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adwaani:
my good sir,you have an overdose of intelligence.I am currently in a similar delima.The girl in question is an international student in my school and my junior coursemate.i took it upon myself to help her with the course also offering advice and past lecture materials to her.We became good friends but now she has started giving me the green light.always asking who I am dating, visiting always, buying me stuffs.I know she has a boyfriend in her country as I went through her phone once.She recently changed her number on whatsapp just to try and bait me into admitting I loved her by questioning me as a neutral party about who I want to date,and if I love her back.She is good looking,but she is a good gal and I am not a loyal guy and don't want to cheat or break from heart of someone so good....please your immense wisdom is what I seek

MrFinbarr:
Thanks for the compliment bro.

One thing I always tell my fellow guys, being loyal is a choice, decision. Sometimes, we guys sound like we are programmed that way. You should therefore examine yourself first and be sure if you can be loyal to her, you described her as a good girl. Since you are already close friends, I believe it can be really easy to sort this out. When next you talk about relationship issues, stylishly tell her how impossible it might be for you to be loyal to one girl. This will actually either make her readjust her stance or even become get more determined to get closer and a better guy out of you.

Bottom line: Don't date her if you can't be loyal to her. Good girls are really few in the world of today. Appreciate her when you get one.

adwaani:
makes a lot of sense...would do just that boss