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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by davide470(m): 7:23am On Jun 03, 2016
ivyy:



I don't know about the "I'm not in your league" thing. However, the "pestering" tactic might eventually work because girls love consistency. Once they see a guy is consistent, they start nursing the idea that he is actually real and most possibly genuinely interested in them.
Hmmmmm...

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 7:27am On Jun 03, 2016
DeeTus:
I have a question to ask and I need an honest answer. Can i go ahead?


Go ahead
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 7:32am On Jun 03, 2016
DeeTus:
OK. My question is like this. I met a chick where i went for work in another state. This girl declared her for me but because i didn't like her, so i turned her down.

The second i met was really nice. She's cool and very caring. But never knew the two girls knew each other till both of them spoke with me at the same time on phone. The first girl was upset and decided to spoil the second girl's mind. Though she has promised to come visit me here in Abuja and spend some time with me. Should I leave the second chick as well to maintain peace?

U said u dnt like d first girl right?
D second is ur taste of a girl right?

Do u want d girl as a wife or jst sex partner if is 4 wife go ahead nd invite her over if is for sex mate leave her for peace to rain btw d 2 girl nd find some1 else.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Mediapace: 7:38am On Jun 03, 2016
Lemme know them ladies now,time to ask my own questions :

*Is it possible for a lady to love a man she had never met before ?

*How do you ladies cope with a virgin Man during wedding night? And Do you like it when a Man is a virgin i.e. Has no experience about sex likewise you during honeymoon?

*Ladies how do you feel when a man break up relationship with you cos you aren't busty &but-ty?

*Can you date man that is not that handsome to your taste ?

Cc
ishilove
twaci
optional1
Laveda
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Blessograo(f): 7:40am On Jun 03, 2016
don't leave her just explain what happened to her on phone first and tell her you both will talk about that topic when she visits cos if you don't tell her on phone before she visits the first one might corrupt her mind more
DeeTus:
OK. My question is like this. I met a chick where i went for work in another state. This girl declared her for me but because i didn't like her, so i turned her down.

The second i met was really nice. She's cool and very caring. But never knew the two girls knew each other till both of them spoke with me at the same time on phone. The first girl was upset and decided to spoil the second girl's mind. Though she has promised to come visit me here in Abuja and spend some time with me. Should I leave the second chick as well to maintain peace?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 7:46am On Jun 03, 2016
kaboninc:


Hi Twaci and every beautiful lady mentioned here. Forgive me....I just grabbed the entire post and with the deliberate intention of having your attention.

Also, I believe that most if not all of you are young adults and hence my question is specifically addressed to you and others within your age range.

Here's my question: why are most young girls so stingy? Stingy about loved ones, stingy about themselves, hardly ever make sacrifices over another person but rather focus their time, their energy, their money and other resources in the pursuit of vanity?

Vanity in this context: spending so much money, time and energy on looks which with tiny drops of rain or a light ray of sunlight, the looks would just vanish.

Having this crave for attention on social media especially on Facebook, like it gives one some form of validation. Like deriving some form of satisfaction, joy and happiness when you upload pictures that in the real sense never defines who you truly are. And in so doing, you create a kind of cold, intense competition, fueling rivalry among yourselves.
Good morning dear, I can see the ladies in here have answered your questions. But lemme add few points to what they have said.

1. Well, here's what I think about our 'stingyness'. We can not give what we don't have. This could come in terms of money, affection or action. But there are times when we limit our giving and those times are when we feel there are not appreciated.

2. U are talking about makeup here. Lol. Well personally we do it for fun. We love looking different once in a while. And here's another thing, I feel I look pretty much younger without makeup embarassed

3. Attention seeking! Ha! To be honest, we kinda thrive on it. Its like a 'Weldone' to all our efforts of looking good or so....
But hey, I feel everyone enjoys attention as much as we do. You guys don't just make it obvious cheesy

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Laveda(f): 7:52am On Jun 03, 2016
Mediapace:
Lemme know them ladies now,time to ask my own questions :

*Is it possible for a lady to love a man she had never met before ?

*How do you ladies cope with a virgin Man during wedding night? And Do you like it when a Man is a virgin i.e. Has no experience about sex likewise you during honeymoon?

*Ladies how do you feel when a man break up relationship with you cos you aren't busty &but-ty?

*Can you date man that is not that handsome to your taste ?

Cc
ishilove
twaci
optional1
Lav eda

Yeah it's possible.
But hey it's just infatuation, that thing called love can just die if within the space of 3 months they don't meet. Right now I'm not in support of such blind love, meet that person, know who you giving out your heart to, there's more to love than the everyday phone thing.

2.I'm not married yet, so I can't tell how they cope.
Secondly, I can't marry a man who's a virgin and don't know his way around a woman's body, personally I don't even think I'll fall in love with such man to the extent of getting married to him, mehn go explore.
To your question, I don't like such guys.

3.That's just a silly reason to breakup, I mean you didn't see my physical attributes before walking up to me? Well it has never happened to me.

4.Not so handsome, but at least good looking. Yeah I will.

Good morning. smiley

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 7:55am On Jun 03, 2016
ivyy:


A good bad guy angry

Truth is, in ideology, girls want the good guys but in reality they fall often for the bad ones grin

So me think girls will prefer good guys that are flexible.

You are correct girls want the bad guys still don't understand why.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by MzzTega(f): 7:56am On Jun 03, 2016
peeparty:
I have a question o...

1:In light of recent increase in cases of Men beating their wives (not that it has never been)...How will you ever know if your boyfriend will beat you when u get married??

How can u tell a potential wife beater



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mzztega
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prettyjo
ivyy


×During the time of courtship you can tell. Especially in the Boss and slave kinda relationship. Guys with short temper have tendencies of being a wife beater.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:13am On Jun 03, 2016
charijee:
Good morning Sir
You only stated you never liked the first girl, how about the second, any genuine feelings?
I've come across such a situation before....two best friends, the guy had an entangle with the first girl, although he really didn't commit himself. ..Later on, he met the second girl, without any clue they were friends...believe me, in cases like this, the problem always lies with the first girl.
Now it turned out the guy has genuine feelings for the second....he didnt give up on her...fortunately, they're married today.


Get something right here:
The guy wasn't aware they were friends
The second babe didn't know he's been after her friend once
In such instances, you don't give up if you truly love and care
Wow, that's so interesting. Good morning!

Yes, I love this girl due to how she talks to me and her motivations. But recently, the love I have for her had diminished up to 60%. She's so emotional. She gives me a lot of stress now and does not listen to me more than her friend anymore.

Well, last week, I told her if she continues like this; I have no choice than to substitute her. And she said "I can never change." She also likes me but not so sure if I would be committed to loving her all the time.

Really, if her attitude continues this way, I'm going to drop her soon because I hate this kind of drama and i'm emotional too.

And thanks for your response. Pls what do you think I should do?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 8:16am On Jun 03, 2016
JESUSBOIY:
and na d husband go pay the house mate sef undecided undecided ,dnt mind dat Omotayor123 gal,
grin grin grin

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 8:18am On Jun 03, 2016
iAmCharis:
You'll be the one to woo and do the chasing and whatever + the bolded yet in the wedding program, you will write Joy weds Joe and not Joe weds Joy. Isn't that just crazy? cheesycheesy
Azineh! But Charis, why Joy? Of all names/ladies? Is there any Joy-lady you have for me waiting? cheesy

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 8:22am On Jun 03, 2016
Omotayor123:

God will help us through. When that stage comes we will over come it.
But, sweetheart, God will not plan your future for you, you will do that yourself. So...

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 8:25am On Jun 03, 2016
Mediapace:
Lemme know them ladies now,time to ask my own questions :

*Is it possible for a lady to love a man she had never met before ?

*How do you ladies cope with a virgin Man during wedding night? And Do you like it when a Man is a virgin i.e. Has no experience about sex likewise you during honeymoon?

*Ladies how do you feel when a man break up relationship with you cos you aren't busty &but-ty?

*Can you date man that is not that handsome to your taste ?

Cc
ishilove
twaci
optional1
Laveda

Morning dear smiley.

Okay here we go.

1. Might be possible. But for me, I don't think I can. I might appreciate your online personality but it doesn't go beyond that. Love can only come in when we meet and I get to know everything about him (especially his flaws).

2. Naturally I am uneasy around virgins...don't ask why cheesy. But its all about love and patience. Guiding him through it all might be frustrating but love covers it all. BTW when he becomes a pro.....wink

3. I'll conclude we ain't meant to be and move on with my life.

4. Love can be found anywhere. As long as he has all I want in a guy, I am in.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:32am On Jun 03, 2016
JoeCutie:
grin grin grin
oh wait, u tink say na d woman go pay?undecided





Men are the Givers ooo...


And givers are rulers/masters wink winkwink,while the recievers are....






women undecided undecided undecided undecided .

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 8:32am On Jun 03, 2016
Hi, ladies,

Why do (most of) you think/say/form that guys love/want/need sex more than you do
?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:36am On Jun 03, 2016
JoeCutie:
Azineh! But Charis, why Joy? Of all names/ladies? Is there any Joy-lady you have for me waiting? cheesy
Lol that Joy nau. wink
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:40am On Jun 03, 2016
optional1:


U said u dnt like d first girl right?
D second is ur taste of a girl right?

Do u want d girl as a wife or jst sex partner if is 4 wife go ahead nd invite her over if is for sex mate leave her for peace to rain btw d 2 girl nd find some1 else.
Thanks. I really don't date a woman for sex. I look for qualities in her. But sex can come naturally, no problem.

I don't do sex that much, maybe once in a while. But romance is key to me. And this is my power. cheesy May, this is why when I date a girl, she always takes me as her future husband and I'm committed. I can go extra mile for a lady but my problem is that I don't call very often. But I will try as much as I could to change that and to be a better man.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 8:41am On Jun 03, 2016
JESUSBOIY:
oh wait, u tink say na d woman go pay?undecided





Men are the Givers ooo...


And givers are rulers/masters wink winkwink,while the recievers are....






women undecided undecided undecided undecided .
Bros ehn, the mentality of our women taya me! I'd give my wife every form of equality in the home...if she earns it. But in a situation where she let's me take care of everything around the house and still comes up with the equality crap, I go just tear her better slap, or better still, ask her to go back to her parents' house for a sabbatical. If I'm the one taking care of all the bills, we are not equal, I'm your Lord and personal saviour. Even if I'm a lot richer than you are, you should try and contribute. Not that I can't do it myself, but I'd like you to have some sense of responsibility, and just then you'd earn that equality.

And they even think that their lives are a lot more difficult than ours, but they have no idea
.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 8:42am On Jun 03, 2016
iAmCharis:
Lol that Joy nau. wink
Which one!!! Talk am now oh. cheesy

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:42am On Jun 03, 2016
Twaci, like four ladies just asked me to "give them money" this morning,....... And they don't care if i have taken breakfast or not ooo undecidedundecided undecided undecidedundecided undecided., My own question is, why do ladies feel very comfortable demanding money and other material stuffs from an aquintance/or guys they just met, why undecided

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Juliesexy(f): 8:49am On Jun 03, 2016
JoeCutie:
Hi, ladies,

Why do (most of) you think/say/form that guys love/want/need sex more than you do
?
Many a time, ladies just deceive themselves. It's very clear that ladies enjoy the pleasure from sex more than guys. The evidence is very clear. Guys try their best to see that they satisfy their ladies in bed, and ladies are the ones being satisfied. So what are we saying again? It's just that guys show their urges more than ladies. Ladies can hide it but inside, they are dying of sexual urge, but guys can hardly hide theirs. Personally, I like and enjoy sex. Any lady that says otherwise, it's her business. And I don't care what anybody thinks about me liking and enjoying sex. It's high time we stood for what we like and believe in.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Emodeee: 8:53am On Jun 03, 2016
1. What will make a woman cheat on her husband?


2. If you and your boyfriend went to have sex in your boyfriend friend's house, after your boyfriend was through, he then told you that his friend would like to shag you also, would you allow?


3. Do we still have virgin ladies? If we still have, like how many percent?


4. What could make a lady lose her virginity? I know it's penetration but what would make her give in to penetration.


5. Why is it dat ladies tend to leave their house boyfriend after gaining admission into the tertiary institute? It's rampant and that's why i'm asking.



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Twaci
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by RoyalBlak007: 8:53am On Jun 03, 2016
are you girls

always like this grin

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PhweshyJ(f): 9:00am On Jun 03, 2016
JoeCutie:
Hian! Some girls even cüm just seeing money. cheesy
shocked shocked cheesy cheesy lipsrsealed

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 9:01am On Jun 03, 2016
Emodeee:
1. What will make a woman cheat on her husband?


2. If you and your boyfriend went to have sex in your boyfriend friend's house, after your boyfriend was through, he then told you that his friend would like to shag you also, would you allow?


3. Do we virgin ladies still exist? If we still have, like how many percent?


4. What could make a lady lose her virginity? I know it's penetration but what would make her give in to penetration.


5. Why is it dat ladies tend to leave their house boyfriend after gaining admission into the tertiary institute? It's rampant and that's why i'm asking.
apart from number 1, what sort of dumb questions are these? angry

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 9:05am On Jun 03, 2016
JoeCutie:
But, sweetheart, God will not plan your future for you, you will do that yourself. So...
When you get to that bridge, you will definitely knows how to cross it.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by charijee(f): 9:05am On Jun 03, 2016
DeeTus:
Wow, that's so interesting. Good morning!

Yes, I love this girl due to how she talks to me and her motivations. But recently, the love I have for her had diminished up to 60%. She's so emotional. She gives me a lot of stress now and does not listen to me more than her friend anymore.

Well, last week, I told her if she continues like this; I have no choice than to substitute her. And she said "I can never change." She also likes me but not so sure if I would be committed to loving her all the time.

Really, if her attitude continues this way, I'm going to drop her soon because I hate this kind of drama and i'm emotional too.

And thanks for your response. Pls what do you think I should do?
How long have you been together? ...Don't you think you need to know yourselves more
Since you've noticed some attributes you ain't cool with, kindly have a one - on - one talk with her. She allowing her friend have an upper hand is way too bad....All in all, don't rush, don't delay
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 9:05am On Jun 03, 2016
Juliesexy:
Many a time, ladies just deceive themselves. It's very clear that ladies enjoy the pleasure from sex more than guys. The evidence is very clear. Guys try their best to see that they satisfy their ladies in bed, and ladies are the ones being satisfied. So what are we saying again? It's just that guys show their urges more than ladies. Ladies can hide it but inside, they are dying of sexual urge, but guys can hardly hide theirs. Personally, I like and enjoy sex. Any lady that says otherwise, it's her business. And I don't care what anybody thinks about me liking and enjoying sex. It's high time we stood for what we like and believe in.
Awww, I'm not surprised. My real lady. Keep on being real, sweetheart, it pays. kiss

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 9:07am On Jun 03, 2016

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 9:08am On Jun 03, 2016
Omotayor123:
When you get to that bridge, you will definitely knows how to cross it.
Well...it's okay then.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Omotayor123(f): 9:08am On Jun 03, 2016
Odunharry:

lol..see talk.. so to you money help in showing how much one cares??
If a guy spend alot of it on you even though he may abhor an evil agenda, automatically he loves you??
This is interesting
I'm talking about genuine love between two persons. Not fake love that Harbours wickedness.

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