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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by SIRRDIQ(m): 6:51pm On Jun 12, 2016
BUHARIISCURSED:
muslim and redeem are 5 & 6
which Redeemed? pls explain...
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 6:51pm On Jun 12, 2016
In the Quran Muslim men are allowed to marry Christian ladies/women but Christian men are not allowed to marry our women. If her guardian doesn't allow you to marry please, look for a Christian lady.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by XwhY(m): 6:51pm On Jun 12, 2016
nothing should stop you if both of you are ready to be with each other.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by shamecurls(m): 6:51pm On Jun 12, 2016
Buy a 2016 Range Rover Autobiography for her guardian.


#CaseClosed

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by korel9: 6:51pm On Jun 12, 2016
onadana:
you try ooooo.....always lucky with Muslim girls.....silly excuse.Why you never marry one since...using style to sample their puna.... Oloshi.

Bros u harsh o. You don't even know my story angry
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jun 12, 2016
vicky6855:
You are threading on broken bottles...this is a situation that calls for spiritual advise...

Better go to a pastor or elder in the church... Because even though I give you a great advise and it works out for you... That lady may one day hand you over to your enemies... (Just like Delilah did to Samson)...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
sometimes I just can't see some independent rationality in how some people think....no matter how much I try.

In my opinion spiritual father shld be the last option. M not married but have seen "prophesied marriage" break or becomes a disaster in itself. Much more important in marriage decision is the couples and grace n strength of God... Note directly from God!

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by nduchucks: 6:51pm On Jun 12, 2016
@OP, elope and marry her if both of you truly love each other.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by adaweezy(m): 6:52pm On Jun 12, 2016
korel9:
Straight to the point. I've not been lucky in relationships with Christian ladies but always found genuine and true love with muslim ladies. Now I'm in another relationship with this Muslim girl and I'm ready to marry her.
We both have no problem with our religion but the problem is her guardians (her dad is late and her mum, though a Christian married to a muslim man is out of reach). To top it all, she grew up with a Hausa woman who has a Kogi airforce man for a husband. As for my parents, it can be worked out.
There's always been this barrier of Christian men not being able to marry Muslim ladies but the other way round is possible.
Is it possible to break this barrier and make her my wife?

Marry her, my dad was a Christian and he married my mum who was a Muslim at that time.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by MyMouth(m): 6:53pm On Jun 12, 2016
Op, am in the same problem. Am a Muslim dating a Christian girl. We are both cool but na to marry be the issue now, as for me and her, no problem, but how to go about it in a society where there is mutual suspicion between the 2 religion is what is bothering us now.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by zainabxel(f): 6:55pm On Jun 12, 2016
hehehe
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by ripbubu: 6:56pm On Jun 12, 2016
korel9:
Straight to the point. I've not been lucky in relationships with Christian ladies but always found genuine and true love with muslim ladies. Now I'm in another relationship with this Muslim girl and I'm ready to marry her.
We both have no problem with our religion but the problem is her guardians (her dad is late and her mum, though a Christian married to a muslim man is out of reach). To top it all, she grew up with a Hausa woman who has a Kogi airforce man for a husband. As for my parents, it can be worked out.
There's always been this barrier of Christian men not being able to marry Muslim ladies but the other way round is possible.
Is it possible to break this barrier and make her my wife?

guy when they behead u ur eye wil clear .christain men do not lack ladies so park wel

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by 4everGrand(m): 6:58pm On Jun 12, 2016
Gaddafithe2nd:
In the Quran Muslim men are allowed to marry f00lish Christian women but Christian men are not allowed to marry our women. If her guardian doesn't allow you to marry please, look for a Christian lady.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Einl(m): 6:58pm On Jun 12, 2016
Chimaritoponcho:
give her BELLE thank me later

Hahahah! Man...you got no chill....
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Brainiacmrtolz(m): 6:58pm On Jun 12, 2016
Well since today is Sunday, my advice for you is to truely seek and depend on the voice of God on this issue.

If God says she is your wife then it's possible and no barrier can stand in your way.


Stay blessed
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Jamean(f): 6:59pm On Jun 12, 2016
Unequally yoked.

You are not even a Christian (Christ-like) in the actual sense of the word otherwise you won't even consider a muslim lady. If you genuinely seek God for a partner without an idol in your heart He will give you yours. Of course not a Muslim lady.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 7:00pm On Jun 12, 2016
[quote author=4everGrand post=46513608][/quote] Guy why adding foolish to what I posted.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Makapounse(m): 7:01pm On Jun 12, 2016
Jimadey:
Just let her go
and come for u abi?
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by RALPHOW(m): 7:04pm On Jun 12, 2016
1. Is she ready to convert to Christianity genuinely from her heart?
2. Is her parents or guardian ready to bless the marriage?
3 Did you pray and received YES from God.
If any of the three questions is No, my brother is no go area. But if all are YES, please go ahead.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by neocortex: 7:05pm On Jun 12, 2016
vicky6855:
You are threading on broken bottles...this is a situation that calls for spiritual advise...

Better go to a pastor or elder in the church... Because even though I give you a great advise and it works out for you... That lady may one day hand you over to your enemies... (Just like Delilah did to Samson)...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

This is the worst advice I have seen in recent times.
For how long will we continue to promote segregation and hatred ?

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by macino1(m): 7:05pm On Jun 12, 2016
Let me finish eating
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by korel9: 7:09pm On Jun 12, 2016
adaweezy:

Marry her, my dad was a Christian and he married my mum who was a Muslim at that time.

Are you serious? What tribe is that? I mean, is your mum Yoruba?
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by RALPHOW(m): 7:09pm On Jun 12, 2016
Jamean:
Unequally yoked.

You are not even a Christian (Christ-like) in the actual sense of the word otherwise you won't even consider a muslim lady. If you genuinely seek God for a partner without an idol in your heart He will give you yours. Of course not a Muslim lady.


I am a good Christian but Gods way is not always our taught, I ve seen a true man of God who married a Muslim today the woman is a Pastor and a strong evangelist. Though is not to be encouraged but if God says yes nobody can say no and such instance required thorough enquiry from God.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by chuose: 7:10pm On Jun 12, 2016
MakeWeTalk:
If you are a true Christian you will know that the bible say's do not be unequally yoked with the unbeliever

2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So you cannot marry an unbeliever.

But I suspect that this is just to insult Christians so, I'll tell you why muslim women should leave islam and follow Jesus.

In Islam Men are COMMANDED to beat their wives

Qur'an (38:44) -
"And take in your hand a green branch
AND BEAT HER WITH IT,"

Qur'an (4:34) -
" Men are the maintainers of women because
Allah has made some of them to
....... BEAT THEM;


Christian men are commanded to LOVE THEIR WIVES NOT BEAT


Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Colossians 3:19
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
and
BE NOT BITTER AGAINST THEM.




Allah couldn't save mohammed and his followers the muslims

Sura 46:9
"I am not something original among the messengers, NOR DO I KNOW WHAT WILL BE DONE WITH ME OR WITH YOU(MUSLIMS)


Jesus on the other hand went to heaven in everybody's view

Acts 1
9 And when he had spoken these things, while they beheld, he was taken up; and a cloud received him out of their sight.

10 And while they looked stedfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel;

11 Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven.


NOT ONLY THAT Jesus PROMISES SALVATION TO ALL WHO BELIEVE HIM

Mark
15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.

16[b] He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved[/b]; but he that believeth not shall be damned.

THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT IS THAT JESUS LIVES, MOHAMMED IS DEAD
FOR THE LIVING ONE THAT CAN SAVE

I agree this is another way to diss the church, but you did it justice

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by zicoraads: 7:12pm On Jun 12, 2016
candidbabe:
Hmmmm
I wonder the kind of churches some Christians claim to be attending. @op do you read your Bible?
The Bible says in 2 corinthians 6 vs14 do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever.
Don't you know the Muslims are unbelievers?
My dear, let's not even go there. Some are always eager to judge, just like you did, when they have never worn the shoes before. I bet there are some commandments you don't follow as well.

I have been in the OP's shoes and know where it hurts. It really hurts!

Forget religion, we really can't help who we fall in love with.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by chuose: 7:12pm On Jun 12, 2016
BUHARIISCURSED:
muslim and redeem are 5 & 6

Bros I think say na only me see am oh!

Adeboye don 419 many people.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by treachiz(m): 7:14pm On Jun 12, 2016
Rossikk:
OP I don't know what to tell you, but this problem highlights the GREAT FOOLISHNESS OF OUR PEOPLE. Look at this. Two AFRICANS, PERFECTLY IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER, cannot get married because both their parents follow two different FOREIGN, IMPORTED RELIGIONS.

IT IS A SHAME. LOOK AT HOW THE WHITE MAN HAS DIVIDED US!!!

If adopting their religions mean we no longer see the humanity in our own brothers, DITCH THEIR FUUKING RELIGIONS!
Bros sit down and listen.; Its nt jst d religion dat matters... Do u tink marriage is smetin u jst walk in? Bros wat sustains a marraige is d foundation upon which it is built. Different religion by partners is a faulty foundation nd I believe u knw dat. Ask urslf, which religion wil breed der kids? I rest my plight! !!

Sha 2 d OP; if u cnt convert her, bros dnt enter! !
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by bezimo(m): 7:17pm On Jun 12, 2016
Partisan:

Dude the summary of every thing is that you don't have much issue, the most important thing in marriage is TRUE love which i can see is present in your relationship other things comes second.

It takes more than true love to sustain a marriage. It takes much more.
If it was by true love we wont be hearing numerous cases of divorce between couples who married themselves because there were in love.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by bezimo(m): 7:21pm On Jun 12, 2016
MakeWeTalk:
If you are a true Christian you will know that the bible say's do not be unequally yoked with the unbeliever

2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

So you cannot marry an unbeliever.

But I suspect that this is just to insult Christians so, I'll tell you why muslim women should leave islam and follow Jesus.

In Islam Men are COMMANDED to beat their wives

Qur'an (38:44) -
"And take in your hand a green branch
AND BEAT HER WITH IT,"

Qur'an (4:34) -
" Men are the maintainers of women because
Allah has made some of them to
....... BEAT THEM;


Christian men are commanded to LOVE THEIR WIVES NOT BEAT


Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Colossians 3:19
Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES,
and
BE NOT BITTER AGAINST THEM.




Allah couldn't save mohammed and his followers the muslims

Sura 46:9
"I am not something original among the messengers, NOR DO I KNOW WHAT WILL BE DONE WITH ME OR WITH YOU(MUSLIMS)


Jesus on the other hand went to heaven in everybody's view

Acts 1
9 And when he had spoken these things, while they beheld, he was taken up; and a cloud received him out of their sight.

10 And while they looked stedfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel;

11 Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven.


NOT ONLY THAT Jesus PROMISES SALVATION TO ALL WHO BELIEVE HIM

Mark
15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.

16[b] He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved[/b]; but he that believeth not shall be damned.

THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT IS THAT JESUS LIVES, MOHAMMED IS DEAD
FOR THE LIVING ONE THAT CAN SAVE


Thanks for exposing this truth.

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Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Chimaritoponcho: 7:22pm On Jun 12, 2016
Einl:


Hahahah! Man...you got no chill....
lol..just kidding sha
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by victorazy(m): 7:23pm On Jun 12, 2016
korel9:
Straight to the point. I've not been lucky in relationships with Christian ladies but always found genuine and true love with muslim ladies. Now I'm in another relationship with this Muslim girl and I'm ready to marry her.
We both have no problem with our religion but the problem is her guardians (her dad is late and her mum, though a Christian married to a muslim man is out of reach). To top it all, she grew up with a Hausa woman who has a Kogi airforce man for a husband. As for my parents, it can be worked out.
There's always been this barrier of Christian men not being able to marry Muslim ladies but the other way round is possible.
Is it possible to break this barrier and make her my wife?


I don't have word to tell you.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Partisan: 7:25pm On Jun 12, 2016
bezimo:


It takes more than true love to sustain a marriage. It takes much more.
If it was by true love we wont be hearing numerous cases of divorce between couples who married themselves because there were in love.

Example if its not true love, true love is not sex i mean true conditional love. very rare.
Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by saintchibu(m): 7:25pm On Jun 12, 2016
korel9:
Straight to the point. I've not been lucky in relationships with Christian ladies but always found genuine and true love with muslim ladies. Now I'm in another relationship with this Muslim girl and I'm ready to marry her.
We both have no problem with our religion but the problem is her guardians (her dad is late and her mum, though a Christian married to a muslim man is out of reach). To top it all, she grew up with a Hausa woman who has a Kogi airforce man for a husband. As for my parents, it can be worked out.
There's always been this barrier of Christian men not being able to marry Muslim ladies but the other way round is possible.
Is it possible to break this barrier and make her my wife?

Have you prayed about it? As a Xtian, prayer should be the starting point. Pray and tell God to direct your footsteps and take control.
I had a similar experience. I'm married for 20 months now to a Jehovah Witness lady and if U know how hard it is to convince a Jehovah Witness girl or boy to marry outside their congregation, U will understand the role of God here. It got to a point that I decided to give up but deep down I cannot and when I finally said to hell with her, she said yes.
What of her parents U may ask, her dad is late and her mum told her the decision is her own to make.
My own parents that I thought will raise objections accepted her without much questions.
So go down to your knee and seek God's direction.

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