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my motto in life is do to others as u want others to you and your family. She's hurt you, yes, but your revenge is just too much. Imagine the embarrassment on her family. You can end it a day before the introduction or make them wait and don't show up. Whatever sha, do as u please. Good luck!!

waley007:
Same thing just happened to me,my woman that I stood by for 3 year now call me broke,shes now dating a rich guy and would be snapping inside his car everytime just to make me feel bad...she told me she would soon get a new fone and mocked me,now the guy has gotten her Samsung s5.,she would ignore my msgs...imagine I have been there for her for 3 years and did everything for her,furnished her room and all.infact we ar supposed to do our intro this year
Pray she regrets one day

Some girls can be very mean. My girl used to say i'm stingy despite all I did for her, it got to a head & i told her its over between us & she did not even complain or beg, the other time i told her it was over she later came begging but right now i have not been myself since saturday i told her, i feel empty & miss her a lot. She is very pretty & i pray some rich dude doesnt grab her. I'm itching to call her but also confused because of her attitude. I love her & even want to marry her.

proeast:
Some girls can be very mean. My girl used to say i'm stingy despite all I did for her, it got to a head & i told her its over between us & she did not even complain or beg, the other time i told her it was over she later came begging but right now i have not been myself since saturday i told her, i feel empty & miss her a lot. She is very pretty & i pray some rich dude doesnt grab her. I'm itching to call her but also confused because of her attitude. I love her & even want to marry her.

Be strong my guy, don't let love overshadow u cos it(love) has never been enof to hold on to a relationship, if u tink she's is nt d rite one fo u, be stong, control ur emotions and let go of her, I believe u can do dat as a man, if otherwise(she is d rite one for u) Pick ur fone and call ur woman!









#Love is not enof!

juhan:
yeah you can but its not free

really, so i have to pay or what

Dahyormine:
Be strong my guy, don't let love overshadow u cos it(love) has never been enof to hold on to a relationship, if u tink she's is nt d rite one fo u, be stong, control ur emotions and let go of her, I believe u can do dat as a man, if otherwise(she is d rite one for u) Pick ur fone and call ur woman!









#Love is not enof!

I just got off the phone with her friend & she told me the girl is not even missing me. That she showed her my sms & told her we are no longer together. I think that decides it for me, i'm going to flirt with a lady from her village she knows very well & even respects, she is a sister inlaw to my cousin. I know she will die of envy when she gets to know.

schumastic:
really, so i have to pay or what

lol no dont worry

Ifakiland:
so I used to be broke dating dis gal, one day out of the blues...she called me and said "you too broke for my liking I fink we a need a break so u can focus on making money, den if am still single we can come bk togeda" I was beyond shocked...tears rolled down my face. One year later I got a job, started a booming bizness....now she bk, she claimed it was her advice, her prayers and d break dat worked for me....i proposed to her she sed yes on d spot. I've met her parents....but I av other plans...I plan to break up with her on d day of our introduction coming up nxt month...want her to feel d heartbreak she put me thru and tell her to go make her own money and if am still single we can continue.

bros for the sake of her family,i urge you to end the relationship now instead of embarrassing them.Not all families will take what you are about to do likely.

juhan:
lol no dont worry

good to know i can have it, so when are you sending it

proeast:
I just got off the phone with her friend & she told me the girl is not even missing me. That she showed her my sms & told her we are no longer together. I think that decides it for me, i'm going to flirt with a lady from her village she knows very well & even respects, she is a sister inlaw to my cousin. I know she will die of envy when she gets to know.

what kind of her friend tells u that,are you sure that friend mean good for you both??if u are sure then the friend knows better..that's if she's not crushing on you too.
If the girl doesn't miss you too,my brother there is anoda guy in the corner and her friend will never want to tell u that too.let your action just be a 50/50 thing

I just pity u planing evil plot, why putting her to such shame. Why av you taken up to her when you know you have nothing for her. My brother that can bring a wrath of God on yourself for that. Forgive one another as Christ forgave you. What we don't know is that breakup sometimes is always a blessing in disguise.

waley007:
what kind of her friend tells u that,are you sure that friend mean good for you both??if u are sure then the friend knows better..that's if she's not crushing on you too.
If the girl doesn't miss you too,my brother there is anoda guy in the corner and her friend will never want to tell u that too.let your action just be a 50/50 thing

Thanks bro, I do wonder if the friend really means well for us atimes, though there was a time she pleaded on my behalf & her fiance is based abroad. There was a time i took her out & she was somehow behaving funny claiming she was tipsy. Even when i told her i was going to flirt with the girl, she was trying to discourage me. I love my girl so much but i know if i dont take some decisions & stand on it, she will always take me for granted. I doubt if there is another guy in her life now & she is easily decieved by her friends. I'm just confused, I need another gal asap to stop thinking about her!!

most of y'all are saying forgive...making reference to God. it's cool I do really get ur point of view, but know that even God has so set of offenses dat ain't pardonable. For me Wat she did is one of such. am not actually cancelling d introduction am just putting it on hold on d day of d ceremony so I can address everyone present my reasons at once instead of having to say d same thing multiple times to different people. better to say it at d ceremony so all will hear at once.

Ifakiland:
most of y'all are saying forgive...making reference to God. it's cool I do really get ur point of view, but know that even God has so set of offenses dat ain't pardonable. For me Wat she did is one of such. am not actually cancelling d introduction am just putting it on hold on d day of d ceremony so I can address everyone present my reasons at once instead of having to say d same thing multiple times to different people. better to say it at d ceremony so all will hear at once.

then youbnow proceed to marry her after saying it??

Ifakiland:
so I used to be broke dating dis gal, one day out of the blues...she called me and said "you too broke for my liking I fink we a need a break so u can focus on making money, den if am still single we can come bk togeda" I was beyond shocked...tears rolled down my face. One year later I got a job, started a booming bizness....now she bk, she claimed it was her advice, her prayers and d break dat worked for me....i proposed to her she sed yes on d spot. I've met her parents....but I av other plans...I plan to break up with her on d day of our introduction coming up nxt month...want her to feel d heartbreak she put me thru and tell her to go make her own money and if am still single we can continue.

Not like I care about the senseless and dumb gold digger, but for the sake of her parents (whom I'm sure never knew of or supported her actions back when she left you), don't take it too far. Break up with her asap bro and don't wait until the intro. Thanks.

chigoizie7:
see, bros if u wouldn't have enough morale to do the breaking, halla me, i will show with some weed, and enough gingering.

these whores must learn to enjoy the kinda food they dish to others to eat.

Nwoke, well done oh!

proeast:
Thanks bro, I do wonder if the friend really means well for us atimes, though there was a time she pleaded on my behalf & her fiance is based abroad. There was a time i took her out & she was somehow behaving funny claiming she was tipsy. Even when i told her i was going to flirt with the girl, she was trying to discourage me. I love my girl so much but i know if i dont take some decisions & stand on it, she will always take me for granted. I doubt if there is another guy in her life now & she is easily decieved by her friends. I'm just confused, I need another gal asap to stop thinking about her!!

Just get an ugly girl cuz nothing vexes girls more than their bf dumping them for uglier or plain ugly girls...

It doesn't matter what revenge you melt out on her.she will still be what God has created her to be.
The ability to know when to let go is what makes you who you are.

SycophanticGoat:
Not like I care about the senseless and dumb gold digger, but for the sake of her parents (whom I'm sure never knew of or supported her actions back when she left you), don't take it too far. Break up with her asap bro and don't wait until the intro. Thanks.



Nwoke, well done oh!

Sycophanticgoat, nwanne mmadu kee k'eke si anya anwu that way?

SycophanticGoat:
Just get an ugly girl cuz nothing vexes girls more than their bf dumping them for uglier or plain ugly girls...

Bros, u have tey'ed in dis game oh, he can even get one wey no sabi speak english or wey her chest over flat.

Better still, pick one of those her so called friends.

chigoizie7:
Sycophanticgoat, nwanne mmadu kee k'eke si anya anwu that way?

Ihe na aga ofuma. Dalu. Kedu ka nke gi so aga?

SycophanticGoat:
Ihe na aga ofuma. Dalu. Kedu ka nke gi so aga?

Nwanne, udo gba shoe.

chigoizie7:
Nwanne, udo gba shoe.

Inna achi zi nu achi. Ochili ozuo nke nbu...

Ifakiland:
so I used to be broke dating dis gal, one day out of the blues...she called me and said "you too broke for my liking I fink we a need a break so u can focus on making money, den if am still single we can come bk togeda" I was beyond shocked...tears rolled down my face. One year later I got a job, started a booming bizness....now she bk, she claimed it was her advice, her prayers and d break dat worked for me....i proposed to her she sed yes on d spot. I've met her parents....but I av other plans...I plan to break up with her on d day of our introduction coming up nxt month...want her to feel d heartbreak she put me thru and tell her to go make her own money and if am still single we can continue.

you are about to make the best decision, please never you change your mind... Damn this is the type of real men I like to roll with, not those vegetables aka woman wrapper.

mhiz:
my motto in life is do to others as u want others to you and your family. She's hurt you, yes, but your revenge is just too much. Imagine the embarrassment on her family. You can end it a day before the introduction or make them wait and don't show up. Whatever sha, do as u please. Good luck!!

his decision is the best, no two ways about it.

onstelly:
To achieve what, you get time sha

he will achieve exactly what the lady achieved when she dumped him

juhan:
and in your mind you're feeling so high like a boss.




She seeing you flourish without her is enough. Now you getting married to the woman of your dreams and watching her enjoy all the things she should have been enjoying is more than enough.






Dont repay evil with evil my brother.

giving her the taste of her own medicine is not evil, how I wish the op is my friend, I would have pushed him harder so that he won't change his mind, hoes deserves no mercy.

dissybling:
and u ran down here to tell us.........

No not you,He was telling we guys rather cos he knows that the sensible ones will support him.

Marlvin:
This is suicidal !


She's so gonna commit suicide, and you've got yourself a murder rap . hope you will see that coming....

that will be good news, at least "one hoe down"

Youngpo413:
giving her the taste of her own medicine is not evil, how I wish the op is my friend, I would have pushed him harder so that he won't change his mind, hoes deserves no mercy.

do what you like

proeast:
I just got off the phone with her friend & she told me the girl is not even missing me. That she showed her my sms & told her we are no longer together. I think that decides it for me, i'm going to flirt with a lady from her village she knows very well & even respects, she is a sister inlaw to my cousin. I know she will die of envy when she gets to know.

paddi mi, your narrative actually got me laughing. My simple advice is for you to get more realistic and serious too.

I actually don't count it against women when they make a final decision on companionship based on the assessment of the pockets/wallets of the available suitors. To be very candid, a girl is with you because you are the best she has available at that material time, period! Therefore, if someone better turns up while the both of you are still to be entangled, she promptly dumps you. No emotions at all!

However much the sacrifices you've made are, learn to walk away or demand restitution when a newer flame comes on stream. Don't plead or appeal to pity because it would only make you the more bitter.

As for starting a relationship with someone she's familiar with, ...... it won't hurt her if she's happy with the person she left you to be with, so why waste time acting childishly?

Love would never be sufficient, while considerations about beauty should count for less when planning to settle down. Just free the girl and get real!

SycophanticGoat:
Just get an ugly girl cuz nothing vexes girls more than their bf dumping them for uglier or plain ugly girls...

Though in the real sense, I told her she should go & look for a man that would satisfy all her needs since i'm stingy & uncaring despite all my efforts to make her happy but I still think she technically dumped me through her attitude. If I should date a girl that is ugly or plain, she will just scoff at me & might even feel I cant get babes better than her. I'm good looking & bold enough to chyke any girl even in the road, also I'm far from being broke just that she wants to turn me into an atm machine!

proeast:
Some girls can be very mean. My girl used to say i'm stingy despite all I did for her, it got to a head & i told her its over between us & she did not even complain or beg, the other time i told her it was over she later came begging but right now i have not been myself since saturday i told her, i feel empty & miss her a lot. She is very pretty & i pray some rich dude doesnt grab her. I'm itching to call her but also confused because of her attitude. I love her & even want to marry her.

You broke up with her, yet you're complaining?

I don't understand you.

When you keep breaking up with someone, you gradually lose the keys to their heart.
The first time you did it, she might have been heartbroken, but that also taught her a lesson, and she fortified her heart solidly against heartbreaks. Doing it a second time when the threat has already lost its powers only pushes her further away.
Don't break up with someone when you really don't mean to. That's matters of the heart lesson 101.

@ coldFLARESI, I almost certain there is no guy in her life yet, but the issue is not that she feels i'm broke rather she thinks i'm stingy. I cant list all the things i do for her but she never lacks basic things. She works as well but is seeking for admission into a poly for parttime studies.