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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 2:15pm On Jun 08, 2016
Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments
it depends buh being patient is d best until she's very much comfortable wit u
it will b like u re seeing her2b cheap
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 2:24pm On Jun 08, 2016
JoeCutie:
I'm at a loss here. I don't get it, she'll be officially and legally mine? Is that why we have to be equal? Because if I'm not mistaking, I'd also be "officially and legally" hers, so... huh
lols
u re funny
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 2:24pm On Jun 08, 2016
JoeCutie:
I'm at a loss here. I don't get it, she'll be officially and legally mine? Is that why we have to be equal? Because if I'm not mistaking, I'd also be "officially and legally" hers, so... huh
lols
u re funny
Adam was b4Eve
u ve2do d marrying
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 2:43pm On Jun 08, 2016
Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl
u will apologize at d moment, let her calm down n u will keep apologizing
make her see reasons u didn't hurt intentional n it won't repeat it sef
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Bioboy1213(m): 2:47pm On Jun 08, 2016
ireneony:
All guys here should ask me any issue concerning ladies.
U all are welcome
how do you know if a girl truly loves you in a distant relationship ?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by RoyalBlak007: 3:02pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
I'm not just saying




buh d truth is I can't go for a classic n richer guys cox dey re not loyal2som extend, dey always ve dis ego n pride
Not all richer guys...

[color=#AB56BA]girls dat do that...are so rare..[/color]
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by jen2me(m): 3:03pm On Jun 08, 2016
why do you ladies dread marrying a virgin guy?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 3:03pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
lols
u re funny
Adam was b4Eve
u ve2do d marrying
Good. Great. Adam was before Even, which places Even under Adam and not equal with him, right?

And for the records, men have never had a problem with the marrying, the only problem there is, is women rising up and asking to be equal with men
.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by meisterkitan(m): 3:30pm On Jun 08, 2016
meisterkitan:
How do you feel when a guy that asks you out but you refused succeeds in shaving your bestie angry.
No answer?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ikombe: 3:31pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
I don't really buy dat idea


Nigerians, we've got dat mentality dat wen a lady approach a guy den dey assume she's lose or sumtin, d respect is not dere any more


it happened to a friend n she regreted it, He went telling all of his friends dat she asked him out.......imagine
for me , its a NOO
Thanks for the reply. Meaning i would stay single till my parent forces a wife on me grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 3:38pm On Jun 08, 2016
Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl
u will have2appologize at dat moment den let her calm n apologize again
make her see reasons DAT u didn't hurt her intentional n it won't happen again
we love2b pet n cuddled u know....lol
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 3:43pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
u will have2appologize at dat moment den let her calm n apologize again
make her see reasons DAT u didn't hurt her intentional n it won't happen again
we love2b pet n cuddled u know....lol
prestige I don hear ooo.. hw many times u go quote me on this grin


U love to be petted and cuddled abi? No worry, catch ur boyfrnd fvckin ur bestie, u will tell me if u love to be petted and cudled by him.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 3:47pm On Jun 08, 2016
zicoraads:
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?
this is very common, buh it doesn't show maturity wen u start asking her to block dem in social media
just seat her down, know her problms, talk over it n ask her wat she's up n know wat u re lackin



it all ball down to "understanding her"
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Drknocks(m): 3:52pm On Jun 08, 2016
How do you tell a woman you care about to stop encroaching on ur personal space without hurting her feelings....

Cos u r used to caring more for ur women and not the woman doing the caring... Say this chic is the lady u hope to get married to grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by NiRfreak(m):
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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by chigoizie7(m): 4:12pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
d truth is we ladies love completely wen we mean dat we go2d extend of giving itself to him for notin in return buh regret it at d end, guys can't b pleased n satisfied
No be una give am to the guy willingly? Why blame him @ d end? Did he force u?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kuchikau: 4:21pm On Jun 08, 2016
Omotayor123:
Don't you know an adage that says a lady will take a man even if it's as a concubine if he's persistence and consistence. Ladies love this persistency and it soften our hearts towards that person.
Persistency is the key my dear.
....
Hello dear,

Someone like me cant afford to ask a girl out twice because it took me a whole lots of courage and boldeness to walk up to her.
Besides if she says NO, I feel downtrodden even to face her ever again.

I tink every girl should study their intending toosters.
OR what do you tink?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kuchikau: 4:29pm On Jun 08, 2016
ivyy:
I don't know about the "I'm not in your league" thing. However, the "pestering" tactic might eventually work because girls love consistency. Once they see a guy is consistent, they start nursing the idea that he is actually real and most possibly genuinely interested in them.
...

Hello!

There is this girl in my church at choba portharcourt. I have feelings for her and i believe she has feelings for me too. But am afraid to approach her because she might say NO (which will bruise my EGO) and if i persist she might view me as one desperate love seeking guy and her respect for me may vanish.(we have a lot of eye contacts during services, exchange numbers but she is not the out going type and does not visit a guy.


Pls whats your advice?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by wasak(m): 4:36pm On Jun 08, 2016
I never thought I'll need this thread, but here I am.
So I met this girl through a friend about 3 weeks ago, we started by chatting on WhatsApp, and we got along really well, exchanged pictures and the like, I started visiting her in her school and I can tell she likes me, she told me about her past relationship, they broke up cos of blood group ish.
Now the issue is this, I asked her out and she asked for time, I also feel like she's trying to play hard to get with me, so I'm not pressing her too much so I don't come off as desperate.
But I'm quite sure she likes me, question is, should I withdraw totally? Press further? Or start playing hard to get too?
Looking forward to ur replies
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Drknocks(m): 4:36pm On Jun 08, 2016
Tell her your mind and damn the consequences
kuchikau:
...

Hello!

There is this girl in my church at choba portharcourt. I have feelings for her and i believe she has feelings for me too. But am afraid to approach her because she might say NO (which will bruise my EGO) and if i persist she might view me as one desperate love seeking guy and her respect for me may vanish.(we have a lot of eye contacts during services, exchange numbers but she is not the out going type and does not visit a guy.


Pls whats your advice?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Riichyy(m): 4:37pm On Jun 08, 2016
No,but as my girl.
Any suggestion that can be helpful ?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 4:46pm On Jun 08, 2016
Cutehector:
prestige I don hear ooo.. hw many times u go quote me on this grin


U love to be petted and cuddled abi? No worry, catch ur boyfrnd fvckin ur bestie, u will tell me if u love to be petted and cudled by him.
I gat no bestie n I know ma Man
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 4:49pm On Jun 08, 2016
ikombe:
Thanks for the reply. Meaning i would stay single till my parent forces a wife on me grin
ohMaGod




u can't woo a lady or wat shocked
ikombe:
Thanks for the reply. Meaning i would stay single till my parent forces a wife on me grin
ohMaGod




u can't woo a lady or wat
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 4:52pm On Jun 08, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
Not all richer guys...

[color=#AB56BA]girls dat do that...are so rare..[/color]
u re ryt
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by macdon4all(m): 4:59pm On Jun 08, 2016
amakabaybee:
Probably for the same reason guyz play hard to want.. :-D
hmmm....very funny
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ikombe: 4:59pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
ohMaGod




u can't woo a lady or wat :oohMaGod




u can't woo a lady or wat
i dont know how to do dat huh


Dont know if am shy or just afraid of the words to use cry
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 5:25pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
I gat no bestie n I know ma Man
cool
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Theophinio(m): 6:11pm On Jun 08, 2016
ireneony:
to answer this question. . According to most of us (is very proper)
It shows u re a gentle to man. Gifts are very essential. .even in the bible. Wen the three wise men went to visit baby Jesus ..they Brought along gift.
My brother. .the truth is..it makes the lady agree to ur proposal fast. We ladies are easily entice. . Yes! I said it
This single act would push you into her friendzone list
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Theophinio(m): 6:16pm On Jun 08, 2016
ikombe:
Thanks for the reply. Meaning i would stay single till my parent forces a wife on me grin
Fall off my precious bed while laughing
Dude
#AMWITHYOU
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by PRESTIGERYHME(f): 9:38pm On Jun 08, 2016
ikombe:
i dont know how to do dat huh

Dont know if am shy or just afraid of the words to use cry
so sorry dear
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ikombe: 9:40pm On Jun 08, 2016
Theophinio:
Fall off my precious bed while laughing Dude #AMWITHYOU
ma nigga cheesy
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ikombe: 9:48pm On Jun 08, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
so sorry dear
thanx cheesy
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