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9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by contactmorak: 11:32am On May 29, 2016
Human right activist, Joe Odumakin shared this note purportedly written by a 9-year-old girl during a counselling session in which she used unpalatable words to describe her father. She wrote "I hate my dad. He is a horrible, a bad father, betrayer, liar, idiot, stupid, wicked, mad, extremely stupid and wicked. I hate him". Wow!

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/joe-odumakin-shares-note-written-by-9.html

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by contactmorak: 11:33am On May 29, 2016
Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by lifezone247(m): 11:36am On May 29, 2016
I'm sure the daddy loves her.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by SweetieConstie(f): 11:40am On May 29, 2016
@OP, woz ur own naa?


Must you also be FTC?angry








BTW, that little girl needs to take a chill pill biko!undecided The father should try to be nicer too... Cuz it's quite dangerous for a child to have that manner of hatred towards her father at such a young age!undecided

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by DRISKLEF(m): 11:48am On May 29, 2016
Alright seen. so what's next? undecided

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 11:52am On May 29, 2016
This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 11:58am On May 29, 2016
SAINTSAMURAII:
This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.

Ask her mother. grin

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 12:02pm On May 29, 2016
Mindfulness:


Ask her mother. grin
i cannot blame the mother, if the dad is a loving dad, the little girl's brain must have been filled with words like loving dad, i love you dad, you are the best dad. i think the reason the little girl is the way she is now, concerning the dad is because she had experience first hand the many things that make her dad a bad dad.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by aperture11: 12:08pm On May 29, 2016
SAINTSAMURAII:
i cannot blame the mother, if the dad is a loving dad, the little girl's brain must have been filled with words like loving dad, i love you dad, you are the best dad. i think the reason the little girl is the way she is now, concerning the dad is because she had experience first hand the many things that make her dad a bad dad.
While the dad could be a terrible person, a good mother would find a way to make sure the child is shielded from MOST of it. She would always TRY to paint a picture of things being rosy to the child otherwise the child grows up thinking all men are like her dad and generally has mistrust towards all men.

She most likely learnt those words from her mother's description of her father and there may be a lot more to the story. Not excusing the heartless man though.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by SirVintageCock: 12:14pm On May 29, 2016
aperture11:

While the dad could be a terrible person, a good mother would find a way to make sure the child is shielded from MOST of it. She would always TRY to paint a picture of things being rosy to the child otherwise the child grows up thinking all men are like her dad and generally has mistrust towards all men.

She most likely learnt those words from her mother's description of her father and there may be a lot more to the story. Not excusing the heartless man though.
How can you paint pictures of a saintly father to a nine year old. I mean, this child often see them fight, and quarrel., probably they are aware of the instigator. This writer obviously knows who is the problem in their home.
Children knows which of the parents is more receptive and a Darling to their heart

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 12:29pm On May 29, 2016
SAINTSAMURAII:
i cannot blame the mother, if the dad is a loving dad, the little girl's brain must have been filled with words like loving dad, i love you dad, you are the best dad. i think the reason the little girl is the way she is now, concerning the dad is because she had experience first hand the many things that make her dad a bad dad.

I don't blame anyone. I don't know the story behind it. I was just kidding.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by ladyF(f): 1:07pm On May 29, 2016
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? shocked lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg! angry

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by DeRoyalFranco(m): 1:07pm On May 29, 2016
Lol "End Time" daughter and father.. God will settle
It for you....... Meanwhile, the lady above me is really making sense.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by engrjosefz(m): 1:08pm On May 29, 2016
ok
Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 1:08pm On May 29, 2016
Mindfulness:


Ask her mother. grin

Absolutely on point.

You're a wise person.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by zumarock9(m): 1:08pm On May 29, 2016
Obviously brain washed by the honey coated words of the mother

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by deymoh(m): 1:09pm On May 29, 2016
at your age? your future is a doubt
Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 1:09pm On May 29, 2016
the father must have been a terrorist at home

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Burger01(m): 1:09pm On May 29, 2016
Doctored little child with doctored message.. Which child would say such to his/her biological father.... Smh undecided

These human right people can fabricate and lie... I know some of them and how they operate.. sad

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 1:10pm On May 29, 2016
Hmm....Something's amiss here.
Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by safarigirl(f): 1:10pm On May 29, 2016
This one na ajebo pikin....pako children are mostly indifferent towards misbehaving fathers

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by SurewayBookings: 1:10pm On May 29, 2016
A really pained heart. I will never be such a dad to my kids. They should be proud to call me the best dad ever and also always confirm anywhere that their mum is the happiest mum in the world.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Nobody: 1:11pm On May 29, 2016
This is tricky


The father could be the problem or the mother could be the one whispering nonsense to their daughter.


I aint gonna judge

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by onadana: 1:11pm On May 29, 2016
She. never chop better koboko...you can tell say na. butter pikin.Better koboko dey give common sense.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Toulene10(m): 1:11pm On May 29, 2016
The result of too many silly cartoons and western movies.. undecided

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by priscaoge(f): 1:11pm On May 29, 2016
When parents fight and abuse each other in the presence of their kids angry angry

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by thistemple(m): 1:12pm On May 29, 2016
grin grin grin grin grin #can u imagine
Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by cana882(m): 1:12pm On May 29, 2016
But we've seen this news on FP before.. on children's day.
Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by Burger01(m): 1:13pm On May 29, 2016
Haute:
Hmm....Something's amiss here.
Don't ever trust those human right people...just don't. They always lie and act to scripts to garner sympathy. I'm sure that child didn't know the full implication of what she wrote there. Smhundecided

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by freecocoa(f): 1:13pm On May 29, 2016
A child should not be using such words.

The parents have failed woefully.

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Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Describes Her Dad In A Note She Wrote by tropaz(m): 1:13pm On May 29, 2016
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