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7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 7:24am On May 07, 2016
It happens.People fall out of love and become disinterested.Buh how do you tell when your boyfriend isn't into you anymore or isn't taking the relationship seriously?

You could just ask, buh he may pretend everything's okay and you won't get a real answer.So if you suspect your boyfriend has been experiencing a change of heart in your relationship, here are some signs that may just confirm it.


Seven Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship.

1.He Doesn't Involve You In His Life

You aren't invited to family events or to hang out with his friends.He keeps his life very personal and quiet, and you're always guessing whether that's his nature.That's not his nature, he tired of your relationship and he's trying to keep you off lil by little.

2.He Talks About Other Girls

If he's looking at or talking about other girls, he doesn't have eyes for you and that's an obvious sign of disinterest.He's actually finding other ladies more attractive than you were.

3.Doesn't Ask For Details

He doesn't ask you about your day, and even if he does, he sounds disinterested and doesn't ask for more.He's just going through the motions buh wants the conversation to be over before it's even started..*lol*.

4.He Makes You Feel Like You Can't Say Anything Right

Is your boyfriend constantly picking fights with you and misinterpreting everything you say? Do you feel like you're running around in circles and defending yourself even when you're being nice? Unless, you're spending in code, there's a bigger problem and it has nothing to do with you.

5. He Constantly Say "Sorry" For The Same Thing

Sorry is just a word unless there's a real effort made to not make the same mistake again.He says sorry when he cheats, sorry when he slaps you, sorry when you caught him with another lady..He will start singing you the song "Sorry" by Justin Bieber.

6.It's All About Sex

Having sex is not a means of keeping a relationship interesting.It's good to cuddle, buh when the only compliments are about your body and all of your time together feels like a means to an end...Sister! Sowie! It's not Love, buh Lust.

7.He Remember Nothing About You

You have full conversations that he cannot recollect.He heard you mention your April birthday five times buh sill swears you were born in June.If the only thing he remembers is your address and his favourite bra-and-panty set, there's a problem with your relationship.

I drop my pen at this Juncture

NB
Knowing more about your relationship is important.If you're seeing these signs or part of it in him, you need to settle things out or you'd rather called it a Quit..

Some guys are just player.Who knows you're just a substitute? If plan A fails, he gat plan B..[That's their strategy].

Learn To Check Your Relationship Status.

Written And Compiled By
DanceVille

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by sweetval: 7:28am On May 07, 2016
Food don ready oo.... grin

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:32am On May 07, 2016
They wouldn't learn, they prefer to leave the good ones and follow heartbreakers

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by nrexzy: 7:32am On May 07, 2016
Na just Sign º°˚˚­˚°º‎​. No be say na so e be.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by sinaj(f): 7:33am On May 07, 2016
Issorite
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 7:37am On May 07, 2016
sweetval:
Food don ready oo.... grin
Oya Serve us now.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 7:38am On May 07, 2016
Oma307:
They wouldn't learn, they prefer to leave the good ones and follow heartbreakers
You're right bro.


They won't.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:39am On May 07, 2016
Define "serious"?

Every relationship has a goal.
Marriage must not be the final destination

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 7:40am On May 07, 2016
nrexzy:
Na just Sign º°˚˚­˚°º‎​. No be say na so e be.
Hmmm! It's still the same thing.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 7:41am On May 07, 2016
sinaj:
Issorite
What's your view on this?
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Sabadon(m): 7:43am On May 07, 2016
wat I ve come to realise,ladies cnt like the guys dat love dem n re serious.... dey love n prefer a guy who gives dem cold shoulders.....well dats natural I guess

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Mediapace: 7:43am On May 07, 2016
*Grabs pen*
8.He start avoiding your calls
9.After just a single sex night stand,he will dump you
10.He start taking you for granted
11.They Don't even want to know your parent
12.Treat other girls thesame way he treats you

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Lovelynature(m): 7:47am On May 07, 2016
More signs!
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 7:49am On May 07, 2016
kenonze:
Define "serious"?

Every relationship has a goal.
Marriage must not be the final destination
Yea! Every relationship has a goal buh if the other partner is interested.


And not every relationship leads to Marriage.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by CaroLyner(f): 7:49am On May 07, 2016
kenonze:
Define "serious"?
Every relationship has a goal. Marriage must not be the final destination
exactly...
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 7:53am On May 07, 2016
Sabadon:
wat I ve come to realise,ladies cnt like the guys dat love dem n re serious.... dey love n prefer a guy who gives dem cold shoulders.....well dats natural I guess
You're right bro.

They think physical appearance is love.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 8:02am On May 07, 2016
Mediapace:
Grabs pen
Dnt forget to grab a note also bro.

Morning!

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by missmary(f): 8:38am On May 07, 2016
I remember a time when i had a drifting boyfriend!









He's still drifting!
i bet you thought this sh*t was gonna be inspirational!
#Churchgirl

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by missyQween(f): 8:47am On May 07, 2016
So right Op....Been in the Boat before ...But I have move on..

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Akkord4gov: 8:48am On May 07, 2016
We keep repeating similar threads everytime and that won't stop them to still become a victim
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Countrygirl(f): 9:53am On May 07, 2016
You are on point OP!
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 10:04am On May 07, 2016
Let him not b crios if he waste my time

I will send God to waste his time

I'm not joking with guys

I av seen their true colors now

Nd im less interested in any to zero peak.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 10:52am On May 07, 2016
kenonze:
Define "serious"?

Every relationship has a goal.
Marriage must not be the final destination

You never buy another singlet ?

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 11:12am On May 07, 2016
halfricanadian:
Let him not b crios if he waste my time

I will send God to waste his time

I'm not joking with guys

I av seen their true colors now

Nd im less interested in any to zero peak.
*cough* hmm!
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 11:13am On May 07, 2016
Countrygirl:
You are on point OP!
Wow! Thanks dear.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 11:14am On May 07, 2016
Akkord4gov:
We keep repeating similar threads everytime and that won't stop them to still become a victim
Your opinion though.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 11:14am On May 07, 2016
Naughtysite:


You never buy another singlet ?


Stop monitoring me you Spoilt child.

Yes i have
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 11:15am On May 07, 2016
missyQween:
So right Op....Been in the Boat before ...But I have move on..
That's a great decision dear.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Fynestboi: 11:20am On May 07, 2016
Nice one bro...
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 11:26am On May 07, 2016
kenonze:



Stop monitoring me you Spoilt child.

Yes i have

grin You bought two shocked

A red T shirt and blue denim shorts.

When are we launching this ?
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by missyQween(f): 12:28pm On May 07, 2016
DanceVille:
That's a great decision dear.


Thanks dear
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn't Serious About Your Relationship by DanceVille: 1:00pm On May 07, 2016
Fynestboi:
Nice one bro...
Ehn! Wow! Fynestboi... Thanks bro.

Waiting for lalasticlala...

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