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I met a girl on Nairaland a few months ago we started dating, while we were datng she was jobless. She has been jobless for like 2 years , I came along supported her with her résumé, interview tips and forwarding job openings to her. Then I was working and calling her 24/7 making sure she is alright. The tables turned, I was in her position while she was in mine. NLers, calling me became a serious task, I let out an out burst after enduring for 2 months and told her she used me to get what she wanted but she claims I don't know she hold me in high esteem, I don't know what she is going through, and can never forget me ( this was a girl that I did a lot for). In fact she currently know what am going through explained everything to her but the best I got so far was a thousand naira. Calling me to know how am doing is an difficult thing- she claim its work, I have been busy sunnypar.

Recently met another one on NL, this one does not work but calls and communicate with me regularly. Unlike the first girl.
Now, I like the first one but am fast losing the love for her.
Many on NL are of the opinion that, its when you have nothing you will know the girl that loves you. Does this hold true with the above

STAY WITH HER

Sunnypar:
I met a girl on Nairaland a few months ago we started dating, while we were during she was jobless. She has been jobless for like 2 years , I came along supported her with her résumé, interview tips and forwarding job openings to her. Then I was working and calling her 24/7 making sure she is alright. The tables turned, I was in her position while she was in mine. NLers, calling me became a serious task, I let out an out burst after enduring for 2 months and told her she used me to get what she wanted but she claims I don't know she hold me in high esteem and can never forget me ( this was a girl that I did a lot for). In fact she currently know what am going through explained everything to her but the best I got so far was a thousand naira. Calling me to know how am doing is an difficult thing- she claim its work.

Recently met another one on NL, this one does not work but calls and communicate with me regularly. Unlike the first girl.
Now, I like the first one but am fast losing the love for her.
Many on NL are of the opinion that, its when you have nothing you will know the girl that loves you. Does this hold true with the above

That should be enough prove that most girls only cling to you when it is beneficial.

Just try and get yourself up. The right girl for you will come at the right time.

iceberylin:
YOU'RE JOBLESS AND A NIGERIAN CHICK IS CALLING YOU REGULARLY




WHO BELIEVES THIS

I do bro.



It happens

Son, it's like you have finally found your calling

Keep empowering our ladies to take care of themselves
When you are through with setting up this one, notify me let me send you another nairaland girl without a job

iceberylin:
YOU'RE JOBLESS AND A NIGERIAN CHICK IS CALLING YOU REGULARLY




WHO BELIEVES THIS

it obvious you missed English classes way back in high school. Re-read

Tallesty1:
I do bro.



It happens

No mind that dumbo....when airtel is doing load 100 take 500 and Mtn 200% days 7days.

Detonator:
Son, it's like you have finally found your calling

Keep empowering our ladies to take care of themselves
When you are through with setting up this one, notify me let me send you another nairaland girl without a job

Thank you. I will gladly do that again and again especially if you sister is included.

iceberylin:
YOU'RE JOBLESS AND A NIGERIAN CHICK IS CALLING YOU REGULARLY




WHO BELIEVES THIS

I do bruh!

some of them are not after ur money

Such is life bro, hv u try sitting her down to start wit

emmanuelbrown26:
Such is life bro, hv u try sitting her down to start wit

Even before we started dating I asked her let see, she just dey dodge. Even now I have asked her let see, she said she will get back to me.

Sunnypar:
Thank you. I will gladly do that again and again especially if you sister is included.

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My brother. Am sorry about what you are going through. But be guided and watch the characters of both. From experience, most ladies hardly call you especially when they are working, using the job as an excuse. Guys on the other hand tend to create time for their woman.

But if you ask me, have a one on one talk with that lady working. Dont shout or show that you are mad about it. Let her know that you understand she is busy amd appreciate her little time. Talk to her to put in more effort and see if she changes. If she doesn't, then her heart is somewhere else and not with you.

As for the second lady, keep being close with her and study her more. Lets see if her goodness wont be shortlived, if her feelings for you is really genuine. But in the end, the choice is yours. Make sure you stick with the one that loves you and creates time for you. And free the other one( don't double date)

Lastly, put more effort towards getting job

Sunnypar:
Even before we started dating I asked her let see, she just dey dodge. Even now I have asked her let see, she said she will get back to me.

give her a break

Sunnypar:
Even before we started dating I asked her let see, she just dey dodge. Even now I have asked her let see, she said she will get back to me.

give her a break to know whether she will call or sms u, if not dat means u are a past in her life

emmanuelbrown26:
give her a break to know whether she will call or sms u, if not dat means u are a past in her life

Thanks.

Sunnypar:
Thanks.

u are welcome man. Anoda ting neer gie urself headach bcs of her nor anoda woman, let me tell u sth, my broda had even worst similar case like urs, just at the moment he wana go for the introduction, anoda gee from yankee enter her life, na so she waka leae my broda ohh, but u know wat, life goes on

emmanuelbrown26:
u are welcome man. Anoda ting neer gie urself headach bcs of her nor anoda woman, let me tell u sth, my broda had even worst similar case like urs, just at the moment he wana go for the introduction, anoda gee from yankee enter her life, na so she waka leae my broda ohh, but u know wat, life goes on

Are you serious? . Why all this from girls now? Ehn

Sunnypar:
I met a girl on Nairaland a few months ago we started dating, while we were datng she was jobless. She has been jobless for like 2 years , I came along supported her with her résumé, interview tips and forwarding job openings to her. Then I was working and calling her 24/7 making sure she is alright. The tables turned, I was in her position while she was in mine. NLers, calling me became a serious task, I let out an out burst after enduring for 2 months and told her she used me to get what she wanted but she claims I don't know she hold me in high esteem, I don't know what she is going through, and can never forget me ( this was a girl that I did a lot for). In fact she currently know what am going through explained everything to her but the best I got so far was a thousand naira. Calling me to know how am doing is an difficult thing- she claim its work, I have been busy sunnypar.

Recently met another one on NL, this one does not work but calls and communicate with me regularly. Unlike the first girl.
Now, I like the first one but am fast losing the love for her.
Many on NL are of the opinion that, its when you have nothing you will know the girl that loves you. Does this hold true with the above

This is the time to create your own game.The more time you spend with the second one, the better!

BahdGanG.