I say "enough of woman wrapperism" instead of running around these ladies and making fun of yourself NL, why don't you become a badazz and make them want you
Check out other guys getting the ladies attention(s) its not like they are better off, but they know their way around the game.
Now these are the 10 steps you should take to make yourself a "badazz" on NL

1. Upload pictures: Make sure they highlight
your best attributes and Change them up
occasionally to attract attention to your profile.
Keep them current so ladies can recognise you
at a glance
Please don't, i repeat DON'T start the "rate me" thread ever

2. Write about yourself: have a diary on NL. This Show that you are confident, easygoing, fun, funny, flirtatious,
and sincere.

3. Search through profiles not just female profiles) this makes you get to know some peeps and their "attitudes"...you can even get some more "styles" on how the game is being played from other peeps

4. Make contact: Be efficient and confident when doing this...don't make it seem like you wanna "woo" them(we'v gat too much of these on NL already)
just saying "HI" will be ok, don't bother if you don't get a mention back from her. But it makes her notice you.
If she replies, Say something about her in particular, but don't go overboard on compliments because chances are she's so used to hearing them and that will tag you as a woman wrapper

5. Wait for a reply: For every message you
send to a woman, she probably gets 25-100
others, so don't expect quick replies if you get
them at all. Remember that lashing out at them
for not replying does nothing but frustrate
them, and it sends the "woman wrapper alert" so saying nothing while she digs through
her inbox to find your message increases your
chances.

6. Communicate outside NL:
Move your communications to either email, whatsApp or BBM asap, or at whatever pace she is comfortable with. Through this, you'v gat 10% chance of "opened arms"

7. Don't ever be a jerk/Troll on NL: you can be the funny guy, "serious dude", or the intelligent guy that keeps making fp, but don't be a jerk/troll like yung**** or boiled**** it reduces your chance of getting a crush

8. Type messages effectively/correctly: Take your time because texting and email don't
require immediate replies. Reread every
sentence to make sure you say what you want
People to read. Check your grammar, spelling, and punctuation because writing like a secondary school dropout makes you look silly before she even notice you. Don't type like mrc*ork

9. don't stalk: believe me, you don't wanna do this
10. Start talking on the phone Now when you get to this stage with her...you are 60% NL badazz

Welcome to the team bro.

For those saying I am fake. I will soon upload the link to my IG page. Haters

Toasting a nairaland babe is a lost cause

talk2alabama:
Toasting a nairaland babe is a lost cause

U dnt have to toast them. Let them come to you. You should know how many girls on nairaland have been sending me pms

Shamstiel:


U dnt have to toast them. Let them come to you. You should know how many girls on nairaland have been sending me pms

PM kwa?
How many have you met?

Who dia crush epp?

kaziblake:
PM kwa? How many have you met?

I haven't met any in NY probably when I am back to Nigeria

Been crushing on kyllahmc evn before i enta NL sef*winks*

pinceprinz:
Who dia crush epp?

E no epp anybody jare

Dogs that bark don't bite.

kaziblake:
PM kwa? How many have you met?

can i pm u?

@OP upload a picture in an expensive car, in europe or overseas or with tons of cash then u will fork female romancelanders as u like.

A sensible post.

Will never attemp this shit

Frontpage please

Shamstiel:


U dnt have to toast them. Let them come to you. You should know how many girls on nairaland have been sending me pms

so hav u banged dem all?

Ladies wise up



guys arent smiling

the struggle for kittycat is strong

Diddyydiva:
Ladies wise up




guys arent smiling


the struggle for kittycat is strong

I tells you. As if someone be here to just catch some fun

WHITEWIZARD:
can i pm u?

saiintmurai naver change

KingRex1:
I tells you. As if someone be here to just catch some fun

what shall it profit a man to gain the crush of all the nairaland babes, including the married ones sef?

Smh. Dis is a faceless forum, y will i want to toast or get d attention of any lady? There r lots of ladies around me if i need one, y bother on those fake ones on nl dat i cant even see??

KINGinVALHALA3:
And again, nothing new stated by the op.

@op, aren't you the same person bursted for impersonation

padi! what's up

Festivalofholi:
Smh. Dis is a faceless forum, y will i want to toast or get d attention of any lady? There r lots of ladies around me dat i can see, y bother on those fake ones on nl dat i cant even see??

I tell u..

KINGinVALHALA3:

Nna, I'm "badding" bro, lol

Hope all is well over there?

the coast is clear, even tho the coast is not clear, I clear the coast by my self... blv


it has been long bro! hope everything is fine?

All these write ups and comments ONLY for the sake of getting into that love-like thing called kitten... Wat a waste!

;DSha na Crush?.. Its Just easy, just post a riped abs of yourself as a dp or post a picture of yourself holding wads of naira: simple.

kaziblake:
PM kwa? How many have you met?

Good question.