CaptainEColeJnr:
you can still love again ... Actually, a girl hurt me so much back in my high school days... till now I'm still feeling the pain but sometimes we just have to dust ourselves up and move on.

you can love again dear

Awwww sorry bou dat

Tanx i kno i will

Israel5:
i'll consider ur advice. Thank you

If you like dont, keep giving yourself unnecessary hopes

Looks like a good friendship, definitely not a romantic or intimate relationship. Perhaps, you should keep her as a friend and explore dating other women--not having sex with them, but just dating--who may have more in common with you (i.e. affectionate). You are starving yourself in the relationship you are currently in. Good luck brother!

halfricanadian:


Awwww sorry bou dat

Tanx i kno i will

Good ... I'm still trying to love again .. but I guess I'll shelve that for later... I need to focus now.
You can give ur self a break and reflect on ur love life and set a time frame to decide whether you need a man now or maybe later.. it depends on what you're doing now..

If you need love go for it" don't deny yourself

amross16:
Looks like a good friendship, definitely not a romantic or intimate relationship. Perhaps, you should keep her as a friend and explore dating other women--not having sex with them, but just dating--who may have more in common with you (i.e. affectionate). You are starving yourself in the relationship you are currently in. Good luck brother!

thanks. I love u! #dnt get me wrng#

CaptainEColeJnr:
Good ... I'm still trying to love again .. but I guess I'll shelve that for later... I need to focus now.
You can give ur self a break and reflect on ur love life and set a time frame to decide whether you need a man now or maybe later.. it depends on what you're doing now..

If you need love go for it" don't deny yourself

Awwwwwww tank u

I needed dis tanx

halfricanadian:


Awwwwwww tank u

I needed dis tanx

Goodnight sweetie ...

coolh3ad:



Bros I saw this -"We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad" and I am wondering why you would agree to that kind of "AGREEMENT"....Never you accept to date a "Nigerian" Babe (In short any babe) without sex....The outcome of that agreement always leaves the guy heartbroken...I am telling you bros...To even make matters worse, she is complaining that you ain't ROMANTIC...Ehhhhhh bros, if you know you truly love this babe and you don't wanna lose her and you don't wanna get heartbroken, Quickly "disagree" that "agreement" oooo....They say a word is enough for the wise.......

the agreement is not as bad as you are painting it bro.

CaptainEColeJnr:
Goodnight sweetie ...

goodnight o. Byee

jopretty:
You just made my evening aswearigad...

I meant to, love

CaptainEColeJnr:
Goodnight sweetie ...

Nyt

Israel5:
goodnight o. Byee

boss.. goodnyt too .. thanks

alizma:

the agreement is not as bad as you are painting it bro.

Bros it is "badder" than how I am painting it...It has happened to me...I know of other guys and "my guys" that this same thing has happened to...They'll tell you that "I don't want sex till my wedding night" or "I don't really like sex so I don't want sex" but they'll end up cheating on you or have some other guy disflower them....You'll be forming Mr nice guy saying "let me give her time" or "Relationship is not all about sex" and they'll be giving it free of charge to some other dude....Bros wisen up oooo.....I ain't a sexmaniac or someone that thinks about sex all the time but these babes forming holy holy can break a guy's heart into pieces...I tell you....

ask her if she love you or not...shikena

youngsahito:
ask her if she love you or not...shikena

she does na. More than me sef. She says it everytime.

Israel5:
she does na. More than me sef. She says it everytime.

then y d hide n seek love?

Israel5:
she does na. More than me sef. She says it everytime.

then y d hide n seek love?I hope it is not friendship love that she have for you

Israel5:
she does na. More than me sef. She says it everytime.

then y d hide n seek love?I hope it is not friendship love that she have for you.

youngsahito:
then y d hide n seek love?I hope it is not friendship love that she has for you

ok. Hope so too. thnks for ur opinion

O boy you need slap, you no sabi play your package well.

nuggarito:
O boy you need slap, you no sabi play your package well.

i don't play watever u call it. I'm faithful

Israel5:
i don't play watever u call it. I'm faithful

and who told you its all about cheating? If you don't make a move to understand what your girl really wants, you might end up heartbroken, ask your female friends what you must do instead of coming here to form the good manchi .

nuggarito:
and who told you its all about cheating? If you don't make a move to understand what your girl really wants, you might end up heartbroken, ask your female friends what you must do instead of coming here to form the good manchi .

ok. Tnx anyway

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Israel5:
I love my girlfriend so much that i could do almost anything for her. Our relationship is a unique one. We've known eachother since childhood and i didn't ask her out before our ship left the coast and she didn't ask me out either but i'm having some challenges with her. We're both introverts but i've almost become an ex due to my exposure so i need your opinion. I'm frustrated in these areas..
1. She introduced me as a son of my father. We've been family friends since childhood so her dad knws mine. We lost touch and when we came back as adults, we .. U knw na. Eh en. So i visited her at her father's house and she introduced me as my father's son. Not even her friend fa. And it has become a norm for her. I don't do same.
2. She's never hugged me. My gf has never hugged(real hug). She gives me the side when i make a move. She's not DLBC member o. We're both thesame denom. She's not even spiritual like me sef.
3. She's never kissed me. My gf has never pecked me not to talk of kiss. She never gives me the chance. We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad.
4. She's very shy. Sometimes i think it's the reason for 2 and 3. I can't even hold her hands in the day only at night and her palms get all sweaty in the cold night.
5. She never gets angry at me. No matter what i do(i don't cheat), she never gets angry at me. I've seen her angry but it wasn't at me. It makes me scared cos that personality is dangerous.
6. She never visits me alone. She visits me with her gigantic brother and when they come, the brother and i talk football forgetting her presence..lol. And she complains abt that.
6. She complains i'm not romantic. This is the worst part. It makes me go haywire because she frustrates my every effort.
7. She does not take my words seriously. She insists i tell her words like, 'you're beautiful, i love your butt, waist, dress, i love you' et al but when i do she goes like, 'o pls, stop joking jawe'. It leaves me empty.
8. I can't tell her all these. This is the killer part. My complains break her bones and leaves her heart broken like i dumped her and i end up cuddling her with sorries and i love youss.
P.s: candid opinions only pls. Shove up criticisms and insults up your fingers. Thanks.
Lalastica

sorry to say but she is having the sex somewhere else, i know you will doubt me but real guy will understand what am saying.

coolh3ad:



Bros I saw this -"We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad" and I am wondering why you would agree to that kind of "AGREEMENT"....Never you accept to date a "Nigerian" Babe (In short any babe) without sex....The outcome of that agreement always leaves the guy heartbroken...I am telling you bros...To even make matters worse, she is complaining that you ain't ROMANTIC...Ehhhhhh bros, if you know you truly love this babe and you don't wanna lose her and you don't wanna get heartbroken, Quickly "disagree" that "agreement" oooo....They say a word is enough for the wise.......

gbam, same thing i told him n the worst part she will be having it with another guy..if he knows was good for him, he better disagree that agreement...girls are wicked o n the funny part is that he can find out except he tries to get in cus p88sy no get meter, e no dey read.

There is/was never a relationship

schumastic:


sorry to say but she is having the sex somewhere else, i know you will doubt me but real guy will understand what am saying.

she's a virgin. I know that ok?

Psalmone:
@Israel5 Marry her. I believe girls can marry from 17 up and guys from 18 up. And don't touch her please until you are married, as I already told you. Romance is not holding hands, hugging and kissing someone that is not your wife. Romance and true love is to be a man not a boy. If you are 18 and the girl is at least 17 do the introduction and marry her.

i hope marry her. She is ready to marry me too

Lol two option dump her walk away or Stay and ,,,commit suicide!
She don't care Lol.

Smhart1:
There is/was never a relationship

you're the type that give it all

Israel5:
she's a virgin. I know that ok?

HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT WHEN SHE HAVE NOT GIVEN YOU A HUG IS NOW THE PROMISE LAND THAT YOU HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT THAT YOU KNOW...AS A FELLOW GUY AM ONLY TELLING YOU THIS BEFORE THE TRUTH WILL B REVEALED..TO PROVE ME WRONG, ONE OF THIS DAYS TRY MAKING A MOVE N SEE HER REACTION

Israel5:
I love my girlfriend so much that i could do almost anything for her. Our relationship is a unique one. We've known eachother since childhood and i didn't ask her out before our ship left the coast and she didn't ask me out either but i'm having some challenges with her. We're both introverts but i've almost become an ex due to my exposure .so i need your opinion. I'm frustrated in these areas..

Your relationship sure is unique...but in it you only end up stifling yourself. I can see you craving for more...so you sure need to man the hell up, take charge...else you remain locked up in friendzone and one badt guy would come sweep her off her feet

Israel5:

1. She introduced me as a son of my father. We've been family friends since childhood so her dad knws mine. We lost touch and when we came back as adults, we .. U knw na. Eh en. So i visited her at her father's house and she introduced me as my father's son. Not even her friend fa. And it has become a norm for her. I don't do same.

I see her shy nature at play, and she ain't willing to open up...so baba, the introduction now is up to you. Start in a subtle way and let her family and friends know you both are an item.
I could give clues...but you need to develop your own style

Israel5:

2. She's never hugged me. My gf has never hugged(real hug). She gives me the side when i make a move. She's not DLBC member o. We're both thesame denom. She's not even spiritual like me sef.

This part is weird...you call her your girlfriend, yet u've never had the comfort of giving her a big warm hug from the front or a bear hug from behind. Even IFA cannot help you

You need to let her know how you feel about it, and find ways to make her come out of her shell. The way you approach her matters a lot

Israel5:

3. She's never kissed me. My gf has never pecked me not to talk of kiss. She never gives me the chance. We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad.

There are ways to make her want to kiss you and crave it without her making the moves...silent whispers, romantic texts. It's all about how you paint a picture in her mind

Israel5:

4. She's very shy. Sometimes i think it's the reason for 2 and 3. I can't even hold her hands in the day only at night and her palms get all sweaty in the cold night.

It might take a little while for her to get a bit confident and comfortable. Don't expect much though, cz even that form of pda might be too much for her cz of people around.

Israel5:

5. She never gets angry at me. No matter what i do(i don't cheat), she never gets angry at me. I've seen her angry but it wasn't at me. It makes me scared cos that personality is dangerous.

Have u made her really angry before?...and I hope she doesn't bottle her emotions and feelings, else that can be highly dangerful.
If she is the calm type, then you need not worry

Israel5:

6. She never visits me alone. She visits me with her gigantic brother and when they come, the brother and i talk football forgetting her presence..lol. And she complains abt that.

Let her know she's the cause of u abandoning her most times. Rather, if she ain't comfortable with you alone at home, there are outdoor avenues were you both can have a quiet time.

Israel5:

6. She complains i'm not romantic. This is the worst part. It makes me go haywire because she frustrates my every effort .

Let her know the things you have done that she shoved away...and next time tell her what romantic gesture you have planned up for her so she sees everything you do.
I know it sounds frustrating...cz ladies are rather fond of surprises

Israel5:

7. She does not take my words seriously. She insists i tell her words like, 'you're beautiful, i love your butt, waist, dress, i love you' et al but when i do she goes like, 'o pls, stop joking jawe'. It leaves me empty.

Hope you aren't misinterpreting her actions?...that is, if she was blushing and shoving you off
Complements should rather be spontaneous and sincere

Israel5:

8. I can't tell her all these. This is the killer part. My complains break her bones and leaves her heart broken like i dumped her and i end up cuddling her with sorries and i love youss.

Someway...somehow you have to communicate cz that's the foundation of every relationship. If you both get married, how would you handle your home?