Allisonrichy:

Believe me dear ladies have the mind of a stoner
They bear pains than the men
They are ready to die with their pains rather than sharing it with anyone
But the men can't cope with heartbreaks
Believe me

We are your supporters, your pillars , imagine what happens if we break


I guess that's why God gave us a heart of a stone

Vickyydera:
I keep reading threads about women being heartless, nefarious and above all wicked. The truth of the whole matter is that you guys meet the wrong women and when the break your heart, you come here to cry wolf. Most times, men are the cause of these failed relationships.
My advice for you guys with broken heart is for you to quit being in the doldrums, pick your shattered pieces up, put them together and move on with life, take it as one of those things. Life is full of ups and downs, you try and try again. See whatever happened to you as a phase you will face till you meet the right one that will sweep you off your feet for good. Don't give up on love .

Well said except for the "sweep you off your feet" part.

safarigirl:
Lol....dude, I wasn't circumcised. Female circumcusion is not practiced where i'm from and even if it was, my family is a highly educated one.

My grandmother was a school principal and the first female graduate in Eastern Nigeria, daughter of Alvan Ikoku, so we're all pretty enlightened folks.

The only defect I have is a stunted toe and that's from being born premature.

I know what it is to be sexually excited, I just don't feel that way with anyone is all, same way I don't particularly feel sympathy when a person dies. It's not a physical defect, it's a mental one.

My head is simply, not correct

Hmmm again. What's wrong with you? Are you avoiding me or what?

Diddyydiva:
And you will be a hypocrite and a big disgrace to mankind if you collect dowry for your daughter or even issue an engagement list .


Afterall she will be a sex object too

Right on because this guy is Damn retarded.

ebonyeyes88:
Right on because this guy is Damn retarded.

Don't mind him . He's just being a bitter cry baby

Women bare children. Some men can't stand a small cold how much more a break up with a woman. Smh...
It's your choice and you know exactly what you got yourself into when you dated her. You're the dummy, not every woman that played you. When you come on NL needing sympathy and greiving on as if someone died...funny
Sucker for love...

Diddyydiva:
Don't mind him . He's just being a bitter cry baby

ikr thx... I just don't understand why generalized all women he never been with. Oh well that's his issue..

One word for you :motivational speaker

PaulKillerman:
Fork them and trash them, that us their only use... Any nigga taking bitches serious is a big fool and deserves anything he gets...

Women are just sex objects... They understand and know it... They have no other use...

Look at this one so all the females in your family (and the ones to come) are sex objects abi? Please think very carefully before you type next time.

Diddyydiva:
Seems like we have lots of cry babies instead of men these days.

ladies get hurt too but we cry our hearts out in our closets, wipe our eyes and move on but what do our men do ?

They tell anything that has ears just to get pity and support ,


They are just babies anyways and we have to clean them up all the time. So don't stress yourself op, let them wail we've got the hanky to wipe their running nose

Gbam!!!! They have been emasculated, lol. Crying and losing their minds, creating a pity party because some girl used their brainless heads. Bwahahahahahahaha!

Freaking cry babies! Y'all should just let it go and move on jare!

safarigirl:
hello.....I'm a female who isn't interested in getting married because men prefer whoring, gold digging opportunists to those who won't try to swindle them for all they're worth.

Totally given up on the idea of marriage since i'm apparently too skinny, ugly and opinionated for most guys. So, i'm highly interested in adoption or using a sp3rm bank.

I can't blame men for the way they see women because it's other women that caused this thought process. What I blame men for though, is their inability to see good girls because they're blinded by the bad ones who happen to have attractive wrappers.

I am utterly disgusted with that behaviour you stated of young girls becoming prostitutes in school, I see it in the girls hostel, but wetin man go do? You can only talk so many times before someone begins to insult you or remind you that "men don't even like you".

Anyway, nice to meet someone else who has given up on the idea of marriage because of the things he's seen

Hello dear,

The problem with both genders is that they always evaluate issues about abnormal characters without going through it tentatively. Another problem I can fathom from the first paragraph is the generations of men as what you classified them above.Which is not fair to those that are keeping the norms and etiquette intact.


I empathize with you,but not all men seeks for big nyash,boobs, etc some just want a woman that won't give him any problem at the long run. Moreover you are very intelligent which is a magnanimous plus,I do read most of your thread so I am not just blabbing. The opinion of using sperm bank for now should be put on check"what if your children ask you of daddy nko? lolzz

Me too once gave up on the institution of marriage just like killjoy,Paul and some other nairalanders but since we humans are dynamic ,my ideology changed inherently.

All is well.

Vickyydera:
I know the feeling too, at a point in my life, I almost gave up on love as a result of heart breaks but I didn't let it break my spirit or make me hate men and make bad generalization, I still continued my life, then one day I finally met the right guy, now am happy in love . That's what trying to tell these folks.

Series of heart breaks from men Hmmmm, Rich men I guess.

Well,its cool to know you have seen the right man and you are dating him for the right reasons.Enjoy your man, I pray you embittered fellows on nairaland find their respective men also.

Fine girl looking kinkin

safarigirl:
never. If I did, it would make my situation so much easier to understand.

But I never went through any form of trauma, abuse or it's relations, i'm just not an intimate person

Not just an intimate person wow!!! like seriously?

I wished we go swap.

safarigirl:
nobody to open up to. Like I said, guys don't like me 'like that'....i'm just cool with them

I LIKE YOU...you got good working brains.

PaulKillerman:
Fork them and trash them, that us their only use... Any nigga taking bitches serious is a big fool and deserves anything he gets...

Women are just sex objects... They understand and know it... They have no other use...

and na this same woman born you, and you call her Mother or whatever. Some people just come here and start learning how to read and write, you would have made more sense if you had written nothing.

Nice one Op even though sometimes, the guys are the reason they get treated like thrash too.

Cutehector:
well i'v been fine... just helpin myself with some popcorn..




I'v been tryn to help my sis with a research term paper assignment, through out the evening.. i'm happy i'v got some good literature on that. Just tryna summarize on that and send to her. Her laptop doesn't hav microsoft office dats why she was unable to do it herself

Emodeee:



Hmmm again. What's wrong with you? Are you avoiding me or what?

there was no appropriate reply to givwbyoue initial "Hmm", so I couldn't reply you.

Why would I be avoiding you?

Vickyydera:
Who cares if you want to marry or not? that's how you guys come online on NL shouting you won't marry then later go and marry . No be today we dey hear that one. So I don't take anything people say online serious.

What an irony... I trust you also don't expect your readers to take your treatise seriously huh?

Your Volta face and inconsistencies makes your beautiful piece ineffectual.... Quit replying every mention as it exposes your vulnerabilities.... A good piece you have up there... Keep it up!

jenigurl:

I guess u had a good nyt's rest

Cutehector:
Shatap dia! Leme see any of u bomboclarks calling men heart breakers.. iranu

oga Hector why the anger?

teddieee:
oga Hector why the anger?

she was saying only men are heartbreakers

safarigirl:
Lol....dude, I wasn't circumcised. Female circumcusion is not practiced where i'm from and even if it was, my family is a highly educated one.

My grandmother was a school principal and the first female graduate in Eastern Nigeria, daughter of Alvan Ikoku, so we're all pretty enlightened folks.

The only defect I have is a stunted toe and that's from being born premature.

I know what it is to be sexually excited, I just don't feel that way with anyone is all, same way I don't particularly feel sympathy when a person dies. It's not a physical defect, it's a mental one.

My head is simply, not correct

when you fall in love or meet the guy you are sexually attracted to, you will feel like doing it.

Abeg who be dis mumu?

Vickyydera:
I keep reading threads about women being heartless, nefarious and above all wicked. The truth of the whole matter is that you guys meet the wrong women and when the break your heart, you come here to cry wolf. Most times, men are the cause of these failed relationships.
My advice for you guys with broken heart is for you to quit being in the doldrums, pick your shattered pieces up, put them together and move on with life, take it as one of those things. Life is full of ups and downs, you try and try again. See whatever happened to you as a phase you will face till you meet the right one that will sweep you off your feet for good. Don't give up on love .

virginboy1:


Series of heart breaks from men Hmmmm, Rich men I guess.

Well,its cool to know you have seen the right man and you are dating him for the right reasons.Enjoy your man, I pray you embittered fellows on nairaland find their respective men also.

Fine girl looking kinkin

did you see any " Rich men broke my heart in my post"?or you just decided to add it.

Maxvasia:
Abeg who be dis mumu?

Why do you like referring to yourself indirectly?

eni4real:
Well said except for the "sweep you off your feet" part.

but you know it has different meaning for each context.

safarigirl:
there was no appropriate reply to givwbyoue initial "Hmm", so I couldn't reply you.

Why would I be avoiding you?

i don't even know. i thought you were avoiding me.


So why don't you change ya dp like other ladies do? I know you are intellectually a sage bt i wanna see you like for real. Upload a lucid picture not this kind of picture that i can't even see you in real life and recognise you.


I wanna see safarigirl girl with or without make up. I'm not even sure if you've ever used make up. Your personality here portrays that of a tomboy. Let me see your cute picture.

PaulKillerman:
Fork them and trash them, that us their only use... Any nigga taking bitches serious is a big fool and deserves anything he gets...

Women are just sex objects... They understand and know it... They have no other use...

Ermmm, sorry Bros but do you have sisters and a mother?

Emodeee:




i don't even know. i thought you were avoiding me.


So why don't you change ya dp like other ladies do? I know you are intellectually a sage bt i wanna see you like for real. Upload a lucid picture not this kind of picture that i can't even see you in real life and recognise you.


I wanna see safarigirl girl with or without make up. I'm not even sure if you've ever used make up. Your personality here portrays that of a tomboy. Let me see your cute picture.

i'm not photogenic, but I do upload my pictures here often

Be it a matter of generalization or not, truth is there are certain attributes peculiar to sexes. Though not all exhibit such, but given the right circumstance and reason they will resort to their default coding.
Women are naturally manipulative and pretentious, at least a woman whom I value her opinions made this very clear to me at a young age. Men are also very opportunistic, hard to please and mostly unfaithful.
The few exceptions are those who either make the decision themselves to be exceptional or were raised in an environment that promotes the right morals. We humans are like chameleons, we adapt to the color at hand.
The situation has become so bad that everyone is trying to play the other. It's a world of kill or be killed, importance has been placed on trivial things that holds no long term benefit.
It will only get worse, only a decade ago being a babymama was considered a shame but right now it's being practiced all over. People now openly declare themselves gay and we celebrate them.
Some might say I am homophobic, well you might not be far from the truth. It's the world we live in now, you just gotta tolerate the misguided folks. Few nights ago,on my way to get take out dinner I saw a fellow and at first glance you'd conclude that it was a woman but on a closer look it's just a man who has decided to alter his looks all in a bid to get someone to invade his butt hole.
I could go on and on but I'd conclude by saying nothing happens by chance. Whatever may happen, we always have a choice. A choice to follow the trend or be an exception.

Note: These are my opinions, you can have yours. Don't quote me to spew bile.
Thanks

safarigirl:
i'm not photogenic, but I do upload my pictures here often

i'm saying you should upload a nicer picture. M here waiting though.