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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by refiner(f): 11:13pm On Jun 02, 2016
peeparty:


We will both destroy..

...lmao!grin

and I hope u will not complain when ur wife's own will be as wide as a roundabout...smiley
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 11:20pm On Jun 02, 2016
refiner:


...lmao!grin

and I hope u will not complain when ur wife's own will be as wide as a roundabout...smiley
grin cheesy
Peeparty you no try at all tongue
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by vizkiz: 11:25pm On Jun 02, 2016
Laveda:
1. Is it really right to open up to a guy that I have a crush on him?

2.Why do some guys lead girls on claiming they love her when they don't? Why not tell her from the beginning shít won't work?

3. Do guys really believe in true love?

smiley

1. There is absolutely nothing wrong opening up to someone you have a crush on...it shows how mature you are BUT it still bill down to the guy's mentality

2. They only do that to get the Cookie

3. Yeah we do... Actually we yearn for true love
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by vizkiz: 11:27pm On Jun 02, 2016
Twaci:
Another question:

Why are some guys uncomfortable with success of a woman?

Just edited your post. Not all guys get uncomfortable with their woman's success...those that a found guilty of this are probably scared of loosing their ego

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Laveda(f): 11:30pm On Jun 02, 2016
vizkiz:


1. There is absolutely nothing wrong opening up to someone you have a crush on...it shows how mature you are BUT it still bill down to the guy's mentality

2. They only do that to get the Cookie

3. Yeah we do... Actually we yearn for true love



Would you date a girl that makes the first move?
Won't you see her as desperate and cheap?
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by NevetsIbot(m): 11:31pm On Jun 02, 2016
Babzilla:


1. Give him Puna. Lots of Puna
2. We aint scared we just dont want to start with one babe then see another finer sexier babe ... tuen U have to call off relationship A to start B
you deserve a medal for the second point. As for the first one... You need serious whipping
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by vizkiz: 11:34pm On Jun 02, 2016
Laveda:


Would you date a girl that makes the first move?
Won't you see her as desperate and cheap?

"according to the way things work" guys do the approaching but a lady coming to me asking for a relationship is not something to rush in neither overlook...because it really takes guts and conviction for her to step up and voice out her mind.

No I wouldn't see her as desperate but like I mentioned earlier, I will not rush into her relationship. Will wanna try and study who she really is and why she really took that step. It might probably be because she needs a rebound relationship... Ladies are tricky you know

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by An0nimus: 11:36pm On Jun 02, 2016
lol funny thread
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Oahray: 11:43pm On Jun 02, 2016
You shouldn't have created the male version while the female is still trending jor. Abi na counter thread?
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Laveda(f): 11:44pm On Jun 02, 2016
vizkiz:


"according to the way things work" guys do the approaching but a lady coming to me asking for a relationship is not something to rush in neither overlook...because it really takes guts and conviction for her to step up and voice out her mind.

No I wouldn't see her as desperate but like I mentioned earlier, I will not rush into her relationship. Will wanna try and study who she really is and why she really took that step. It might probably be because she needs a rebound relationship... Ladies are tricky you know


Matured enough, thanks. smiley
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by vizkiz: 11:46pm On Jun 02, 2016
Laveda:

Matured enough, thanks. smiley

I hope you are good tonight? wink
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by iykekelvins(m): 11:47pm On Jun 02, 2016
refiner:


....yea dear!

I prefer a relationship,were I can lean on him.
share my problems,idea,plans with him...
feel loved,cared and pampered like a kid....
have some fun with him...not necessarily sex!

I'll be fulfilled with all this...sex is least of my expectation!

but sadly enough...it's easier for an adult to dance unclad in public than to see a guy that will love u without bearing sex in mind!undecided

















I hope you find such guy
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Laveda(f): 11:49pm On Jun 02, 2016
vizkiz:


I hope you are good tonight? wink


Very good. wink

Yourself?
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 12:17am On Jun 03, 2016
iykekelvins:
I hope you find such guy




I hope she does too! lol
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 12:23am On Jun 03, 2016
Twaci:
1. What really is the right way to a guys heart?

2. Why are most guys scared of commitment?

1. There are several ways to a guy's heart:
(i) Culinary skills.
(ii) It could be her ability to "make a home" and manage money. Most guys will value a lady that encourages them to build a house rather than weekly visits to Mr Biggs.
(iii) Although this may sound strange to most ladies, most real guys place high value on ladies that are natural and modest in their dressing. Looking good is good business but wearing too much make-up, eyebrows, and other accessories to impress guys is often counter-productive.
(iv) Independence rather than seeing relationship/marriage as a business opportunity.
(v) Teachability or ability to submit in the long-run. Respect should be mutual but if a guy sees that a lady is power-hungry and would want to run all the show in the long run or manipulate him, that will be end of the road.

2. Most guys are not scared of commitment. The fear is committing to the "wrong one". Once a guy is sure she's the "one", he will commit.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 12:54am On Jun 03, 2016
refiner:
....oh!...I'm late!..

*walks hastily to the auditorium... picks up a mic!*undecided

I've got a question to ask you guys!...

*....why do guys find it very difficult to leave you after sounding to him several times that you don't And will never love you!...undecided

*....is it a crime for a guy to stay In a relationship without demanding for sex...is sex a prove that you truly love him?undecided

cc jeffreyjamez
kingtom
naijaboiy
stfuareyoug0d......









why will a guy not ask for sex in a relationship? Your question is equal to guys asking " is it a must we will do the bill?"
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Ishilove: 1:14am On Jun 03, 2016
KingEbukasBlog:


Ah . Im still a virgin . Never seen puzzay for real smiley
Okay o. You're a still a virgin but you like big brezz and nyash cheesy

Kwantinue grin

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Ishilove: 1:17am On Jun 03, 2016
humilitypays:


I have answered this question, pls check my answer.

Answer: it is a natural trait in men. They are moved mostly by sight while women are mostly moved by words. Men involuntarily find those things you mentioned‎ attractive because naturally to them, it means a woman that's productive, mature and able to carry their gene (sperm) just as most women find tall, muscular men naturally appealing. These things are natural traits in both genders.

But then, the modern media (social media, entertainment videos, e.g. hip-hop music videos, soap opras, fashion magazines, etc) have further created a repeated fantasy of the perfect woman to be a woman with big b0obs, big as$, and flat tummy...and with time, these have formed a core belief in men as to who an ideal woman is physically, hence the obsession for curvy women with big everything.

But most times when most men want to settle down for marriage, they don't always go for ladies with big everything knowing fully well that she would explode, sag, etc...so they usually prefer those big everything kind of ladies for flings, dating and one-night stand.

Answer: believe it or not, it's part of the natural traits in men. To men, sex is like a game for fun and relaxation, not really something that involves emotion. Most men don't take sex serious....they do it as fun or game not knowing the opposite sex attach emotion to it.

Again, modern media has further contributed to idolizing sex, and women's love for money and material things has also contributed in making men more promiscuous since they know that with money and a bit fame, they can get down with as many women as they wish.

If women become more strict, and stop being too freaky about men's money and material wealth, and start to accept partners based on other attributes that is not money, fame, wealth and material things, men will have no option than to stop being promiscuous when ladies stop falling for their money and material wealth.‎

Ok, thanks. Although I believe a man with fear of God will not idolise sex
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 1:20am On Jun 03, 2016
refiner:


....yea dear!

I prefer a relationship,were I can lean on him.
share my problems,idea,plans with him...
feel loved,cared and pampered like a kid....
have some fun with him...not necessarily sex!

I'll be fulfilled with all this...sex is least of my expectation!

but sadly enough...it's easier for an adult to dance unclad in public than to see a guy that will love u without bearing sex in mind!undecided

















it doesn't go that way anymore dear. What's love without sex(not just sex but a rough hot poundin sex)
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Ishilove: 1:33am On Jun 03, 2016
Smellymouth:


Well what is normal or clean (as opposed to 'filthy'), anyways? Our feelings about sex, I would argue, are the product of past experiences and cultural norms than a moral absolute. And sure, you can argue that penile-vaginal intercourse is absolutely normal and right because it's necessary for procreation but that doesn't make other types of sexual contact 'filthy' by default. grin
Your argument is flawed. If nature intended for the anus to be used as a sexual organ, it would have equipped it with attributes to accommodate sexual activity, viz sensitive nerve endings, natural lubrication, elasticity, gravity spots etc.

Why do you think the anus gets all messed up after being used for intercourse?

Answer: it is an organ for excretion that connects to the kidney, equipped with hairs and a rectum with TOUGH sphincter muscle to control the flow of excretion. It is not and was NEVER designed for sex.

Do you think it's a co-incidence that the vagina connects to the uterus, or the penis to the balls?

There is no chaos in nature. Everything is ordered, but when man in his foolishness perverts the natural order of things, things get all fvcked up. We pay for that perversion, and in the case of anal sex, we pay for it with incontinence; wearing adult diapers to control your uncontrollable rectum because una leave where una suppose chook go scata where no concern chooking.

Anal sex has nothing to do with beliefs or culture or worrefa. It is simply a perversion of the natural order of things, a perversion that comes with dire ramifications.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Ishilove: 1:36am On Jun 03, 2016
hungryboy:
aunty,
puzzay is not puzzay oh.
There is puzzay, and there Puzeze,

All dicks will fit in a Puzzay,
While even the biggest of dicks will be lost in a Puzeze
Lmao! I've heard a new one today. Puzeze cheesy cheesy

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Odunharry(m): 1:59am On Jun 03, 2016
grin
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Odunharry(m): 2:04am On Jun 03, 2016
Twaci:
1. What really is the right way to a guys heart?

2. Why are most guys scared of commitment?
To answer questions one.. We guys aren't complicated like many ladies assume.. we have a heart that loves, we care we get hurt too..
Do this to a guy and if he doesn't love you back, then something is wrong.
Be loving, caring & tolerant ,open minded, willing to learn, willing to assist and help too, don't be too clingy etc

2.Guys I think are just waiting for the right time, I trust you many aren't ready

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Odunharry(m): 2:13am On Jun 03, 2016
Laveda:
1. Is it really right to open up to a guy that I have a crush on him?

2.Why do some guys lead girls on claiming they love her when they don't? Why not tell her from the beginning shít won't work?

3. Do guys really believe in true love?

smiley
1. You don't open up directly, you either show him sign or act it. .
some guys can't really handle it when a lady ask them out so it gets into their head and they start broadcasting like radio while there are some who will handle it maturely and turn you down in a way you won't get hurt

2. Guys again are different..some know ladies love compliments and they prefer to take that route thereby lying to get etc.
A guy can love you in the beginning of a relationship and trust me, your attitude will make him call it quits..
Many gals don't take note of this and her quick to judge any guy who call it quits without knowing their attitudes or action..
What I'm saying is a guy who stop been serious in the course of the relationship or decide to call it quit doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

3. Another misconception ladies have is thinking guys don't love or we fake it. The difference is that we are stronger physically and not too emotional unlike ladies.
Guys love, we care, we get hurt etc
We have blood and water in our system and as such, we have feelings/emotions same way with ladies.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Odunharry(m): 2:17am On Jun 03, 2016
ogorwyne:
Okay for the guilty ones. Why will your girlfriend be so transparent to you and yet u still use security code on ur phones. Maka y?
not all guys and people use security code for different reasons..I started using code on my Fone when some kids started playing temple run and the likes even when I got a low battery .
Almost everyone close to me knows my password so there's nothing to hide
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by ShaqFu: 2:57am On Jun 03, 2016
Ishilove:

Your argument is flawed. If nature intended for the anus to be used as a sexual organ, it would have equipped it with attributes to accommodate sexual activity, viz sensitive nerve endings, natural lubrication, elasticity, gravity spots etc.

Why do you think the anus gets all messed up after being used for intercourse?

Answer: it is an organ for excretion that connects to the kidney, equipped with hairs and a rectum with TOUGH sphincter muscle to control the flow of excretion.

Do you think it's a co-incidence that the vagina connects to the uterus, or the penis to the balls?

There is no chaos in nature. Everything is ordered, but when man in his foolishness perverts the natural order of things, things get all fvcked up. We pay for that perversion, and in the case of anal sex, we pay for it with incontinence; wearing adult diapers to control your uncontrollable rectum because una leave where una suppose chook go scata where no concern chooking.

Anal sex has nothing to do with beliefs or culture or worrefa. It is simply a perversion of the natural order of things,a perversion that comes with dire ramifications

Exempli gratia, Yansh Cancer. Like that South African guy. grin
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Ishilove: 3:01am On Jun 03, 2016
ShaqFu:
Exempli gratia, Yansh Cancer. Like that South African guy. grin
Like seriously. Pervs,all cheesy
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by ShaqFu: 3:07am On Jun 03, 2016
Ishilove:
Like seriously. Pervs,all cheesy
grin
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by ben4ever(m): 6:43am On Jun 03, 2016
Laveda:
1. Is it really right to open up to a guy that I have a crush on him?

2.Why do some guys lead girls on claiming they love her when they don't? Why not tell her from the beginning shít won't work?

3. Do guys really believe in true love?

smiley

1. In as much as we are all men, we have some basic different personality. Some admire such women who really know what they want and really respect them while while some see it as an opportunity to harvest her.

2. Men always want a new challenge. It's an inborn trait. Though a lot of people always mistake lust for love. When lust begins it, it ends as soon as the emotions wear out.


3 And yes, there's something called true love. That person usually brings out the best in you when ever you are with them. Unfortunately most ladies go for the heroes of their fantasy only to see another perspective of him later.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by ben4ever(m): 6:45am On Jun 03, 2016
BlessedFellow01:


1. There are several ways to a guy's heart:
(i) Culinary skills.
(ii) It could be her ability to "make a home" and manage money. Most guys will value a lady that encourages them to build a house rather than weekly visits to Mr Biggs.
(iii) Although this may sound strange to most ladies, most real guys place high value on ladies that are natural and modest in their dressing. Looking good is good business but wearing too much make-up, eyebrows, and other accessories to impress guys is often counter-productive.
(iv) Independence rather than seeing relationship/marriage as a business opportunity.
(v) Teachability or ability to submit in the long-run. Respect should be mutual but if a guy sees that a lady is power-hungry and would want to run all the show in the long run or manipulate him, that will be end of the road.

2. Most guys are not scared of commitment. The fear is committing to the "wrong one". Once a guy is sure she's the "one", he will commit.

... You nailed it bro.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by ben4ever(m): 6:53am On Jun 03, 2016
gifttracy:
1:Why do some guys always expect you to cook, clean, wash for them when your not even married yet

2:Who should spend more in a relationship


1. Most men are like kids especially those who didn't grow up closer to their mom and so lack a feminine touch, therefore they need to be managed effectively. While i advise that it should be done with self respect too, these are things we look out for to know who can really manage us in the long run.

2. Whoever has more should spend more. Love is not selfish.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Mediapace: 7:46am On Jun 03, 2016
Many feels like the woman may turn him to tail and be the head,
For example :
A man is earning 50k as his salary and a woman earning 10k before later progress to 200k.
There will be total reduction in the respect the woman was giving the man before and many men don't feel comfortable with it
Twaci:
Another question:

Why are guys uncomfortable with success of a woman?

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