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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Laveda(f): 11:33pm On Jun 17, 2016
Toks2008:
Ladies I need your honest and unbiased opinion regarding these three case scenario and i really want you to be very down to earth concerning these.

1.If you have a guy you desire but this guy approached your friend for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?



2.A guy you have a strong desire for has a friend who approached you for an affair and you declined then the main guy latter approaches you for an affair,would you give him a chance after you have turned down his friend?



3.If you see a guy you really desire but this guy approached your blood sister for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?


The reason I'm asking this question is because I'm totally at sea with the way many ladies reason.

A guy approached you and you turn him down then he woos your friend and you call him a womanizer...

Abeg if I price market for your hand and you no gree, and I buy the market for another place please wettin be my offence?

Please be factual about this.

I can only say YES to no.2

Cause the first scenario, the guy knew me but rather choose to go for my friend, so why should I accept him when he was turned down? Nope..

No.3 is a No No...

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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by olumalcolm(m): 11:34pm On Jun 17, 2016
Ladies una wahala too much

Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by masseratti: 11:41pm On Jun 17, 2016
vizkiz:
Well since the thread is channeled towards the ladies, No comment...but according to the "guy code"

You shouldn't woo a girl and her friends/sisters/cousins etc...once you woo a girl and she declined, move out of her world to woo someone else. I have seen issues similar to what op typed and they didn't all end well

abeg, who gave you that code? Where did you read it from.... lol Just joking, only a guy with low self-esteem will go around asking everyone out in the same circle, if you ve got game, they will come for you.

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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by sbabimbola(f): 11:41pm On Jun 17, 2016
Toks2008:
[b].

A guy approached you and you turn him down then he woos your friend and you call him a womanizer...

Abeg if I price market for your hand and you no gree, and I buy the market for another place please wettin be my offence?

Please be factual about this.

The problem is the way you go about declaring undying love one minute and not willing to wait....
LOVE IS PATIENT. bros......
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by macaranta(m): 11:44pm On Jun 17, 2016
Serious jamb Question
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Marceljose: 11:46pm On Jun 17, 2016
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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by macaranta(m): 11:46pm On Jun 17, 2016
sbabimbola:


The problem is the way you go about declaring undying love one minute and not willing to wait....
LOVE IS PATIENT. bros......


Wait for ages Abi..life is too short for unnecessary waits.
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by micxwell(m): 11:55pm On Jun 17, 2016
Kgdavid:


Madam, every choice was once an option.

and until he marries you, option is all you remain. You haff neva become "choice" yet
Nicely said bro
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jun 17, 2016
mzhorlah:
come back here my friend cheesy
See them see them
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by henry11007(m): 12:07am On Jun 18, 2016
shocked
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by kuchikau: 12:07am On Jun 18, 2016
mzhorlah:
still No ...and whatz harsh about it undecided
...
Metchwwwwwwww. Miss world!
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by mikolo80: 12:09am On Jun 18, 2016
Toks2008:
Ladies I need your honest and unbiased opinion regarding these three case scenario and i really want you to be very down to earth concerning these.

1.If you have a guy you desire but this guy approached your friend for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?



2.A guy you have a strong desire for has a friend who approached you for an affair and you declined then the main guy latter approaches you for an affair,would you give him a chance after you have turned down his friend?



3.If you see a guy you really desire but this guy approached your blood sister for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?


The reason I'm asking this question is because I'm totally at sea with the way many ladies reason.

A guy approached you and you turn him down then he woos your friend and you call him a womanizer...

Abeg if I price market for your hand and you no gree, and I buy the market for another place please wettin be my offence?

Please be factual about this.
no mind them abi na manizer pesin for be?
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by kuchikau: 12:13am On Jun 18, 2016
Nina4u:
No no and no
...

Miss World!



I blame men.

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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by kuchikau: 12:17am On Jun 18, 2016
Rukkydelta:
NO to the three cases
...

Y
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by hamdex2011(m): 12:39am On Jun 18, 2016
If u apply for USA visa and they reject u,woudnt u apply for UK?...
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by cruzyteejay(m): 12:54am On Jun 18, 2016
Am currently in such a situation.............I knew the girl from a friend of mine,I didn't ask her out immediately,I had to roll with her as normal paddy for 2months before I asked her out,but she declined,and for all these while,I never talked with her friend.....so I switched over to her friend which made her angry,that was after like another two months...............but what I don't get is "why is she angry with what I did?"
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by badonkadonk: 3:04am On Jun 18, 2016
dollyjoy:
I refused to be an option but a choice.


The two are similar.. Cos really, been an option is a choice in itself...
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Nobody: 3:22am On Jun 18, 2016
Not too many girls will vote no if the guy's rich
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by petkoffdrake2(m): 3:22am On Jun 18, 2016
Painful







Meanwhile, check my signature...








If ur interested. Matured minds pls, esp. Married people. Nairaland let's do this...
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by bluecircle470: 4:13am On Jun 18, 2016
flexyfit:
yes for both question....cos I desire him...n since he has not done anything with my friends yet...

Anything lyk wot? Pls expatiate.
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Nobody: 4:28am On Jun 18, 2016
Cherlene:

Greetings
Case 1---> NO
Case 2---> YES
Case 3---> NO

- Vote IVYY as miss NAIRALAND 2016 http://Nairaland.com/ivyy

Cherlene
perfect answer

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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Antina(f): 5:25am On Jun 18, 2016
Toks2008:
Ladies I need your honest and unbiased opinion regarding these three case scenario and i really want you to be very down to earth concerning these.

1.If you have a guy you desire but this guy approached your friend for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?



2.A guy you have a strong desire for has a friend who approached you for an affair and you declined then the main guy latter approaches you for an affair,would you give him a chance after you have turned down his friend?



3.If you see a guy you really desire but this guy approached your blood sister for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?


The reason I'm asking this question is because I'm totally at sea with the way many ladies reason.

A guy approached you and you turn him down then he woos your friend and you call him a womanizer...

Abeg if I price market for your hand and you no gree, and I buy the market for another place please wettin be my offence?

Please be factual about this.

*No to number 1, cos coming back to me is like am his plan B, and I dont like being an option.

*Yes to number 2

* No to number 3

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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by DaRealMoh(m): 5:32am On Jun 18, 2016
Gud sense of reasoning... Cuz any Of them will make you offend someone... Or even fight sef
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Sike(m): 5:52am On Jun 18, 2016
Questions for the ladies
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Chickychic(f): 6:10am On Jun 18, 2016
donbenedict:
babe u harsh oooo.. what if the first guy ddnt knw u were into him? Like he toasted the babes long befor u started havn feelings for him
E no mean ma dear. Its clearly shows he does not knw wat he wants. Must d next person he wants b her friend or sister?


No make me talk too much dis early morning
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Chickychic(f): 6:12am On Jun 18, 2016
hamdex2011:
If u apply for USA visa and they reject u,woudnt u apply for UK?...
Its term nd condition will not b d same nd u may end up not going to UK nd kip trying USA.
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Chickychic(f): 6:18am On Jun 18, 2016
KnightX:

Of course, they'd adorn the cloak of sanctimony when replying the afore-posted questions. In reality, we all know ladies would reply "yes" to them.

These women even seduce their friend's love interest. Now imagine the dude making the move... It's a sealed deal.

Only men adhere to the relationship codes - we term them "guy codes". Women are only loyal to the voices in their heads and their hormonal surges.

Oga u lie.
Not all gals listens to deir head nd....
Also not all guys obeys d guy code tin.
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by feckylicious: 6:23am On Jun 18, 2016
AreaFada2:
If the guy is seriously loaded or famous, it is yes all round for 99.9% of ladies. grin grin
true talk
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Nobody: 6:23am On Jun 18, 2016
micxwell:

I like the way u answer questions.... cheesy

Lol. Thanks.

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Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by oshiokpu(m): 6:31am On Jun 18, 2016
Weird scenarios...btw check ma signature.
Re: Ladies:When a guy you turn down goes for your friend. by Moses247(m): 6:32am On Jun 18, 2016
Some Wayo gals be Saying No Here on Nairaland...LoL But for real Life na yessssss without a second thought...lol

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