, @ a point i thought u wont give up, until i saw the pfft, i knew u were tired....

i knw u re trying to win,but dont worry, another match is coming up next week, do equip yourself....
till then... i am the WINNER!!! cheesy
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by MRBrownJ: 11:47pm On May 06, 2016
by their answers, you shall know them... bunch of brokass women!!! even simple dinner they CANT or DONT want to pay. yet down the line they will be begging on their knees for handouts, recharge cards and Brazilian hair. may thunder fire you all and the donkeys you are seeking in life.

MBJ's rules....
A) never bring these animals, on the 1st few dates, into a place where you have to spend money to chill... instead go to a park etc
if SHE wants to go to a restaurant/bar, then let HER pay for whatever she orders (aka we go DUTCH). if she makes ANY mention that she doesnt want to pay for her own share, DROP THAT LIABILITY!

B) after the initial few FREE dates (at the park etc), any date involving a restaurants etc must be SHARED EQUALLY (aka whatever you/she eat, you pay half of the bill). if she asks why, simply tell her that you prefer that you both stay on NEUTRAL grounds (aka i dont owe you shiit, and vice versa). if she has any issues with that, beware of that mad woman, who foolishly believes that she deserves to be treated like a princess (aka LIABILITY)

C) beware, these women have a funny way of calling such man STINGY, as if being stingy was worst than being HIV+, lol .... these are just emotional tricks played by these women. simply answer by telling them:"YES, i am careful with money, and proud to be as i wish to spend my hard earn money on ONLY what i deem worthy.... but hey, if YOU aint stingy then why dont you fukcing pay then?!"

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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by johnson232: 11:51pm On May 06, 2016
MzOnajin1:
Yes now. No matter how stingy a guy is, there is a girl out there collecting from him. His weak point is all we need. They will be coming to NL to form strong head.
must u always think towards the wrong direction? undecided

how do u knw a girl is collecting money from him?
u need to reform your perception....
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 11:54pm On May 06, 2016
johnson232:

lol...

what were u thinking, after saying the same thing over and over again...
i was just after the winning, @ a point i thought u wont give up, until i saw the pfft, i knew u were tired....

i knw u re trying to win,but dont worry, another match is coming up next week, do equip yourself....
till then... i am the WINNER!!! cheesy



°•You are both annoying an fun grin
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 11:57pm On May 06, 2016
MRBrownJ:
by their answers, you shall know them... bunch of brokass women!!! even simple dinner they CANT or DONT want to pay. yet down the line they will be begging on their knees for handouts, recharge cards and Brazilian hair. may thunder fire you all and the donkeys you are seeking in life.

MBJ's rules....
A) never bring these animals, on the 1st few dates, into a place where you have to spend money to chill... instead go to a park etc
if SHE wants to go to a restaurant/bar, then let HER pay for whatever she orders (aka we go DUTCH). if she makes ANY mention that she doesnt want to pay for her own share, DROP THAT LIABILITY!

B) after the initial few FREE dates (at the park etc), any date involving a restaurants etc must be SHARED EQUALLY (aka whatever you/she eat, you pay half of the bill). if she asks why, simply tell her that you prefer that you both stay on NEUTRAL grounds (aka i dont owe you shiit, and vice versa). if she has any issues with that, beware of that mad woman, who foolishly believes that she deserves to be treated like a princess (aka LIABILITY)

C) beware, these women have a funny way of calling such man STINGY, as if being stingy was worst than being HIV+, lol .... these are just emotional tricks played by these women. simply answer by telling them:"YES, i am careful with money, and proud to be as i wish to spend my hard earn money on ONLY what i deem worthy.... but hey, if YOU aint stingy then why dont you fukcing pay then?!"
°•That in the bold is so very correct
If he doesn't consider her worth his money
.....she should go.
I wanna know an be showed he thinks I'm worth his valuable, because it is with all it can get you,money.
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by MzOnajin1(f): 11:57pm On May 06, 2016
johnson232:

must u always think towards the wrong direction? undecided

how do u knw a girl is collecting money from him?
u need to reform your perception....
Ok sir. Pls show me d guy who has never paid tithe to a lady b4
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by MRBrownJ: 12:20am On May 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

°•Oh you are very good grin
...A woman must be a master player at the game if she was ta beat you.

for you women its a game where you must "beat us" and win (aka get pampered, get paid, get gifts etc) at all cost, but to us men its simply about finding a proper mate that wants us, and would respect us, FOR US.... and possibly get some "loving" along the way (aka sex).
the sad part in this game is that, when men win, BOTH of us would enjoy the loving, so in reality we BOTH win (abi you dont enjoy sex?)... but when women win (pampering, gifts, money etc), only WOMEN win.
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 12:22am On May 07, 2016
MRBrownJ:


for you women its a game where you must "beat us" and win (aka get pampered, get paid, get gifts etc) at all cost, but to us men its simply about finding a proper mate that wants us, and would respect us, FOR US.... and possibly get some "loving" along the way (aka sex).
the sad part in this game is that, when men win, BOTH of us would enjoy the loving, so in reality we BOTH win (abi you dont enjoy sex?)... but when women win (pampering, gifts, money etc), only WOMEN win.
°•Actually I was just playing
But then I actually read what you wrote an modified my post
Look again


But you tellin' me you want ta have sex with a woman but you don't want to invest in her
That's what you do when you take the time to date her well, taking her to nice places
Giving her love gifts outta yer love
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by ebyoma(f): 12:26am On May 07, 2016
johnson232:

what if it is a simple test?

probably to know how generous and considerate u are?

Was expecting this question from you grin

Anyways if it were a test then to hell with such test on a first date.. it's not proper. He can test me with something else on a first date then probably on a 2nd,3rd or 4th he can bring this up.

That's an expensive test on a first date...lol

Although I'll pay o, if I have such money on me to avoid embarrassment but that will be the end for him
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by MRBrownJ: 12:36am On May 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

°•That in the bold is so very correct
If he doesn't consider her worth his money
.....she should go.
I wanna know an be showed he thinks I'm worth his valuable, because it is with all it can get you,money.

sadly, many women out there FOOLISHLY believe that the minute they are dating a guy, they are automatically "worthy" of their partner's money.

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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 12:45am On May 07, 2016
MRBrownJ:

sadly, many women out there FOOLISHLY believe that the minute they are dating a guy, they are automatically "worthy" of their partner's money.
°•No
..A woman's worth no be here
she as a human being is priceless
...A man could never have riches to give that equal her worth.
°•But I want to know that he does consider me to be as vauable as the dollars in his wallet
...That he would spend on me.
I'm not asking,the question isn't asking for a man to be provider
But that when he asks her fer her time
so that he might woo her an possibily move on to more
That he not make me pay fer that.
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 1:09am On May 07, 2016
ezychris:
Ladies come and answer ooo! This one I have plans of doing this wif Mama Iyabo

Iyabo, certainly won't but Mama Iyabo definitely will.

After all na who dey give am face at all grin
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by MRBrownJ: 1:26am On May 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[b][color=#a74AC7]°•No
..A women's worth no be here,she as a human being is priceless

BWAAAAH, what a pile of nonsense!!!!! many women are worthless and just a waste of time. all the brokeass begging undercover ashawos, that are quick to sell themselves, for an Iphone or Brazilian hair, aint worth shiit (or their worth is exactly that, an Iphone/Brazilian hair). i suggest you re-evalute your definition of "priceless".

...A man could never have riches to give that equal her worth.

and they SHOULDNT..... because men should be viewed just as priceless as women, and therefore there shouldnt be any need for "riches" to buy women.just her being, and a man's being is what is needed for them to connect as ONE. the minute a woman expect "riches" in order to connect, then she becomes WORTHLESS.

°•But I want to know that he dies consider me to br as vauable as the dollars in his wallet
That he would spend on me.

the minute you put a price on your worth then you have failed. either you want a man to spend on you in order for you to value him, thus you have a price (aka you are an undercover LovePeddler) OR you want to value him by his CHARACTER/BEING etc, and connect on a higher level than financial, thus you are indeed priceless. make up your mind and stop pricing yourself and thereafter calling yourself priceless.

I'm not asking the question isn't asking for a man to be provider
But that when he asks her fer her time
so that he might woo her an possibily move on to more
That he not make me pay fer that.

get down from your high horse.... you BOTH want to get to know one another, you BOTH need to spend time together to evaluate each other, you are BOTH Seeking for a r/ship here. so why are you acting like its only men that should bankroll the wooing (as if we are the only beneficiaries)?!
get your bloody facts RIGHT.

but sadly its this "holier than thou" way of thinking that have you women fail time and time again on this issue, and settle for DONKEYS.

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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by iamcourage(m): 1:29am On May 07, 2016
I have gone one a date with a girl and she paid the bills..its no biggie and its not as if I cant pay..since that day she earned my respect ..

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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by HARDDON: 1:35am On May 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°•If he asked me ta pay,I would
.....an never fool with him again angry
[b]He's wooing me an I have ta pay for it :-
\[/b]

So u were fooling with him b4? shocked

@ bolded, Who said he was wooing u? He took u along to share his space,spot n sprite n uve concluded in ur tiny mind he is wooing? Women ! Arrrh! embarassed

I have done that b4 to a Gurl though in a very subtle way, she was paying n laughing! N was totally blown a guy cud cud hv d gut to make her pay for asking him out! tongue cool

That is one of my main test , coz some ladies can be so stingy, n ain't got no time to scrub around stingy souls wink

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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 1:43am On May 07, 2016
MRBrownJ:


BWAAAAH, whaf nonsense!!!!! many women are worthless and just a waste of time. all the brokeass begging undercover ashawos, that are quick to sell themselves, for an Iphone or Brazilian hair, aint worth shiit (or their worth is exactly that, an Iphone/Brazilian hair). i suggest you re-evalute your definition of "priceless".

and they SHOULDNT..... because men should be viewed just as priceless as women, and therefore there shouldnt be any need for "riches" to buy women.just her being, and a man's being is what is needed for them to connect as ONE. the minute a woman expect "riches" in order to connect, then she becomes WORTHLESS.

the minute you put a price on your worth then you have failed. either you want a man to spend on you in order for you to value him, thus you have a price (aka you are an undercover LovePeddler) OR you want to value him by his CHARACTER/BEING etc, and connect on a higher level than financial, thus you are indeed priceless. make up your mind and stop pricing yourself and thereafter calling yourself priceless.

get down from your high horse.... you BOTH want to get to know one another, you BOTH need to spend time together to evaluate each other, you are BOTH Seeking for a r/ship here. so why are you acting like its only men that should bankroll the wooing (as if we are the only beneficiaries)?!
get your bloody facts RIGHT.

but sadly its this "holier than thou" way of thinking that have you women fail time and time again on this issue, and settle for DONKEYS.
°•I said priceless as a human being
...are men not human
I've not equated women to pr0stitutes by saying this
...but you sir called some of us worthless
...an it shows me just why you wouldn't spend on us
nor hear the truth in what I said before.
My time,I've wasted enough
Good early morning to you an goodbye.
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 1:57am On May 07, 2016
HARDDON:


So u were fooling with him b4? shocked

@ bolded, Who said he was wooing u? He took u along to share his space,spot n sprite n uve concluded in ur tiny mind he is wooing? Women ! Arrrh! embarassed

I have done that b4 to a Gurl though in a very subtle way, she was paying n laughing! N was totally blown a guy cud cud hv d gut to make her pay for asking him out! tongue cool

That is one of my main test , coz some ladies can be so stingy, n ain't got no time to scrub around stingy souls wink
Lol grin
°I would ask you out Harddon an pay gladly!...... tongue
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by MRBrownJ: 2:07am On May 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

But you tellin' me you want ta have sex with a woman but you don't want to invest in her
That's what you do when you take the time to date her well, taking her to nice places
Giving her love gifts outta yer love

i never have sex "with a woman", we BOTH have sex and therefore investing in her is not remotely on my mind.
and if dating is investing on a partner then WOMEN should invest equally, as an equal beneficiary (important word here is EQUAL).

KingCheezyPuff:
°•I said priceless as a human being
...are men not human

again, [b]A)
women are just as priceless as men, and therefore you should always write that HUMAN BEING are priceless, and not put any gender in that statement. B) there are many human beings who are WORTHLESS... child molesters etc

I've not equated women to pr0stitutes by saying this...but you sir called some of us worthless

yes, a woman who demands for Iphones and Brazilian hair before she can value a man (aka love/care for him) is indeed an undercover prostitute. if you dont know what a prostitute is, you should look up the definition to understand that they are both the same. the only difference is that one is at street corners, while the other goes on dates and then demand for gifts/handouts etc before she has sex. same animal, different setting.

...an it shows me just why you wouldn't spend on us
nor hear the truth in what I said before.
My time,I've wasted enough
Good early morning to you an goodbye. [/b]

there aint any worth to a person who values wallet and handouts over character OR one who demands for gifts before she can value a man.... NONE!

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Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by HARDDON: 2:09am On May 07, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Lol grin
°I would ask you out Harddon an pay gladly!...... tongue


No can't do! I jump am pass...... For U r like them network providers; Give freebies with the right hand n collect it back a triple times over with d left hand! angry


Wudnt wano be raped tru d night coz u bought me a tiny cupa coffee. ....
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by HARDDON: 2:16am On May 07, 2016
ebyoma:
I won't.... He shoulda cut his coat according to his cloth.

Ofcos not ! N she shows up with an empty purse, after x guy had fed her tommy, he wud take her home.... Or she wud hv to beg for tp ....

Oh my world ! Not an iota of shame
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 2:20am On May 07, 2016
HARDDON:



No can't do! I jump am pass...... For U r like them network providers; Give freebies with the right hand n collect it back a triple times over with d left hand! angry


Wudnt wano be raped tru d night coz u bought me a tiny cupa coffee. ....
°•I'm no rapist!!! angry
°•I'll behave as a perfect lady should.
I'd buy you a 4 course meal at 5star restaurant an take you dancing after if that's what you like wink
....An after I'll take you home an won't even beg fer a goodnight kiss.
.....you'll offer that freely tongue
Re: Question For The Ladies!! What Will You Do In This Situation? [photo] by Nobody: 2:42am On May 07, 2016
MRBrownJ:


i never have sex "with a woman", we BOTH have sex and therefore investing in her is not remotely on my mind.
and if dating is investing on a partner then WOMEN should invest equally, as an equal beneficiary (important word here is EQUAL).

again, A) women are just as priceless as men, and therefore you should always write that HUMAN BEING are priceless, and not put any gender in that statement. B) there are many human beings who are WORTHLESS... child molesters etc
yes, a woman who demands for Iphones and Brazilian hair before she can value a man (aka love/care for him) is indeed an undercover prostitute. if you dont know what a prostitute is, you should look up the definition to understand that they are both the same. the only difference is that one is at street corners, while the other goes on dates and then demand for gifts/handouts etc before she has sex. same animal, different setting.
there aint any worth to a person who values wallet and handouts over character OR one who demands for gifts before she can value a man.... NONE!
°•If you spoke to me on the street an we got talking
an you decided there after you wanted ta see me again an we went out to eat
You should pay.
You asked me out.
If I asked you out, I should pay.
The rule is if you invite someone out,you pay.
Get it
You got some gender war yer fighting an I'm not interested in doing battle with you.

Investing in the start of dating is to be done 1st by the asker
In the case of the op's question it is the man
So yes,he must prepare his wallet
Time etc.

An I notice you didn't quote the part where I told you "Good early morning to you an Goodbye" grin

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