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Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Nobody: 5:02pm On May 09, 2016 |
Moblis: The bolded is the beginning and end of the matter. The op can go and shove his advice someplace where the sun does not shine 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by chikel2000(m): 5:04pm On May 09, 2016 |
Vinshu:real women don't insult their husbands 2 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Nobody: 5:04pm On May 09, 2016 |
coming from a guy op is biased, if a lady should bring up same critic then she's also bias...maybe an hermaphrodite should visit this topic.... just my opinion....#lickingsweet 2 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Okijajuju1(m): 5:05pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008: UTTER FHUCKERY OF A POST. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by bejeria101(m): 5:08pm On May 09, 2016 |
Vinshu: And fake men do? Smh 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by nkemdi89(f): 5:09pm On May 09, 2016 |
Most women live their lives in illusion, some believe by slapping or hitting their man first it will always end in hot steamy love session according to what they view in most foreign movies, some always keep bad companies that gives them negative advice on the way to handle their man. 10 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Gidoka(m): 5:10pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008: I knew he was a kid when he said "Masturbating" it's quite unfortunate a lot of people did not read the post well. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Nobody: 5:11pm On May 09, 2016 |
I'm a man and I post from the point of view of a man while never claiming to represent any man but myself. I say this upfront so that the feminists and their agitators can understand. Men, at the very first sign of a troublesome Woman that angers you, please cut her out of your life like a cancerous growth that she is. I'm on my 3rd marriage so I walk the talk as evidence. Life is too short to be in an unfulfilling relationship that's filled with upmanship between spouses and general disregard for each other. You won't die if you cut the woman loose, life will go on, you'll be more educated and savvy and able to avoid women that are generally bad news. Life, especially married life, is supposed to be filled with growth, happiness and joy. Everyone is telling Women to run and I'm to tell men not to run but stand and dissolve the marriage in totality and move on without looking back. I'll go put my antiflame suit on now. 11 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by guru03(m): 5:11pm On May 09, 2016 |
Absolutely rubbish, No matter the weakness of a woman their dignity should be uphold. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Dyt(f): 5:11pm On May 09, 2016 |
Another senseless post of this odeson toks2008 A very weak man like a dead Deeek Mtchew 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by rotvick(m): 5:13pm On May 09, 2016 |
Vinshu:. True vinshu",Real men" don't lay hands on "Real women",cos most of the women we have today ain't fit to be called women 2 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Odunharry(m): 5:14pm On May 09, 2016 |
Following.. Instead of people to read and learn or counter the point made by the op, they are busy insulting the guy.. kontinuu toks2008, your number one point is so true. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by nwadiuko1(m): 5:18pm On May 09, 2016 |
Ishilove:did you say no matter what?.......i will never lay my hands on a woman only if she doesn't attack me.....she attacks me...then she z gon get it 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Ishilove: 5:19pm On May 09, 2016 |
nwadiuko1:Domestic violence from both sexes is actually very wrong. 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by gamaliel121(m): 5:20pm On May 09, 2016 |
Toks2008: Any woman that bleeps up will collect mehn... 2 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Toks2008(m): 5:20pm On May 09, 2016 |
Odunharry: lol,guy i am so indifferent to these insults...i am a no hold bar freelancer. 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by nwadiuko1(m): 5:22pm On May 09, 2016 |
Suigeneris93:is it right for a woman to attack a man?.........should the man defend himself? 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by danasjoe1: 5:23pm On May 09, 2016 |
sabiguy:hehehehe bros you wicked o!!!! |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by GANJAFARMER: 5:24pm On May 09, 2016 |
Vinshu:Real women dont get beatings from their men - It's the dumb ones that do get a beating. A real bad ass chick knew exactly when not to push the ultimate button of natural aggression from a man. A Man is like any other animal that defends his territory and his territory comes in different dimension of human existence , if you hit them where it matters most they will bite and reasonable women don't joke with that . 9 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Doubleagent008(m): 5:25pm On May 09, 2016 |
Wealthgang:I am more of the school of thought that believe that the original saying was " don't lay your hands on a LADY". Some women practically beg for it. e.g getting physical with a man, locking up his shirt almost strangling him, slapping and kicking him and his only way of escape is to send one or two brain resetting slaps to the woman. So now u are going to blame him? A lady should be a Lady and a man should be a Man by appreciating and respecting a lady. I personally don't beat a lady never have I done that since I have come of age. I try to avoid the situation totally. I Like what you have up there. Those screaming never beat a woman are just singing a popular mantra. I personally analyse every situation before I crucify a guy for beating a lady. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by dare2differ: 5:25pm On May 09, 2016 |
I do not care about gender but I do care about human. Blaming victims of domestic abuse is na insult on humanity. Unless you understand their psychology, it is insane to think for them., Therefore your number is null and void. Verbal and physical abuse are the same although one tends to be more severe than the other. SO I will undertsand a man who slaps his wife because she was 'verbally abusive' and i mean verbal abuse in its ordinary meaning noty some philosophical BS. I can also understand a man who hits his wife [b]WHEN [/b]he caught her cheating (I mean immediate not some abuse that took time to plan). Those reactions are normal and human. I understand that humans have emotions and are capable of reacting to provocation. God bless you if it result to grievous bodily harm or death . However I also understand that any abuse beyond those normal human reaction is madness. Any one acting with outside normal human reaction deserve to be in jail for the rest of their lives. If I asked you to go and cook your food and you raised your hand, na then you know say I be confam omo oko. My great grandfather cannot help your case neither will my dad. Toks2008, whenever you write, you do nothing but further your misogynistic views. Keep destroying our mor.onic youths, I pray none of them come close to me or someone I know because by the time I am through with them. They will search for you and ask you why you led astray. 5 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by tmtech: 5:26pm On May 09, 2016 |
Fake azz men everywhere.. If ur female boss at work insults u, r u gonna knock her out.. Dey wud rather go home nd take it out on their wives... Fake azzes... No excuse for domestic violence.. If u r tired den pull out... Battering ur wife may not be a serious offence in naija buh murder is definite a capital one............. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Odunharry(m): 5:27pm On May 09, 2016 |
Ishilove:This is it.. I hope ladies who are quick to hit a guy first will allow this sink into their head. 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by dare2differ: 5:27pm On May 09, 2016 |
I don't know the statistics in Nigeria but I am familiar with UK statistics. At least two women die every week from domestic abuse that mean domestic abuse from those close to them, most especially their male partners. I ams ure it would be worse in Nigeria because it is some kind of an unwritten rule that a man is allowed to hit his wife but not too much. So continue to analyse every situation, may it not be your turn! Doubleagent008: 3 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by tonquendo4u(m): 5:28pm On May 09, 2016 |
Strahovski1:Just pray to continue meeting good women.Dont judge others until you've BN in their shoes.What do u do when ur wife tears d original documents to d only landed property u toiled ur ass to possess?Guy some women can act like possessed people.i don't support domestic violence but I don't judge them till I hear from both parties.Wicked women are deadlier that wicked meb 4 Likes |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by LordIsaac(m): 5:29pm On May 09, 2016 |
An average Nigerian youth has the problem of comprehension. This article is too sophisticated for their minds. Now, as for beating a woman, trust me, it's almost all the time the lady's fault. Scripture says, '' a soft answer turns away wrath.'' And if as a man you've never touched a woman, then, keep it up by never dating a Plateau girl. Because, the day you say it's over, that's the day you'd know what's in her!! 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by AbrahamLincoln(m): 5:29pm On May 09, 2016 |
Wealthgang: You were right until the bolded. I have been there and trust me It is something shared by every class and "Rude women are always rude". . 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by tonquendo4u(m): 5:29pm On May 09, 2016 |
Vinshu:Define real men |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Olabestonic001(m): 5:32pm On May 09, 2016 |
halfricanadian: You're very right about those types of domestic. Only that most men actually goes through the other 3 apart from the first one. Sometime, its the foolish reaction to the last three one that causes men to express the first one. But, sincerely, without GOD being given the onus of one's marital life, I sense more marital issues in the next generation. Not the ways some folks comments here. |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by nwadiuko1(m): 5:32pm On May 09, 2016 |
I remember in my 3rd year at school.....how a girl that thinks she is in the good books of the anti cult outfit humiliated me in class....gave me a slap, and tore my shirt while I stood watching and was forming gentle man........i couldn't bring myself to hit her.......but after attacking me she also reported me to the anti cult unit.............when the chips were down, I never laid my hands on her......but I think she would have preffered that I did..... 1 Like |
Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Nobody: 5:32pm On May 09, 2016 |
nwadiuko1: In this case we're talking about a woman who doesn't attack a man but if the woman is the first attacker then the man can do whatver rocks his boat. Some men choose to walk away, others administer slaps to stop her while others engage their fists as if they're fighting an agbero in Oshodi. Whichever rocks your boat, you do. But beating up a defenceless woman can never be justified 2 Likes |
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