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Is it right to date your friend's ex?

If Yes, Why?

If No, Why Not?



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Don't think so. It's against the guys code, stay clear your friend's babes, ex or current ones. Personally, I'll cut all ties with a guy who's dating an ex. I'll see him as disloyal and capricious and not to be trusted.

Naaaah.. his ex is my ex! Out out out..

It's improperly abnormal

Its bullshiit and not advisable. Had same issues some days back with a friend who tried cornering my babe who i'm still in a relationship with, and i really embarrased him. I see it as an act of betrayal.

ronald4lif:
Don't think so. It's against the guys code, stay clear your friend's babes, ex or current ones. Personally, I'll cut all ties with a guy who's dating an ex. I'll see him as disloyal and capricious and not to be trusted.

good ! that is why i support THE KISS AND TELL trend , because it tells you have had something with a chick to avoid this kind of scenario.

falconey:


good ! that is why i support THE KISS AND TELL trend , because it tells you have had something with a chick to avoid this kind of scenario.

dollyjoy:
It's improperly abnormal

Why is it abnormal? I believe if my friend dated a girl and later left her! It makes the girl readily available! That's what I think though!


Readily Available!!

What the hell? My friend's ex? Ridiculous, wen babes are still in excess outside begging for dates and guys forming uninterested.... For me to eat my friend's left over, I'd rather go hungry. Again, not dating my friend's ex is a sign of respect to my friend. My brother's, friend's exes are no no for me...... Too many girls in the world please!

abimic:
What the hell? My friend's ex? Ridiculous, wen babes are still in excess outside begging for dates and guys forming uninterested.... For me to eat my friend's left over, I'd rather go hungry. Again, not dating my friend's ex is a sign of respect to my friend. My brother's, friend's exes are no no for me...... Too many girls in the world please!

What exactly do you mean by leftover!? The other ladies out there that are available. Are they not someone's left over as well? You can't date your friend's ex but your friend can date your sis?

I don't still get your point.

deturla:


What exactly do you mean by leftover!? The other ladies out there that are available. Are they not someone's left over as well? You can't date your friend's ex but your friend can date your sis?

I don't still get your point.

Yes, the other ladies out there are someone else's left over but at least, who left them over aren't my friends and I won't be nurturing the feeling of my friend having slept with my lady.... Still bro, don't be surprised when they meet in the corner to settle their scores, some love don't die easily... So I prefer away and fresh never tasted by any of my friends. Well, my friend dating my sis... Left to me and it's personal though, my friend can't date my sister, I won't allow that and my sis can't disobey me... It's not as if my friends aren't good, but I can't just allow that, most rarely works out leading to something tangible, maybe 10 in 100 have got success stories.

abimic:

Yes, the other ladies out there are someone else's left over but at least, who left them over aren't my friends and I won't be nurturing the feeling of my friend having slept with my lady.... Still bro, don't be surprised when they meet in the corner to settle their scores, some love don't die easily... So I prefer away and fresh never tasted by any of my friends. Well, my friend dating my sis... Left to me and it's personal though, my friend can't date my sister, I won't allow that and my sis can't disobey me... It's not as if my friends aren't good, but I can't just allow that, most rarely works out leading to something tangible, maybe 10 in 100 have got success stories.

Sorry, Im just seeing this interesting post.

You are funny sha? Are you the one that will make decisions for your sis, maybe you will be the one to marry her eventually!..OK

ronald4lif:
Don't think so. It's against the guys code, stay clear your friend's babes, ex or current ones. Personally, I'll cut all ties with a guy who's dating an ex. I'll see him as disloyal and capricious and not to be trusted.

where is the guys code written? Stand there they pull norms from where it don't exist, dear op, ex is someone else's next, its gf not life mate.

deturla:


Sorry, Im just seeing this interesting post.

You are funny sha? Are you the one that will make decisions for your sis, maybe you will be the one to marry her eventually!..OK

Lol.. Marry her ke.. If she no get brother, she no-go get boyfriend?.... She won't even dare intimate me with such, when she's got many male friends both those that approached her on the Road, class, etc... Na my wetin ..... Na slap i go take reset her face till she sees one Out of the thousands of men out there in Nigeria that isn't my friend.

deturla:
I am presently getting information for my new blog post, and I feel Romance section of Nairaland will go a long way in giving me heads up based on the huge level of diversity in here!

Is it right to date your friend's ex?

If Yes, Why?

If No, Why Not?



www.deedeesblog.com

Its an act of disloyalty and betrayal, anyone who sees nothing wrong in it has betrayal in his blood

I see most of the guys here really objecting to it... but I beg 2 differ... so many things will have to be taken in2 consideration, and not just because she is my friend's ex... so if I see a good girl,my type of woman, that will make me happy when I eventually marry her, then I should not go on and create that special relationship with her, cos she is a friend's ex?? that's myopic of those saying otherwise.what if despite all her good qualities and d frnd in question was just playing with her? and the heart been as it is..falls in love with her? there is nothing morally wrong with it.. the Bible ain't against it... so ladies and gentlemen.. I will.. date and even eventually marry her if my heart chooses her...my friend won't stay with me in my house, that they dated... doesn't mean they end up together.

GoldenJAT:
I see most of the guys here really objecting to it... but I beg 2 differ... so many things will have to be taken in2 consideration, and not just because she is my friend's ex... so if I see a good girl,my type of woman, that will make me happy when I eventually marry her, then I should not go on and create that special relationship with her, cos she is a friend's ex?? that's myopic of those saying otherwise.what if despite all her good qualities and d frnd in question was just playing with her? and the heart been as it is..falls in love with her? there is nothing morally wrong with it.. the Bible ain't against it... so ladies and gentlemen.. I will.. date and even eventually marry her if my heart chooses her...my friend won't stay with me in my house, that they dated... doesn't mean they end up together.

Please GoldenJAT, can I just give you a kiss for this post. I mean why is that an issue really! Only that Nigerians that we are, we have this stereotypical thinking to situations.

I mean why can't I date my friend's ex if I truly love her? Why will loving her be a no no and a sense of betrayal.

deturla:


Please GoldenJAT, can I just give you a kiss for this post. I mean why is that an issue really! Only that Nigerians that we are, we have this stereotypical thinking to situations.

I mean why can't I date my friend's ex if I truly love her? Why will loving her be a no no and a sense of betrayal.

my friend... some things baffles me alot.. some people don't use their senses... and this is also 1 of d reason.. our country is d way it is 2day.

GoldenJAT:
my friend... some things baffles me alot.. some people don't use their senses... and this is also 1 of d reason.. our country is d way it is 2day.

LOL!...No need to be confrontational bro, Like i say in most of the comments, it's just the way we are wired and our culture plays a huge part. I'm doing an article on this soon. I hope to quote you! Bless Bro