There he goes again, read what you wrote

It is none of your business who cooks in the family. It does not make the man a lesser being neither does ‘not cooking' increases the power of the woman. If she cannot cook, it will not kill you to FEED yourself and your family.



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noblegrex:
there she goes gain.so,women has turn lesser beings for carrying out one of their major responsibilities as wife abi.ok nah!

halfricanadian:
THERE ARE SEVERAL TYPES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

SOME ARE PHYSICAL
SOME ARE MENTALLY
SOME ARE PSYCHOLOGICALLY
SOME ARE EMOTIONAL

pls address all not onlu physical cos d remaining two kills faster dan physical domestic violence

What people dont know is any woman that dies cos of domestic violence went tru all d 4 stages av listed

Ur husband cant beat u like u just had an accident he can never do dat even accident victims survive

Wat im saying is when a woman gets beaten

She goes crazy mentally trying to figure out wat went wrong

Den pyschologically she begins to feel so down of hersef

Den emotionally she becomes unstable

Nd if d violence continues steadily she is gone asin dead

Every thing is not always physical abeg


So many women are troubled mentally psychologically nd emotionally i wont deny im a victim of this it kills faster dan physical im telling u

my queen...

Suigeneris93:
My dear, the op's topic already says it all and now we're on it...so if your wife cheats on you it will be legit for you to raise your hands on her and probably kill her in the process abi

I laugh

If you are a wife and you cheat on your man you better run far far away because a sheep can become a monster in a split second when he hears his wife cheated


Two things destroys any man's ego completely


Being bleeped in the ass by another man(rape)
And catching your wife in bed with another man

Doubleagent008:
I am more of the school of thought that believe that the original saying was " don't lay your hands on a LADY". Some women practically beg for it. e.g getting physical with a man, locking up his shirt almost strangling him, slapping and kicking him and his only way of escape is to send one or two brain resetting slaps to the woman. So now u are going to blame him?
A lady should be a Lady and a man should be a Man by appreciating and respecting a lady.
I personally don't beat a lady never have I done that since I have come of age. I try to avoid the situation totally.
I Like what you have up there. Those screaming never beat a woman are just singing a popular mantra. I personally analyse every situation before I crucify a guy for beating a lady.

Sighs

Wow, I thought all the smart people had left Nairaland but you have proved me wrong
You analyzed it very well any woman who doesn't mind her tongue needs help closing it with a good reset slap even our parents did it to us and it didn't kill us

hehehe battle field. late comer...nice thread

Wealthgang:
People who usually rant "never lay hands on a woman no matter what" are those who end up doing it. Its not just by ranting it, u have to understand d real principle behind that statement. I know this from experience.

So why should u generally not lay hands on a woman? Simple! Cos women are generally perceived as weaker (physically) than men, hence are defenseless.
In order words, d real quip should be "never lay hands on a defenseless person (male or female)" instead of "never lay hands on a woman". The latter is by no means a moral absolute.

Saying that it is never justifiable under any circumstance whatsoever, to "lay hands on a woman" is d stupidest thing anyone can say.
As a martial arts student, I wouldn't fight with a lady (non-martial arts) any more than I wouldn't fight a 12yr-old boy or a disabled person. They're defenseless.

In d case where a lady is not defenseless n tries anything physical with u, by all means defend urself.
If d lady is defenseless but provokes u, by all means control urself no matter what.
If she's defenseless but still attacks u, by all means give her a dirty slap. It shud end dere, punches n kicks n headbutts not allowed.

I remember an incident that happnd in UBA bank uniport (which is usually crowded). A girl was shouting n cursing in d bank over her 5k which was wrongly deducted n d staff were trying 2 calm her down. Then a boy sitting elsewhere told her 2 calm down, that d money was just 5k na and would be refunded. This didn't go well with d gal cos b4 we knew it, she walked up to 2 boy & slapped him hard. As if that wasn't enough, she took off her slippers n slapped d boy again with it, to d dismay of evry1. She wanted 2 hit him again b4 a guy drew her away. D customers inside d bank were so angry n some were prompting d boy 2 give d gal a dirty slap n were swearing d gal would have died if it was them. The boy didn't react but just walkd outside.

What happnd afta, I dnt know.

If u were in his shoes, what wud u do?
If it was me, I won't hesitate 2 slap her back n front. Y have d guts 2 slap me in public? "Never lay hands on a woman" my ass. Wud also do same if it was a guy.
Some women don't hesitate 2 slap n attack men because they have that mentality an absolute law is guiding dem n they kw how 2 cry a river when a finger touches them. Bullshit!

As for wife-beating, men who do dat are goats n I wonder how women still go ahead 2 marry such men. One big cause of it is poverty n blockheadedness. U hardly c wealthy/enlightnd pple pummeling their wives.
Where I blame women 4 it is y they allow themselvs 2 be beaten continuously all in d name of luv or i-want-to-save-my-marriage

Every oda point Ny1 will u say u have covered it perfectly, women can be more abusive dn men even in marriage I am female and support u, except dat talk abt rich or poor men. some rich men are abusive in ways beyond physicall. That bank guy dull sha, but who knws mayb he and his goons arranged her 5k mouth later. All this feminism nonsense makes women sometime forget their real roles a and nature. If ur wife attacks u, defend yaself.

Toks2008:


lol...apparently you dont understand what creative writing is all about.

the title is perfect...just that many people focus on titles without reading the contents.

My friend this is real life. No need for your so-called ' creative writing.' You're passing on advise to the women folk and you're mixing up your title. Them go finish you na. Lol... if you know me you won't be making this funny assertion.

Has he threatened you with a gun?’ Is one of the questions a .....
http://digitallclique..com.ng/2016/05/uncover-domestic-violence-through-my.html

makavel7:


From this your rant I dont need to be guru maraji to know that your woman wears the pants in your house. You definitely must be a jobless house husband to have enough time to cook, wash your wife's pants and diligently keep the house clean waiting for your emperor to come back from work. Pathetic!!! You said you have boys, I pray they dont end up like their father.

And women alone are verbally abusive? What do you call this one?

cococandy:
no we can't. Your 'articles' sound like crap to us.

Articles indeed

Hahahahahahaha! Cococandy oooooo

johnson232:

@bold perception i guess... the op got valid points...

caution should be applied by all...

Of cos they are valid points to you. When you're just as sick as the buffoon who made the post

Toks2008:


And Seun has the audacity to use words like victim for the female folks...i know one day he will eat those words and will regret ever apologizing for this title.

My first conent says...never beat a lady which is fair enough and then listed the facts that are as true as day and night but Seun is still naive so i understand his point.

There was a lady i dated and she told me that she is the type tthat needs to be beaten up but i said never will i raise my hand against her and when she showed her color i gave her some verbal lashing that made her cry and for 3yrs she left the affair just to call me this year to say she would have prefered that i beat her up rather than going verbal...can you imagine.

Seun is indeed a learner when i comes to he issue of women so let jim postrate to nland ladies to apologize for the truth he will latter realize and when he does,he will hate himself for making that unwarranted apology...im 41 and i have seen things in life but all these todlers on nland knows nothing about this matter until they get to a more mature stage in life.

Upon your maturity and upon all the things you've known and seen, you still couldn't keep ur marriage. Yeye dey smell

Strahovski1:
Useless...

No matter what. You have no right to hit a woman. A man abuse you would you punch him? NO. But a woman you will.

*pulls out dick and start masturbation on threaD*

uncle, it is not well with your soul today

Toks2008:


I seriously pity you because it is apparent that you are far from being educated...please always read first before commenting and stop constituting nuisance.

this thread was created by a senior citizen without a wife claiming to have a PhD in marriage. At least you know why you are an old unmarried bitter man. *laughs her way out of the thread*

Joy1706:

Upon your maturity and upon all the things you've known and seen, you still couldn't keep ur marriage. Yeye dey smell

Marriage?


SMH!

mizzochocinco:
this thread was created by a senior citizen without a wife claiming to have a PhD in marriage. At least you know why you are an old unmarried bitter man. *laughs her way out of the thread*

This is why I weep for many Nigerian LADiES WITHOUT BRAINS...please what correlation does this gibberish you posted has to do with the topic of discuss?

This is how you will continue and latter blame your hubby for landing you a terrible deafening slap on your face...THEN START CLAIMING VICTIM...

Toks2008:


This is why I weep for many Nigerian LADiES WITHOUT BRAINS...please what correlation does this gibberish you posted has to do with the topic of discuss?

This is how you will continue and latter blame your hubby for landing you a terrible deafening slap on your face...THEN START CLAIMING VICTIM...

this is how you go around blaming every Nigerian woman for you misfortune because they do not want to marry you? do not worry you might find the one soon when you move into a retirement home.
But i think the boat has already sailed you should leave that one alone. Imagine what your child will have to go through when you go for the prize giving day and the teacher mistakenly says, " your grandson is a very bright boy" just imagine the embarassment the child will face when you have to correct the teacher

mizzochocinco:
this is how you go around blaming every Nigerian woman for you misfortune because they do not want to marry you? do not worry you might find the one soon when you move into a retirement home.
But i think the boat has already sailed you should leave that one alone. Imagine what your child will have to go through when you go for the prize giving day and the teacher mistakenly says, " your grandson is a very bright boy" just imagine the embarassment the child will face when you have to correct the teacher

Stop wasting your time. I have prayed for Toks2008 but alas the devil has taken control of his life. You can't change his phucked up mindset. No one can. The worm is laying blame on women for domestic violence. Can you imagine? God I thank you for my life.

banmee:


Stop wasting your time. I have prayed for Toks2008 but alas the devil has taken control of his life. You can't change his phucked up mindset. No one can. The worm is laying blame on women for domestic violence. Can you imagine? God I thank you for my life.

How long will you continue to be a troll?

Look at the pages of this thread and you will se intelligent comments from guys like you..dont you think you are a shameful person who gallivants from thread to thread using stwpid words without making any sense.

Intelligent people dont go about trolling but they contribute meaningfully so i think you are the one who needs serious deliverance from mental decadence and i really wish you well.

Ladies i repeat are the cause of domestic violence 100% because of the points i raised and for the sake of your level of IQ i will reiterate it for you once more to tell the sisters you claim you have so they can learn.

1.Negligence: When a lady agrees to marry a boyfriend that beats her or has signs of violent acts.

2.Aggravation: Talking down on a man in an abusive way or outrightly insulting a man to the point of the man losing it.

3.Baseless tolerance: When a lady who is neither abusive or troublesome finds her hubby hitting her and rather than report to the police or walk away from the marriage, she remains in the marriage until the man kills her.

I believe that this summary will help your supposedly low intelligent quotient to assimilate the intelligent article i have up there.

I deliberately ignored mizzochocinco cos i really can't help her regarding her reasoning faculty cos my write ups are only for intelligent people and that is why you need to read carefully to understand.

I will stop here.

Toks2008:


How long will you continue to be a troll?

Look at the pages of this thread and you will se intelligent comments from guys like you..dont you think you are a shameful person who gallivants from thread to thread using stwpid words without making any sense.

Intelligent people dont go about trolling but they contribute meaningfully so i think you are the one who needs serious deliverance from mental decadence and i really wish you well.

Ladies i repeat are the cause of domestic violence 100% because of the points i raised and for the sake of your level of IQ i will reiterate it for you once more to tell the sisters you claim you have so they can learn.

1.Negligence: When a lady agrees to marry a boyfriend that beats her or has signs of violent acts.

2.Aggravation: Talking down on a man in an abusive way or outrightly insulting a man to the point of the man losing it.

3.Baseless tolerance: When a lady who is neither abusive or troublesome finds her hubby hitting her and rather than report to the police or walk away from the marriage, she remains in the marriage until the man kills her.

I believe that this summary will help your supposedly low intelligent quotient to assimilate the intelligent article i have up there.

I deliberately ignored mizzochocinco cos i really can't help her regarding her reasoning faculty cos my write ups are only for intelligent people and that is why you need to read carefully to understand.

I will stop here.

Do you really know the meaning of this word "cause"? this long write up does not make me believe so.

Kimoni:


Do you really know the meaning of this word "cause"? this long write up does not make me believe so.

The dictionary meaning of cause is "a reason for an action or condition"

Kimoni:


Do you really know the meaning of this word "cause"? this long write up does not make me believe so.

Toks2008:

The dictionary meaning of cause is "a reason for an action or condition"

Exactly! So based on this definition, how does any of your listed points prove that "women are the causes of domestic violence"? How are women the reason they are being violently abused? the reason for another man's actions?

Another way to look at it, If I steal from an unlocked home, is the home owner the reason why I stole? Should the home owner be held responsible for my actions? Because he failed to lock his home which is the norm?

Is this your logic Toks?

jaybee3:

lol...ndo

Toks2008:


How long will you continue to be a troll?

Look at the pages of this thread and you will se intelligent comments from guys like you..dont you think you are a shameful person who gallivants from thread to thread using stwpid words without making any sense.

Intelligent people dont go about trolling but they contribute meaningfully so i think you are the one who needs serious deliverance from mental decadence and i really wish you well.

Ladies i repeat are the cause of domestic violence 100% because of the points i raised and for the sake of your level of IQ i will reiterate it for you once more to tell the sisters you claim you have so they can learn.

1.Negligence: When a lady agrees to marry a boyfriend that beats her or has signs of violent acts.

2.Aggravation: Talking down on a man in an abusive way or outrightly insulting a man to the point of the man losing it.

3.Baseless tolerance: When a lady who is neither abusive or troublesome finds her hubby hitting her and rather than report to the police or walk away from the marriage, she remains in the marriage until the man kills her.

I believe that this summary will help your supposedly low intelligent quotient to assimilate the intelligent article i have up there.

I deliberately ignored mizzochocinco cos i really can't help her regarding her reasoning faculty cos my write ups are only for intelligent people and that is why you need to read carefully to understand.

I will stop here.

I will continue to troll you till you receive sense. From your profile, you look like you might be in your 60's but i doubt you are married because no sane married man would have the kind of thoughts that flow through your mind.

banmee:


I will continue to troll you till you receive sense. From your profile, you look like you might be in your 60's but i doubt you are married because no sane married man would have the kind of thoughts that flow through your mind.

I guess its a waste of time responding to you.

Kimoni:


Exactly! So based on this definition, how does any of your listed points prove that "women are the causes of domestic violence"? How are women the reason they are being violently abused? the reason for another man's actions?

Another way to look at it, If I steal from an unlocked home, is the home owner the reason why I stole? Should the home owner be held responsible for my actions? Because he failed to lock his home which is the norm?

Is this your logic Toks?

Whatever rocks your boat.

banmee:


I will continue to troll you till you receive sense. From your profile, you look like you might be in your 60's but i doubt you are married because no sane married man would have the kind of thoughts that flow through your mind.

lmao don't be cruel na must Toks2008 kill himself because he no get wife? you have killed me with laughter.

See! Now he took down the pic that shows his grey hair because he is embarrassed all because of you!

Toks2008:


I deliberately ignored mizzochocinco cos i really can't help her regarding her reasoning faculty cos my write ups are only for intelligent people and that is why you need to read carefully to understand.

I will stop here.

Mr intelligent man who is not intelligent enough to get a wife at 50 let the married ones give advice on marriage while the unmarried senior citizens like you sit down and take notes!

mizzochocinco:
Mr intelligent man who is not intelligent enough to get a wife at 50 let the married ones give advice on marriage while the unmarried senior citizens like you sit down and take notes!

Let me break your heart and show you the pics of my beautiful lady of 15 yrs and wife of 8 years...I know you are smartly giving me a green light but too bad I only have desire for hot and intelligent ladies.


Sorry I'm taken

Toks2008:


Let me break your heart and show you the pics of my beautiful lady of 15 yrs and wife of 8 years...I know you are smartly giving me a green light but too bad I only have desire for hot and intelligent ladies.


Sorry I'm taken

Wow she is hot.

I thought you were unmarried and you also gave the impression that you are not. 15 years don tey.o.

wrongnumber:


Wow she is hot.

I thought you were unmarried and you also gave the impression that you are not. 15 years don tey.o.

Thanks bro.