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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 9:25pm On Jun 02, 2016
chisco82:

Sorry Sis. You think this shit you type here is enough for a woman to commit adultery? You forgot that not all Men are romantic, where were u looking at before you married him, what about talking it over with him?
You want all the bolded, you alone? Without them you becomes adultrous wife?
Hm! Smh.
* Plz don't mind my tone*
where did you see romantic? Marriage is not a Harlequin novel, so every man cannot be romantic, African men particularly don't have it in them.

But complimenting your wife and making her feel sexy is not the same as doing surprise dinners/ trips, writing poetry or buying her chocolate/flowers.

I'm not asking anybody to be romantic, I said putnsome passion in it. Care for your wife like you would care for a new car or are you incapable of that?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by naijaboiy: 9:26pm On Jun 02, 2016
chisco82:

I totally agree with you sir, you always on point.
That is why as a guy, we need to understand our woman, love and treasure them, avoid doing something that will hurt their feellings. Bridge the comunication gap that may exist. We should understand that women are weaker vessel and it is our duty to help to emotionally. When issues arises, try to settle it with them and ensure that we repair and rebuild the broken bound before any other thing so that she will have no need of tellin/complaining or seeking advice anywhere else or trying to learn on someone'ls else shoulder to find solace.
*I respect your intellect bro*
Exactly! @bolded

That's just the solution. I respect your intellect too sir!
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by naijaboiy: 9:29pm On Jun 02, 2016
ivyy:


Yes cheesy cheesy
You're wise. smiley

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Isaacmacdon(m): 9:31pm On Jun 02, 2016
I really commend the o.p! At least our ladies have been honest enough,i hope this thread serves as a source of knowledge as to why women act the way they do! I just hope this goes the order way round! Kudos twaci. Kudos Our matured and realistic ladies of romanceland!

To my question:
1. Why are some girls manipulators mentally?

2. There's this girl i met,we exchanged eye contacts. She was responding perfectly well and i felt i shud walk up to her and start a convo,lo and behold she refused to reply my greetings and the girl pretended like we never did any eye contacts nd the loads.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 9:34pm On Jun 02, 2016
I am done for today guys! Let's continue this tomorrow, it was fun.

Ladies thank you for today. Your support and contributions really helped. Thanks kiss

Goodnight!

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by mrMeen(m): 9:36pm On Jun 02, 2016
safarigirl:
personally, I don't think men and women should be equal. I'm all for women empowerment, but I don't subscribe to that gender equality BS.

There's a reason why God put Adam on earth first and Eve was just the after-thought
God bless. this is the first sensible answer regarding this matter that I have seen in ages and from a girl no less god bless you are blesses ma.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 9:39pm On Jun 02, 2016
zicoraads:
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?


Zicoraads, If the woman has an obvious attachment to the other guy, then her hubby or boify has the right to ask her to delete the guy's contact from her phone and vice versa.

However, if he has a problem with all her casual male friends (for instance, snooping through her phone and asking her to delete male contacts for no cogent reason) Then he is obviously suffering from insecurity issues and she'd be right to point out an example. Cause idealistically, they are both entitled to have friends from the opposite sex.
You get? grin

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 9:45pm On Jun 02, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
Last One...I need honest minds please...

Is Money A Factor In Your/A Relationship? ....reason please


Yes... In as much as money isn't love, we can rule out the fact that money is necessary to spice up that love... Money helps in showing how much you love and care wink

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kratosonofzeus: 9:49pm On Jun 02, 2016
Omotayor123:

Yes... In as much as money isn't love, we can rule out the fact that money is necessary to spice up that love... Money helps in showing how much you love and care wink
naso
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by donephi(m): 9:52pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:


I quite agree with you that you men are polygamous in nature but nevertheless you should learn to respect your woman ( referring to all men in general now) .

No man will be happy if he finds out that his woman is cheating on her but they expect the woman to be loyal to the core. Some will even cheat on their women with the lady's friend undecided

Well..after all said n done.. We know that it's (cheating) in ur blood . if it's a must that you do it. We beg of you, stray far far farrrr away from home where she will not even get wind of it.

Capisce smiley
I seriously dont agree men a polygamous in nature, i take an exception to that.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 9:53pm On Jun 02, 2016
SAINTSAMURAII:
LADIES do u know that the sperm from a guy's big penis can be used to cure pimples, black spots and all facial problems? ladies have u tried applying semen on your faces? cc twaci. i, ivyy, mimzy. y and others

I don't know grin
And I havent tried it grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 9:54pm On Jun 02, 2016
dannyben5:
My third quest.ladies what is that 1 thing that can make you not to trust him anylonger? Cc:all the ladies here
This is not peculiar to ladies alone. Guys too.
Once a trust is lost it's very hard if not impossible to gain.

You know it pissed you off most when someone you hold in high Esteem fall your hand. It hurts.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Stycon(m): 9:55pm On Jun 02, 2016
Bravo!

It's been fun reading different perspectives to issues in here. Nice one!

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kaboninc(m): 9:56pm On Jun 02, 2016
Twaci:
Good day nairalanders! cheesy

So I was bored and thought of this; why not create an opportunity for guys to know us girls better?

So I did. This is an open thread where guys are allowed to ask questions, any question, about girls/women/ladies and I, or any female, can try to answer.

Are u confused about girls? Or moods? Is there anything you would love to know about us? Let us know and see how we can help cheesy

Ladies in the house! Who's up?

Laveda
Diddyydiva
Adeh39
Lanicky
Omotayor123
Dollyjoy
Refiner
Ivyy or ivvy
Mimzy
Optional1
Mysticalgal
Farano
Safarigirl
Misspicy
Ishilove
Estharfabian
Michella
Cherryice
Sinaj
Missmary
Charijee
Taashamania
Dechanel
Tohphaz....
.
.
...Every girl out there!

Let's have fun cheesy

Hi Twaci and every beautiful lady mentioned here. Forgive me....I just grabbed the entire post and with the deliberate intention of having your attention.

Also, I believe that most if not all of you are young adults and hence my question is specifically addressed to you and others within your age range.

Here's my question: why are most young girls so stingy? Stingy about loved ones, stingy about themselves, hardly ever make sacrifices over another person but rather focus their time, their energy, their money and other resources in the pursuit of vanity?

Vanity in this context: spending so much money, time and energy on looks which with tiny drops of rain or a light ray of sunlight, the looks would just vanish.

Having this crave for attention on social media especially on Facebook, like it gives one some form of validation. Like deriving some form of satisfaction, joy and happiness when you upload pictures that in the real sense never defines who you truly are. And in so doing, you create a kind of cold, intense competition, fueling rivalry among yourselves.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by pbs4real(m): 9:59pm On Jun 02, 2016
My questn is this,why is it that when u woo a gal and she says she aint interested cos u guyz aint in the same league bt i noticed sumtin,if the dude dozn't gives up and mayb continue to pester her getting her diff stuffs,the gal wld latr start developing a soft spot for the dude and b4 u knew it,she falls for the same dude, she told her friends she can never date. .now my questn is this, wat happen to the"we ain't in the same league tin" why the sudden change of mind?


cc:twaci,omotayor123,ivvy,sandoski,buharisbae,irerony.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Oahray: 10:03pm On Jun 02, 2016
Hmmm... A genuinely awesome romance section thread. Rare.

E use style fast sha, can't keep up. I'd have loved to read every post in it.

QOBT na you I follow come o tongue
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 10:06pm On Jun 02, 2016
Isaacmacdon:
I really commend the o.p! At least our ladies have been honest enough,i hope this thread serves as a source of knowledge as to why women act the way they do! I just hope this goes the order way round! Kudos twaci. Kudos Our matured and realistic ladies of romanceland!

To my question:
1. Why are some girls manipulators mentally?

2. There's this girl i met,we exchanged eye contacts. She was responding perfectly well and i felt i shud walk up to her and start a convo,lo and behold she refused to reply my greetings and the girl pretended like we never did any eye contacts nd the loads.

Immaturity I guess. I'm not sure you'd get such reaction from an older babe. Except if she simply does not like you.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kaboninc(m): 10:09pm On Jun 02, 2016
Omotayor123:

Yes... In as much as money isn't love, we can rule out the fact that money is necessary to spice up that love... Money helps in showing how much you love and care wink

What if there's no money......would you still love?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jun 02, 2016
Which kind of guys does an average female prefer? The Badt or the Good guys, and why?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 10:13pm On Jun 02, 2016
JoeCutie:
Why do you think men and women should be equal, but then most of the responsibilities during marriage ceremonies - traditional and white wedding- and in the family are taken up (mostly only) by the men?

.
It's because the equality is yet to to be given. Believe me, in most marriages nowadays, most women carries all the responsibilities.

If only women have the opportunity, for instance if child bearing can be shared, as in men can get pregnant too. cheesy
Believe me, we will do better! wink

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Isaacmacdon(m): 10:13pm On Jun 02, 2016
ivyy:


Immaturity I guess. I'm not sure you'd get such reaction from an older babe. Except if she simply does not like you.
hmmm perfect! Thanks
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 10:17pm On Jun 02, 2016
pbs4real:
My questn is this,why is it that when u woo a gal and she says she aint interested cos u guyz aint in the same league bt i noticed sumtin,if the dude dozn't gives up and mayb continue to pester her getting her diff stuffs,the gal wld latr start developing a soft spot for the dude and b4 u knew it,she falls for the same dude, she told her friends she can never date. .now my questn is this, wat happen to the"we ain't in the same league tin" why the sudden change of mind?


cc:twaci,omotayor123,ivvy,sandoski,buharisbae,irerony.


I don't know about the "I'm not in your league" thing. However, the "pestering" tactic might eventually work because girls love consistency. Once they see a guy is consistent, they start nursing the idea that he is actually real and most possibly genuinely interested in them.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 10:24pm On Jun 02, 2016
pbs4real:
My questn is this,why is it that when u woo a gal and she says she aint interested cos u guyz aint in the same league bt i noticed sumtin,if the dude dozn't gives up and mayb continue to pester her getting her diff stuffs,the gal wld latr start developing a soft spot for the dude and b4 u knew it,she falls for the same dude, she told her friends she can never date. .now my questn is this, wat happen to the"we ain't in the same league tin" why the sudden change of mind?


cc:twaci,omotayor123,ivvy,sandoski,buharisbae,irerony.
Don't you know an adage that says a lady will take a man even if it's as a concubine if he's persistence and consistence. Ladies love this persistency and it soften our hearts towards that person.
Persistency is the key my dear.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by peeparty(m): 10:25pm On Jun 02, 2016
I have a question o...

1:In light of recent increase in cases of Men beating their wives (not that it has never been)...How will you ever know if your boyfriend will beat you when u get married??

How can u tell a potential wife beater



cc
twaci
ishilove
mzztega
midhie2
prettyjo
ivyy
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 10:27pm On Jun 02, 2016
kaboninc:

What if there's no money......would you still love?
Of course, Love comes naturally and it cost Nothing. But money is important oooo, the love will be boring smiley

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Oahray: 10:27pm On Jun 02, 2016
charijee:
Funny question

A little bit of jealousy is part of the love game but in this case, that jealousy can be extremely dangerous.
Why would a guy who claims to be in love have a side chick It only means one thing, which is, he's fallen out of love with the supposedly main chick.
Looking at it from all shades, it's wrong
To me, the only side chick that poses no threat is his blood sister (after all she's a chick) grin
wtf. Seriously? Abeg delete the last sentence, doh.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Mayor101010(m): 10:30pm On Jun 02, 2016
What is that thing that attracts a lady to guy sexually? I mean something that will make u want to Bleep a guy. I'm looking forward to an honest response from the ladies.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Alezy(m): 10:32pm On Jun 02, 2016
kaboninc:


What if there's no money......would you still love?
lolz. ..These ladies forget money is secondary.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 10:33pm On Jun 02, 2016
peeparty:
I have a question o...

1:In light of recent increase in cases of Men beating their wives (not that it has never been)...How will you ever know if your boyfriend will beat you when u get married??

How can u tell a potential wife beater

It's difficult to know my dear, because men can keep character like green snake under the green grass. Very cunny creatures..

A very vigilant lady will know through his words and actions. How he Relate and react to things and issues especially when provoked.
Most times I pick a guy reaction from watching a movie related to wife battering.


Above all, we should pray, only the Good Lord can choose for us.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 10:34pm On Jun 02, 2016
kaboninc:


Hi Twaci and every beautiful lady mentioned here. Forgive me....I just grabbed the entire post and with the deliberate intention of having your attention.

Also, I believe that most if not all of you are young adults and hence my question is specifically addressed to you and others within your age range.

Here's my question: why are most young girls so stingy? Stingy about loved ones, stingy about themselves, hardly ever make sacrifices over another person but rather focus their time, their energy, their money and other resources in the pursuit of vanity?

Vanity in this context: spending so much money, time and energy on looks which with tiny drops of rain or a light ray of sunlight, the looks would just vanish.

Having this crave for attention on social media especially on Facebook, like it gives one some form of validation. Like deriving some form of satisfaction, joy and happiness when you upload pictures that in the real sense never defines who you truly are. And in so doing, you create a kind of cold, intense competition, fueling rivalry among yourselves.

We are sometimes stingy because some of us by default, have the screwed up mentality that the men should do the caretaking and the providing alone grin grin

But as maturity sets in, or marriage kicks in, the sensible ones amongst us will understand better grin

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Alezy(m): 10:36pm On Jun 02, 2016
Omotayor123:

Of course, Love comes naturally and it cost Nothing.
But money is important oooo, the love will be boring smiley
this is the point, not like there won't be normal money to spend on daily needs but u ladies always crave the excess of it. that's why u think it will.be boring.

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