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| The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Babyboo92(f): 11:14pm On May 15, 2016 |
The only way you can punish your ex and get revenge is by using the "no contact rule". There are certain things you must do in order to establish the "no contact" rule. I'll list them below: 1. Delete his number from your phone: This is the first thing you need to do before anything else. Erase all his phone numbers from your phone. Don't write it down anywhere as a form of reference. This prevents you from having the urge to call your ex when you miss him. 2. Don't call or text him: Whenever you feel like calling or texting your ex, please find something else to occupy your mind. You're not supposed to call or text him till the "no contact" is over. As far you're still hurting inside, refrain from contacting your ex; it will only hurt you more. If you call him and he answers in a nonchalant tone or another girl answers, what would you do? Cry even more! Don't call or text him no matter what. 3. Block him on Whatsapp : It's normal for him to pretend to care about you even when he was the one who dumped you. He'll chat you up on Whatsapp to see how you're coping or not coping without him. Just block him already! All he wants is to fan his ego! When he sees or hears how miserable you are, he will feel gratified. Don't give him that joy! 4. Defriend him on Facebook: Facebook would be another means for him to see how you are coping with the break up. He may post some updates or pictures and tag you in them; ignore all those tricks. He is on punishment and therefore, he doesn't deserve your friendship. Defriend him and block him on Facebook. 5. Delete him on twitter: Twitter will be his other target in getting your attention. Don't mind his mentions or hashtags; just delete him, unfollow him and block him if possible. Just shut him out of your head; you need time to recuperate. 1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by hemartins(m): 11:19pm On May 15, 2016 |
You ain't punishing him rather you are punishing yourself. Just let go. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by ronald4lif(m): 11:20pm On May 15, 2016 |
Punish? How do you punish someone who has moved on? 4 Likes |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Babyboo92(f): 11:21pm On May 15, 2016 |
6. Ignore his calls and texts: At this point, he will notice that you're avoiding him and he will like to use his sweet voice on you. Remain adamant! Don't pick up any of his calls or reply to any of his messages. Just go cold turkey! He won't give up so easily though. He will try to contact you at all costs; don't pay him any attention. Just focus on yourself and do all the fun stuff you've been dreaming of. 7. Don't stalk him on social media: Even when you have deleted him on every social network, you may have the urge to check up on him regularly to see what he is up to. Don't do it! I think it's better to avoid stalking him on social media or in reality. Don't follow him everywhere to see the new girl he is dating; it's absolutely none of your business. Don't make his private life seem important to you. 8. Don't ask his friends or family members about him: Whenever you meet any of his friends or family members, don't avoid them. You could just greet them and chat a little but don't ask them questions about him. Anything you say or ask about him, could likely get to him and he might get the notion that you are still hurting. source: http://momentswithjenny..com/2016/05/how-to-punish-your-ex.html 1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Babyboo92(f): 11:22pm On May 15, 2016 |
you punish them by not being friends with them. period! 1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Kiish(m): 11:22pm On May 15, 2016 |
what would you gain by punishing your ex? just move on with your life and stop being petty. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 11:22pm On May 15, 2016 |
Hurt? Hope it works for yhu! |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 11:24pm On May 15, 2016 |
It's on nairaland I learnt that my ex is my enemy. |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by yorex2011: 11:37pm On May 15, 2016 |
Bullcrap of the month award |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by sexymonkey(m): 12:17am On May 16, 2016 |
childish behavior. 1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Burgerlomo: 3:31am On May 16, 2016 |
Babyboo92: You're damn right I did the number 1-4 1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Jadekitana(f): 5:39am On May 16, 2016 |
Op you are very correct. All these worked well for me, he's now desperate and miserable. 1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by firstking01(m): 6:01am On May 16, 2016 |
Same old shit....all these ones doesn't work especially if you still love him.... Two things that works... Get into another relationship asap, and try to channel your energy to love that person.. OR better still....wait for time, time heals, but it might take a long time sha. 4 Likes |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 6:07am On May 16, 2016 |
 I hate deleting numbers...but I wudnt think twice to block him everywhere & push the button "spammer" juz to double secure that he can't find me anywhere...1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 6:08am On May 16, 2016 |
firstking01: The expert is speaking |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 6:09am On May 16, 2016 |
You are deceiving yourself there . |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by firstking01(m): 6:10am On May 16, 2016 |
KashyBaby:My queen |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 6:12am On May 16, 2016 |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by firstking01(m): 6:17am On May 16, 2016 |
KashyBaby:o yeah...thats one of my callings in the ministry i am now ...btw, our likes are never lucky to have a good girl to date |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by VictorRomanov: 6:20am On May 16, 2016 |
firstking01: This is suicidal. You'll be doing comparative analysis and you and your new love would suffer.
This is better. It heals faster when one sets a worthwhile personal goal. No contact rule works also. But most of what the op mentioned are extreme. Love gone sour don't necessarily mean enmity. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 6:20am On May 16, 2016 |
firstking01: Haahahhahaa..what ministry u in? Well, u know opposite attracts... - good boys , bad girls... -bad boys, good girls...  so don't be surprise.. |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by otimothy(m): 7:09am On May 16, 2016 |
and dont forget to delete him number from your brain,delete his name and twitter handle and erase the memories as well...........rada rada |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Nobody: 7:30am On May 16, 2016 |
°•Oh! Let me show you how ta do it petty. 1.Take sexy pics an upload them to yer social accounts on the networks you both use ....Let him see an remember the hot piece he gave up! 2.) If you still come into some contact with each other make sure you always look good, look better than you ever did while ya'll dated. 3.) Still assuming ya'll cross paths smile an talk friendly ta him ...let him see you ain't messed up bout him  ...though you prolly is,but fake it! 4)Get a new man finer an sexier than him!  .....This for you personally but you can also flont of yer new man in yer ex's face! BUT: The best thing you can do,what I suggest you do .......°•is forget yer ex an move on with someone else°• 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Marlvin(m): 7:36am On May 16, 2016 |
What is this ? some random balderdash from a naive minor Nevertheless I'd overlook your naivety . you call this punishments ? The most suitable topic for this is 'how to get over your ex' |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Laveda(f): 8:18am On May 16, 2016 |
These ain't punishments.. Just ways to avoid your ex.. But what's the essence of punishing him  You fell out of love it's better you move on and stop being petty. |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by RAKITIC: 8:21am On May 16, 2016 |
Laveda:Spot on. Good morning |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Marlvin(m): 8:22am On May 16, 2016 |
Laveda: Exactly my point ! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Laveda(f): 8:26am On May 16, 2016 |
RAKITIC: Morning. |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Odunharry(m): 8:30am On May 16, 2016 |
I pity gals make go follow that advice.. |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by joseph1832(m): 8:33am On May 16, 2016 |
ronald4lif:By ignoring them or telling them to shove it. Know that some of these women always like to eat their cake and have it. Moving on is never enough for them as they'll still want to be friends with you. Kindly read my letter to nigerian women, and you'll understand this. Just check my threads, and you'll see it. 1 Like |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by joseph1832(m): 8:36am On May 16, 2016 |
Laveda:Em, but what if they're the one who called it quits with you, and they'll still saying they want to be friends with you? |
| Re: The Best Way To Punish Your Ex by Laveda(f): 8:40am On May 16, 2016 |
joseph1832: That ain't bad, sometimes moving on doesn't mean you stopt talking to the person totally rather taking your mind off what ever you both had...but not every lady can handle that so it's better you part ways. Depends on the kinda friendship tho but I try as much as possible to stay far from my ex cause once we breakup I got no business with you anymore. |
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