olumalcolm:
Ladies una wahala too much

sbabimbola:


The problem is the way you go about declaring undying love one minute and not willing to wait....
LOVE IS PATIENT. bros......

vizkiz:
Well since the thread is channeled towards the ladies, No comment...but according to the "guy code"

You shouldn't woo a girl and her friends/sisters/cousins etc...once you woo a girl and she declined, move out of her world to woo someone else. I have seen issues similar to what op typed and they didn't all end well

SANDOSKI:
1. Yes

2. Yes

3. Pending




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dollyjoy:
I refused to be an option but a choice.

Toks2008:
Ladies I need your honest and unbiased opinion regarding these three case scenario and i really want you to be very down to earth concerning these.

1.If you have a guy you desire but this guy approached your friend for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?


2.A guy you have a strong desire for has a friend who approached you for an affair and you declined then the main guy latter approaches you for an affair,would you give him a chance after you have turned down his friend?


3.If you see a guy you really desire but this guy approached your blood sister for an affair but she turned him down and he latter approaches you..would you give him a chance?

The reason I'm asking this question is because I'm totally at sea with the way many ladies reason.

A guy approached you and you turn him down then he woos your friend and you call him a womanizer...

Abeg if I price market for your hand and you no gree, and I buy the market for another place please wettin be my offence?

Please be factual about this.

esosa993:






mr toks I like this questions now lemme answer them



1 my number is no because for him to ask my friend especially when he's aware we are friends shows its my friend he really wanted why squeeze myself in s mess and cause drama, like dollyjoy said I refuse to be an option , haba its like you are a back up plan for him.....don't be surprised if such a guy re-woos your friend after you've said yes to him. that's like bringing trouble to your self.



2. this one I am in doubt ooo, if I like the guy I'll try to be his friend first to be really sure, what if its a planned work between the two friends, but if I get to know he likes me abeg wetin concern me, na yes danu danu, if his friend likes let him hug transformer.


3.
this one is a complete no haba, she's my sister now, this type of ish ehn, shows he's the type of guy that would date u and still shag your sister behind you..... abeg girls don't try this, such a guy is trying to start a bad blood between sisters ni shikena



hope my replies makes sense to you sir..

stlaibrowne:


I like this your honest opinion.
Which part of uyo are you

mzhorlah:
No fr the three questions

Toks2008:


It does theorictically.

dollyjoy:
I refused to be an option but a choice.

Gheritage:
I love you because ur personality is ur priority

Bornita:
it's a No No. i'm nobody's second option, you either choose me first or dnt bother coming to me.

dollyjoy:
I refused to be an option but a choice.

saaedlee:
Hypocrisy is when a girl ANSWERS NO to question 1, but ANSWERS yes to question 2.

Most girls will definitely give a No to question 3.

eLcastro:
mami.,have jus gat this simple question 4 u....i respect the fact that you don't like been 2nd option..tell me now wah will apen to all the guyz that made u their 1st choice buh u said no to.? Should dey go gay or somethin....

Bornita:
it's a No No. i'm nobody's second option, you either choose me first or dnt bother coming to me.

Oliviaarims:
"YES" could be a possibility for number 1...but that's in an instance where I'm really so much into this dude and he proves to me beyond reasonable doubt that he isn't just sampling or trying his luck.

NO for 2 and 3. Don't care about anything else.

3 friends asking me out at about the same time? Nahh, it means something is most likely fishy!

And for the sister part. There's no consideration.

VenusBetty:
perfect answer

Omolola1:
Scenario 1 - NO (I refuse to be a second option)
Scenario 2 - NO (something fishy is going on)
Scenario 3 - NO (why woo 2 sisters? That's just crappy, and I don't do crappy guys...probably obsessed with my family

dollyjoy:
I refused to be an option but a choice.