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no premarital holding of hands? What are you saying? Fanactic that you are.


No premarital hugging? Then you'd have to stop hugging at all. Don't you hug friends or family? Don't you hold hands with them? I doubt if anyone gets any pleasure from that! Just read that point again... ''what exactly are you saying?'' did you even read your bible well? Was this what you saw? If you answered 'yes' you're a liar. The bible never mentioned hugging or holding hands. It didnt even recognise it. You are just spunning points from your head! Human standards!

Sheeeesh!! SU gang abi? Read your bible again and verify your points before you post anything. As soon as I read the first point.. I lost interest cos it's only hypocrites that claim the no contact thingy! And you too shuldnt date or hold hands and hug. It's a sin sheybi? Dnt do it.

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A beautiful word of advice

Psalmone:

Lol. You make me laugh. Are you sure you read what you read well??
Yeah... When I said touch... I mean holding hands and hugging. I didn't mention anything sexual. If I'm to follow your drift here.. You also said siff genders can't be friends abi not so What exactly are you saying Did your bible tell you that You could only pull out words from pauls teaching alone and they don't even tally.
God isn't a dictor that will tell you everything. Apostle paul talked about marriage, not courtship. you were never given insight as to how those in the bible interacted with their fiancees before marriage. You were never told.

So, two people wuld just follow your carnal instructions now and become total strabger in their wedding night bah? It won't go down well... Why? They hadnt even held hands. Why don't you say something awe-inspiring also... Like ''saying 'I Love You'' during courtship is bad. You're funny. You dnt even understand yourself and you're trying to make people understand.

Holding hands and hugs are harmless. What stops you from holding hands with the man or woman you're gonna marry, let alone hug?
The real thing you oughtta be guiding against is immoral thoughts here. Your ''followers'' might adhere to your carnal instructions and be thinking of having their ways with eachother.

Rethink.

halfricanadian:
A beautiful word of advice

uhn?

NevetsIbot:
uhn?

Yes it is as av said it is

halfricanadian:


Yes it is as av said it is

lol... Never was against it.

NevetsIbot:
lol... Never was against it.

Never said u were

halfricanadian:


Never said u were

should we keep 'nevering??'' i'm up for it o

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[quote author=Psalmone post=46306927][/quote] wow. You're so funny. brothers and sister in christ? And not friendship??... Confused lady. Even Jesus called us his friends. Friends!!! Tell me you don't have male friends!

They are never innocent because of what you were thinking! It happened to you. The guy held your hands and butterflies attacked your stomach. You wanted him... That why you're thinking everyones mind is perverted??


I've met a lot of fanactics. Even my bestfriend is one... He would sit you down and school you on the word of God. I wish he could come here to thwart your baseless points.


No need for ''i love you''.... Even Jesus wouldn't want to hear this. How many times did Jesus assure us of his love directly and indirectly so.. You guys just stare at eachother thruawt the courtship like a glass door is btw you both and a feeder stuffed in your mouth? Dead relationship. I hope you're married cos If you're still single... Twuld take the intervention of all the angels to get you married if you follow all these points.

Dnt quote me sister. Your points irk me.

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@Psalmone

I know your type and you clearly mean well.

You are missing two vital piece of the puzzle.

These so called body of Christ girls are mostly 'christian feminists' who are hiding behind bible verses. they put church activities and prayers times and choir participation above their husbands as though their husband was a pagan. If its not church activities they are putting above their husbands then its their careers.


In Timothy young women were encouraged to marry and bear children not pursue careers and stand on the pulpit as choir leads (I acknowledge that God may have called certain women into Ministry - who am I to question) - but thats not every womans primrary role.

Secondly men are visual creatures and are moved by 'youthful lusts' (that is the truth). Young women should be encouraged to marry before going to university (this will stop dating) or during university or shortly after university. the dearth of single women in Lagos in their late twenties and 30s today is because largely they followed a feminist path albeit unknowingly. Men will always all things being equal pick the youngest and most well behaved girl possible.

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womens dressing today every summer and in hot countries and exposing their bodies also made the market more efficient. Which is bad for both men and women.


Psalmone i have sent you a nairaland friendship invite. Lets connect!

i intend on blogging on this particular topic and there could be collaboration opportunities here.

Psalmone:
God never intended human beings to enter marriage through dating. God is the founder of marriage therefore His way has to be followed. The way God want marriage to be approached is by choosing one person and marry that person, no dating.

If people stop dating, marriages will be much more easier and enjoyable.

Before choosing a girl to marry a man should sit with himself really well to choose that one girl he wants to marry. The man will study the girl of his liking without approaching her romantically and without befriending her. He will study her through observation and also by investigating thoroughly about her, and once he is convinced he still wants to marry her. He then has to approach her family and marry her.

God’s way of no dating is all positives and no negative at all:

1. No premarital sex or premarital kissing.
No premarital physical contact: no premarital hand holding, no premarital hugging and no premarital touching at all.
Most if not all people will be virgins on their wedding night with no sexual experience at all.

2. No sexual baggage.

3. No emotional baggage.
No exes.

4. No money wasting and no time wasting.

The list of the positive things of no dating before marriage is unlimited.

Before marriage men and women have to focus on building a strong relationship with God, not on dating. People should focus on building up their capacity; spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, vocationally, academically, socially.. etc.

Men must focus on building themselves as leaders and save their money for marriage and life ahead.

Women must focus on building themselves as helpers who nurture life itself.

God only requirement for a Christian is to marry another Christian. Any man can marry any woman, and any woman can marry any man but only in Jesus Christ.

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14

If any Christian truly imitated Jesus Christ the way Apostle Paul imitated Jesus Christ that person will be the best husband/ wife for anyone.

It’s the will of God for a Christian to marry a believing Christian who is a true follower of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is The One not any man or woman. Instead of Pastors making a big deal of the one let them preach no dating, purity and most importantly imitating Jesus Christ so that a man can be the best husband for any girl he chooses and the girl can be the best wife for any man who chooses her.

And if it happened that someone never married until they died. Then they lived and died for Jesus Christ.

Dating and sex are for married people. After you get married love your wife starting from the wedding day onward. The way men romance girls during the so called dating is actually what God intended to be done for a wife and not for a girlfriend and vice versa.

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you. Matthew 6:33

When we seek first God kingdom and His righteousness (imitating Lord Jesus Christ, purity and no dating before marriage) all the other things (marital bliss, success, peace and joy etc.) will be added unto us when we marry that one person we chose to marry, no dating.

Don’t think as a man if you don’t date a girl first you will be headed into a marital disaster, a big no. What the devil has blinded people’s eyes to is that marriage is a breeze of fresh air when both the man and the woman are virgins (virgin rape victims also) on their wedding night and with no emotional baggage and exes.

Dating encourages premarital sex, sexual impurity and many other vices. Entering marriage with no sexual baggage, no emotional baggage and no exes which are all caused by dating is a recipe for a successful marital life.

“And the LORD will make you the head and not the tail, and you shall only go up and not down, if you obey the commandments of the LORD your God, which I command you today, being careful to do them.” Deuteronomy 28:13

ur opinion leave bible out of this, come force ur opinion on us

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Psalmone:


“And what man is there that hath betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? let him go and return unto his house, lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.” Deuteronomy 20:7

Betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? - It was customary among the Jews to contract matrimony, espouse or betroth, and for some considerable time to leave the parties in the houses of their respective parents: when the bridegroom had made proper preparations, then the bride was brought home to his house, and thus the marriage was consummated.(Bible commentary)

This is how it is in the Bible no dating involved the man betroth the girl and then consummate the marriage on their wedding day. God way is very simple and effective.

ur opinion, everybody both christian or non-christian have a bad side, we get into relationship to know the good and bad sides of our partners, because u are a christian doesn't make u flawless, either u are stingy or something, seriously i can't marry a stingy and bad mouthed woman, leave the bible out of this

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Psalmone:


“And what man is there that hath betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? let him go and return unto his house, lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.” Deuteronomy 20:7

Betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? - It was customary among the Jews to contract matrimony, espouse or betroth, and for some considerable time to leave the parties in the houses of their respective parents: when the bridegroom had made proper preparations, then the bride was brought home to his house, and thus the marriage was consummated.(Bible commentary)

This is how it is in the Bible no dating involved the man betroth the girl and then consummate the marriage on their wedding day. God way is very simple and effective.

Where exactly was "Wedding Day" stated in the Bible??

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psalmone email me ur bbm pin. lets talk.

AVRecruit:
psalmone email me ur bbm pin. lets talk.

Mah man, I have long searched for you.
How've you been? Do you have any candidate in the ongoing NL beauty contest?

I truly need your support.