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Mediapace:
When you hit the share button behind your posts

evegran:
Op I'm so sorry about what you're experiencing.

Some people are just insensitive and inconsiderate.

We can be friends if you want.

You can drop your bbm pin or whatsapp number and I'll add you and even call you if you want.

Don't feel bad about it. Someone understands you, okay?
Just focus on your dreams, be more determined and hard working.

You will make it!

Emimoney:
i do it everyday buh like button is easily to understand, buh share? Who am i sharing it to

evegran:
Op I'm so sorry about what you're experiencing.

Some people are just insensitive and inconsiderate.

We can be friends if you want.

You can drop your bbm pin or whatsapp number and I'll add you and even call you if you want.

Don't feel bad about it. Someone understands you, okay?
Just focus on your dreams, be more determined and hard working.

You will make it!

Emimoney:
08140062358, thanks

evegran:
I've added and sent you a message.

Lamborghini:
Sorry oga enimoney, extroverts are like that, they think they are so special and great because they need the company of people all the time to exist.
In my opinion extroverts are airheads and follow follow and copycats that are afraid of going against the crowd so that they can always fit in.
Introverts are the strong ones because their lives don't depend on the approval and company of other people.

Try and build your self esteem though because you sound like a very sensitive person who is easily hurt. The groundnut woman wasn't trying to hurt you when she said you don't have change. She honestly didn't know why you were still standing there so she said something to let you know that.
And the people in the first store were just jerks although I suspect they were behaving that way because they think you are a proud or bad person and that's why you don't relate with people. Do you normally greet them if you see them outside or do you ignore and go into your imagination?
Extroverts dont understand that introverts think a lot so when you go into your head thinking, they assume you are a bad or proud person that deliberately ignores the world around you and they develop unnecesary hostility or hatred as a result.
In any case sorry for how they treated you, it was wrong.

juhan:
one share. You're owing me 10litres fuel

Emimoney:
i don't greet them, i was the type that greet everybody i see on the road buh now i don't greeting them will get them closer to you, anything i do they don't like, they will like to stop me on the road to embrass me, like if i barb mohwak hairstyle, they will keep on disturbing me to remove it, so i said to myself is it because i greet them everyday so i said time to stop greeting them, the best way to avoid them is to avoid greeting them, it works, buh they thought i have joined a bad gang, u know how this people think

Lamborghini:
^^^ So you see why they are hostile?
They think you're snobbing them and they are angry.

Try to start greeting and responding to greeting. And smile.

If they tell you to change your hair style tell them you cannot in a playful, joking way. If they insist then say you will change but continue barbing the same style. When they realize that you have no desire to change your choice they will leave you alone.

fritiyo:
So, is now litres of fuel in exchange of service rendered abi?

is alright, since fuel has become d most expensive thing we have around na.

PunkyV:
Doesn't sound like introversion to me, more like some kind of social anxiety issue. It's like you feel like an outsider & wanna be accepted, so when you do go out, you get sensitive to any signs of rejection (whether them be real or imagined). IMO, introversion doesn't neccesarily equate sociallly inept or WEIRDO.

I'm also an introvert & I enjoy my own company more than that of other people, I can't help it. Usually people are drawn to me though, I'm the one that doesn't like to socialize. Also, I tend not to give a rat's ass about most people to begin with, so I cant relate to the social rejection part. I can razzle & dazzle during the short times I spend around people, but for some reason I just cant wait to get away. Sometimes I feel fake, almost like an actor, because I'd tell people, "Let's meet again" or agree to when they suggest we meet up again, while knowing fully well I won't be meeting up again. At least not so soon. I need my space to recharge my energies after any sort of social gathering/interaction.

LeSudAfricaine:
You've just described me, I'm also like this, get very exhausted after being exposed to many people, wow, this is me