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Mindfulness:
The moment you feel that you need to punish your spouse, is the moment you should ask yourself if you married the wrong person.

Dyt:
Sex
Tell him you are worn our doing chores
If he wants all round
Tell him he should come have it in the kitchen
Play with his thing while he's doing the dishes
Walk around in your thong and bra while he's moping and do him pole dance while laundry

Someone said seduction
I have given the best way out
And you said punishment

Infact both works in line




Mtchew
BTW mindfulness has given you the best advice

Knightngale:
it's has absolutely nothing to do with whether a person married the right to wrong spouse you for example who married the right spouse, can you say you've never had occasions where you feel bitter about his actions or in actions? Punishment as used connotes how can you repay him for refusing to help

treasuredkids:
This is hilarious. Seriously if u were a woman will u av that time and inspiration to be putting up all this stage play cos u want ur hubby to help do the dishes? fantancy and reality are miles apart.

Mamatee07:
A man cleaning up after him self is disrespect all you lazy men of these days. I am sure there is a reason they don't have a maid probably the same man will say no to maids
Plus the fact that you have maids doesn't mean you won't pick up after yourself as a decent human being who raised these spoilt men sef.

You too have respect for your wife. She goes to work for the same hours as you, takes care of kids and pays bills and yet you can't help with household chores and you'll call yourself the stronger sex yet leave the most work for the so called weaker sex what a joke

Dyt:
She wants to punish him

taryour:
how about stabbing him in his sleep or putting a nail tru his head that should help you na. or you can get a cane or better still koboko and use it as well . the use of the word " punishment " showed the grudge you already have against your husband.

@greatgod2012 and edwife you couldn't have said it better.

Knightngale:
Any suggestions? Someone needs an advise.

Knightngale:
see all these evil wives acting like saints on the internet first of all, the use of punishment does not in anyway suggest the existence of a grudge, if you weren't a retard, you would have observed the tone of the post and know that I didn't mean punishment in the way you have painted it secondly, where did I mention it's about me? Rubbish!

Ewuro4:
This woman eh

taryour:
sis no mind me jare. the thing sound absurd for my ear ni jare. punish like she is dealing with non living thing, on top house chores oo. if the man come cheat nko? I wonder wetin go happen.

how you dey jare and all yours?

Knightngale:
Any suggestions? Someone needs an advise.

mizzochocinco:
get one sexy 25yrs old houseboy

taryour:
Yea right see who is talking. you come on a social media and use the word " punish " for a man you call your husband ontop washing plate and sweeping. that's ridiculous. you are not a machine neither am I, if you can't finish the chores at once leave the rest until you have strenght / time to continue.

tone my foot. if I hear. and please stop hiding behind the curtain saying " who says it's about me " just come out clean and stop hiding in the closet. we are no fools here.

ppl should just be their selves for once and just playing games with " my friend " " my cousin" my neighbour"

the fact that you use the word "punish" ain't good at all.

like I bloody care however you decide to rule your home or treat your husband. ish

and by the way I am no saint. I got my own issues too and I iron them out. thank you

cococandy:
Best punishment.
Do what you can and let him fester in the remaining filth (that's if it doesn't bug you too).
It's not possible to be hands on with everything in the house especially if you work and have more than one kid.
So some days,you do some leave some.
Once in a while let his favorite shirt stay in the washer for days until he needs it and can't find it because you were too busy with other stuff to remember washing it.
Some days make his dinner very late until he realizes he needs to chip in to help move the ministry forward.
Somebody cannot come and go and die (this grammar still makes me laugh ).

Disregard if you guys have an arrangement where only you keep the home and he brings in the bacon.

Knightngale:
oh really? Why the emphasis on 25 years old? And why sexy?

treasuredkids:
Nice explanation.

mizzochocinco:
so your husband can catch you looking at his nyash guys look their best in their mid 20s

Ewuro4:
What's his offence?

Knightngale:
are you trying to promote marital infidelity?

mizzochocinco:
no im trying to help you. He will get jealous and start helping you himself. I only said look at his nyash if you end up under him it will be your own fault o

Knightngale:
I can smell the influence of weed in this post.

taryour:
Yea right see who is talking. you come on a social media and use the word " punish " for a man you call your husband ontop washing plate and sweeping. that's ridiculous. you are not a machine neither am I, if you can't finish the chores at once leave the rest until you have strenght / time to continue.

tone my foot. if I hear. and please stop hiding behind the curtain saying " who says it's about me " just come out clean and stop hiding in the closet. we are no fools here.

ppl should just be their selves for once and just playing games with " my friend " " my cousin" my neighbour"

the fact that you use the word "punish" ain't good at all.

like I bloody care however you decide to rule your home or treat your husband. ish

and by the way I am no saint. I got my own issues too and I iron them out. thank you

cococandy:
Best punishment.
Do what you can and let him fester in the remaining filth (that's if it doesn't bug you too).
It's not possible to be hands on with everything in the house especially if you work and have more than one kid.
So some days,you do some leave some.
Once in a while let his favorite shirt stay in the washer for days until he needs it and can't find it because you were too busy with other stuff to remember washing it.
Some days make his dinner very late until he realizes he needs to chip in to help move the ministry forward.
Somebody cannot come and go and die (this grammar still makes me laugh ).

Disregard if you guys have an arrangement where only you keep the home and he brings in the bacon.

mizzochocinco:
okay let me keep to my " weed" and you stick to doing the chores yourself then continue

taryour:
sis no mind me jare. the thing sound absurd for my ear ni jare. punish like she is dealing with non living thing, on top house chores oo. if the man come cheat nko? I wonder wetin go happen.

how you dey jare and all yours?

Knightngale:
it's has absolutely nothing to do with whether a person married the right to wrong spouse you for example who married the right spouse, can you say you've never had occasions where you feel bitter about his actions or in actions? Punishment as used connotes how can you repay him for refusing to help

byvan03:
Punishment ke? Do the ones you can do and leave the rest till further notice.

Mindfulness:
No, I NEVER feel bitterness.

In the context of this thread it is a reasonable question to ask because I doubt that any sane person would want to punish their spouse for refusing to help on ONE occasion. If one thinks of punishment, then it must have been triggered by a series of events, which means that there is a core problem, which could have been avoided if one had set their priorities right before saying 'yes till death do us part'.

cococandy:
Best punishment.
Do what you can and let him fester in the remaining filth (that's if it doesn't bug you too).
It's not possible to be hands on with everything in the house especially if you work and have more than one kid.
So some days,you do some leave some.
Once in a while let his favorite shirt stay in the washer for days until he needs it and can't find it because you were too busy with other stuff to remember washing it.
Some days make his dinner very late until he realizes he needs to chip in to help move the ministry forward.
Somebody cannot come and go and die (this grammar still makes me laugh ).
Disregard if you guys have an arrangement where only you keep the home and he brings in the bacon.

taryour:
Yea right see who is talking. you come on a social media and use the word " punish " for a man you call your husband ontop washing plate and sweeping. that's ridiculous. you are not a machine neither am I, if you can't finish the chores at once leave the rest until you have strenght / time to continue.

tone my foot. if I hear. and please stop hiding behind the curtain saying " who says it's about me " just come out clean and stop hiding in the closet. we are no fools here.

ppl should just be their selves for once and just playing games with " my friend " " my cousin" my neighbour"

the fact that you use the word "punish" ain't good at all.

like I bloody care however you decide to rule your home or treat your husband. ish

and by the way I am no saint. I got my own issues too and I iron them out. thank you

Knightngale:
you are taking it too far, you are too hardcore to appreciate thee topic, you take things too seriously abeg, read coco's reply, that's what I'm talking about