Fashx007:
buh shey u know guys dont also want to date a liability even tho u will shoer her with everything first impression matters i dont need to ask her to pay atleast she should make an attempt for me not to be proud den we make it 50/50 afterwards the nextdate is fully on the dude

Ewatomi26:

Lolzzz... mister MBJ... Its a first date... You both decide on where to go, the guy makes suggestions and the lady makes hers, they pick... If for any reason the lady doesn't like where the guy says he can afford... She is free to opt out from such date... Or how do you decide on where you for your dates. And if the guy does not also feel comfortable with the ladies suggestion he is also feel to opt out... What can only be done is cajoling the other party to accept.

What am trying to correct here is your use of the word BLACKMAIL... I believe in freewill, it can never be by force... You don't feel comfortable opt out of it... I can't be pushed beyond my limit... And do you know there are ladies who also fall into such Blackmails with guys too... Don't be too gender centered dear, what happens to guys also happen to ladies too.

MRBrownJ:


the above in bold is funny, lol, "can afford"... so free date is impossible in your world, or what? thats why i have been saying all along to take women to park and getting to know them, while looking at the beautiful sky. sadly, what you wrote can NEVER work, unless, as we both should suggest places to go, we should both pay. how can a woman suggest to go to a place that she has NO MEANS of paying?! a man doesnt owe NOTHING to a woman at this stage, so why should he foot this stranger's bill?

abeg, forget that Romeo and Juliet dream, and understand that if a man pays for a meal, it should be because he DECIDES to do so, and that decision derives from the "level" of fun he had during that date..... but until that check comes and he decides to do so, this gal better believe that whatever she orders, SHE pays for it . thats the only way women can start having RESPECT for all these men they are gladly taking advantage of.



yes this is a foul word but unfortunately, so many women are quick to use such tactics to force men into becoming ATMs. they use their coochies as a carrot, and have these donkeys doing acrobatics in the aim to have their way with them. this is why the majority, when they finally get these babes in bed, they fukc them out of ANGER, they punish them sexually, and want to make it all worth the money they've spent . its like a bill attached to these women's back, and everytime they demand for recharge cards and what not, these guy mark that bill... until it gets to a point where these guys are saying"fukc it, now i just want to recoup my investment", thus smashing that coochie like she stole something from them.

but hey, how would you call a babe telling guys they MUST pay for the date, if they wanna get to know each other, if not blackmail?!

Ewatomi26:
Mister MBJ, take a chill pill and stop being gender centered, like ladies are cheating the men folks... All this you stated are your opinion, the doesn't stop guy all over the world from footing their bills at date, they want to, its their will.

There lots of cash-free date going on around in different parts of the world, especially in schools (universities)... Its still happens... But if the guy want to go extra mile... Its his will.

If a lady say the guy MUST pay for the bill, which I don't think a lady would say... Let him pay and opt out from further dates... its so simple

HARDDON:



Laughing?
Tot ladies that have been so heart broken by lota guys rarely laugh?



Hungry Gurl , keep wishing for take away!
When u took me away n I took food away!

Don't know y u even had d feintest idea u'd ,@ d very least, get a gnyt kiss

Didn't u see my lips were too rich for yours?
Common Gurl, learn to cut ur clothes according to ur cloth!