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Human right activist, Joe Odumakin shared this note purportedly written by a 9-year-old girl during a counselling session in which she used unpalatable words to describe her father. She wrote "I hate my dad. He is a horrible, a bad father, betrayer, liar, idiot, stupid, wicked, mad, extremely stupid and wicked. I hate him". Wow!

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I'm sure the daddy loves her.

This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.

SAINTSAMURAII:
This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.

Ask her mother.

Mindfulness:
Ask her mother.

i cannot blame the mother, if the dad is a loving dad, the little girl's brain must have been filled with words like loving dad, i love you dad, you are the best dad. i think the reason the little girl is the way she is now, concerning the dad is because she had experience first hand the many things that make her dad a bad dad.

SAINTSAMURAII:
i cannot blame the mother, if the dad is a loving dad, the little girl's brain must have been filled with words like loving dad, i love you dad, you are the best dad. i think the reason the little girl is the way she is now, concerning the dad is because she had experience first hand the many things that make her dad a bad dad.

While the dad could be a terrible person, a good mother would find a way to make sure the child is shielded from MOST of it. She would always TRY to paint a picture of things being rosy to the child otherwise the child grows up thinking all men are like her dad and generally has mistrust towards all men.

She most likely learnt those words from her mother's description of her father and there may be a lot more to the story. Not excusing the heartless man though.

aperture11:
While the dad could be a terrible person, a good mother would find a way to make sure the child is shielded from MOST of it. She would always TRY to paint a picture of things being rosy to the child otherwise the child grows up thinking all men are like her dad and generally has mistrust towards all men.

She most likely learnt those words from her mother's description of her father and there may be a lot more to the story. Not excusing the heartless man though.

How can you paint pictures of a saintly father to a nine year old. I mean, this child often see them fight, and quarrel., probably they are aware of the instigator. This writer obviously knows who is the problem in their home.
Children knows which of the parents is more receptive and a Darling to their heart

SAINTSAMURAII:
i cannot blame the mother, if the dad is a loving dad, the little girl's brain must have been filled with words like loving dad, i love you dad, you are the best dad. i think the reason the little girl is the way she is now, concerning the dad is because she had experience first hand the many things that make her dad a bad dad.

I don't blame anyone. I don't know the story behind it. I was just kidding.

I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

Lol "End Time" daughter and father.. God will settle
It for you....... Meanwhile, the lady above me is really making sense.

ok

Mindfulness:
Ask her mother.

Absolutely on point.

You're a wise person.

Obviously brain washed by the honey coated words of the mother

at your age? your future is a doubt

the father must have been a terrorist at home

Doctored little child with doctored message.. Which child would say such to his/her biological father.... Smh

These human right people can fabricate and lie... I know some of them and how they operate..

Hmm....Something's amiss here.

This one na ajebo pikin....pako children are mostly indifferent towards misbehaving fathers

A really pained heart. I will never be such a dad to my kids. They should be proud to call me the best dad ever and also always confirm anywhere that their mum is the happiest mum in the world.

This is tricky


The father could be the problem or the mother could be the one whispering nonsense to their daughter.


I aint gonna judge

She. never chop better koboko...you can tell say na. butter pikin.Better koboko dey give common sense.

The result of too many silly cartoons and western movies..

When parents fight and abuse each other in the presence of their kids

#can u imagine

But we've seen this news on FP before.. on children's day.

Haute:
Hmm....Something's amiss here.

Don't ever trust those human right people...just don't. They always lie and act to scripts to garner sympathy. I'm sure that child didn't know the full implication of what she wrote there. Smh

A child should not be using such words.

The parents have failed woefully.

K