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foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

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foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

take it easy n be fight na

Those that introduced fitting rooms in boutiques cant be foolish

Men are sexual creatures. Note: if ur guy is not having sex with u then he's most definitely getting it elsewhere

I personally do not support abstinence btween couples cos I see it as pointless. It doesnt stop u guys from breaking up, infact on the contrary it opens the door for cheating. It is important to be as close to ur partner as possible before marriage, know him or her in and out. No need to be forming holier than thou, sex is designed to be enjoyed responsibly between people who love themselves

foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

clearly, you are judging.

foolinlove:
Agreed. But de guy will just get it from everyone else anyway.

If women werent offering we wouldnt be getting none init.
With all the loose dresses and skimpy clothes women wear this days even a virgin will jerk codedly.

foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

Hahahahaha u again....u still dey vex for us,oya no vex,we r sorry

amiibaby:
Nice write up....team no sex till I say I DO

do you take me as your lawfully wedded husband? Just say i do

[[s]quote author=nsiazu post=46812400] Best post of the year. Absteinance is key because ones a person have unmaritalsex then I can bet you a demon enters that person whether Christian or not but at the end it always takes favent prayers to be able to cast that demon out. The spirits are called "Great Jezebel" and is clearly stated in the bible Revelation 2:20 (KJV) Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.
Stay away from sex till you are married.
Cc: Lalasticlala[/quote][/s]





Mtscheeeew! Hahahahaha. What nonsense. Demon ke Between people in love kwa? The way we take religion is naija is something else. This is not christianity but mere superstition. Sex was designed by God, so how does demon want to enter u biko

Pandorabox:
The benefits of abstinence can never be overemphasized.

Yeah right. I would seriously advice you to have plenty of it before marriage. But do it responsibly and safely. Nothing worse than not knowing who you are sexually and what you want from your spouse, and be stuck with a partner who doesn't share your sexual vibe. It can wreck your marriage.

what you wrote is the fact. but in our society, both singles and married love Bleep adventures more than food and can pay past d price of tomato to satisfy their libido. chastity is like common sense, it's free and good to mental health but people don't use it.

Thanks for the post. Abstinence has been a great help to me.... looking forward to my wedding night....... cant wait to enjoy what my parent has been enjoying....

It takes only the grace of God. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

6,8,10,11 OP, You Are On Point.

foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

Like your vagina has been stretched beyond its elastic limit, as its of no value, hence the vituperations.

foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

av been following ur post nd I discover ur hatred for we men...its really bad...let no man pull you low enough for you to hate him... nt only you have awful experience with man nd it doesn't mean u will never meet a good man

BoiledPlantain:
In this days of sexual waywardness & promiscuity there are alot of benefits that one should note,of no sex before marriage; and I'll like to point out some to save some few.

1.Hiv
Well today we have more people living with HIV than we had in the time past due to information/vaccines. Abstinence will prevent you from communing such diseases/virus as this.Cuz in the case of marriage, tests are carried out before consummation but casual relationships are based on beliefs and one could have lied about their status.

2.Break Ups
It is easier to walk out of a relationship with no sexual interaction,than one which has;and that's very true, especially for the ladies .
My cousin once lost the guy she was supposed to marry,she cried for many nights but she moved on more quickly since there was nothing physical between them.So for the sake of a safe heart you might want to abstain.

3.Sampling
This one is more for the guys,once a guy starts having sex before marriage there's tendency he might want to test all waters before marriage,leading him to a dip abyss.My friend lost his virginity to his girlfriend last year,to cut the long story he's turned to something else since then.

4.Less Cases
You hear cases of rape and sexual abuses every day.If only these people where practising abstinence,there would have certainly been a reduction of such cases.

5.Marriage complications/Divorce
The truth is those who held it till marriage are more likely to have less complicated marriage as opposed to their fellow contemporaries.
When there's abstinence there's trust because you believe if she isn't giving in to you;she certainly isn't giving it to someone else. Although a cheat is a cheat whether they are giving it to you or not; but genuine abstaining partners build much trust on fidelity with their spouse.

When one abstains before marriage he/she as no room to compare their partners sexual prowess with their ex's there by reducing sexual tension."No man wants you to compare him with you ex no matter what" hence this does alot of salvaging since you have no one to compare him to.

6.Draws you closer to God
Take it or leave it those who abstain are more likely to get closer to God. It doesn't make them better than you,but certainly helps them in their walk; Since they are hardly thinking about sex unlike you.

7.You save Money
Sounds silly right,but morning after pills and sexual preventives don't come in cheap especially flavoured condoms.

8.True Love
It is very easy to find your true love when there's no sexual relationship. Most times when sex is introduced in premarital relationships it clouds your judgement to be able to see things " the way they are" most especially for the ladies.

9.Prevents death
Most ladies die while trying to do an abortion,but abstinence will prevent such; also alot of innocent babies that are killed and dumped into the bin,would have been saved.

10.Helps you focus

11.Make's you respectful


You can add yours


(C)Boiled Plantain 2016

So true.... I and my fiancé are both virgins, we don't really have a lot of money par say but our relationship is such a stand out dat pple use use us a example of wat a relationship should be...... #TEAMabstinence ......And yes one oda benefit is that u practically can walk into an government hospital any day any time and do an HIV test without any fear or doubt....lol

foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

To knock ur head just dey sweet me Where did you get that from? Oh I reckon ur ex don show u shagee

Hmmm what If after (Abstinence)) from sex u later realized dat. Her p*ss* has been drilled like Bore hole?

Demol09:
Who abstainance don epp. Abeg swerve jhor.

It's prevent us from unwanted pregnancy,std,hiv and so on

blackpanda:
[[s]quote author=nsiazu post=46812400] Best post of the year. Absteinance is key because ones a person have unmaritalsex then I can bet you a demon enters that person whether Christian or not but at the end it always takes favent prayers to be able to cast that demon out. The spirits are called "Great Jezebel" and is clearly stated in the bible Revelation 2:20 (KJV) Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.
Stay away from sex till you are married.
Cc: Lalasticlala[/s]





Mtscheeeew! Hahahahaha. What nonsense. Demon ke Between people in love kwa? The way we take religion is naija is something else. This is not christianity but mere superstition. Sex was designed by God, so how does demon want to enter u biko

When you have sex with someone that you aren't married to means you are inviting the devil to your life and before you know it
1. for the girls pregnancy
2. for the guys they began go down in life
3. Addiction
4. You will be controlled by a demon.

Total crap! The only disadvantage in having sex before marriage is fucking and failing to marry in the end. Fucking before marriage should be encouraged so that partners should have full knowledge of whom they want to spend the rest of their life with.

You better start fucking now and know the size of her ponmo and dick.

ajalawole:
;Dme and my girlfriend just break up last week, when she says no sex untill our wedding. The worst part is that she is not a virgin

Abi ohh..If you know you dont wanna fuccckkkk,dont date me at all..You cant eat your cake and have it..Period

Story for the gods!

Arsenate:
young ladies like you always make the wrong the decisions when it comes to dating because of your poor choices. I can bet my Arsenal Jersey that genuinely nice guys with good intentions have come your way but only to get snubbed by you. They probably don't have enough swags, looks, height and all the other BS.
You made the poor choices yourself. No one put a gun to your head. Live with the consequences and stop disturbing the peace of the Cyber world.

Thats true.
Most ladies that want a good guy hardly give a good guy an opportunity in their lives. Why so?
Because good guys are mostly "perceived" boring by these ladies as they will not bring the packages of heightening their reproductive hormones unnecessarily during courtship. When you're used to a promiscuous relationship, you're almost certain never to take on a good guy unless you turn a new leaf.
Its obvious she's a "bad" girl who dream of getting a "good" guy.

clevvermind:
why would you want to buy a car without testing it?

Was expecting this kind yeye analogy from the waywards .. .

foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

can we talk privately? I just wanna talk nothing else. this is my bbm pin in case u are ready to talk. 7B53F550.just a talk that's all. thanks

1bkaye:
Some valid points, abstaining as well as not abstaining before marriage will both have their benefits, do whatever you're most comfortable with to be honest

Abstaining trumps any day, any time. Just because one ain't doing it does not make a truth lie dear.
I encourage all ladies and men to abstain from sex before marriage. Its more than just a choice, its a Blessing to all dear.

nsiazu:
When you have sex with someone that you aren't married to means you are inviting the devil to your life and before you know it
1. for the girls pregnancy
2. for the guys they began go down in life
3. Addiction
4. You will be controlled by a demon.

I know a good number of people that banged their way to great fortune, riches and prosperity

There is no demon anywia. Wake up!

foolinlove:
Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

can we talk privately? I just wanna talk nothing else. this is my bbm pin in case u are ready to talk. 7B53F550.just a talk that's all. thanks

Mak i hear say i no test. If u wan buy gari u no go test weda E sweet or soar? I mst check d milage too feel hw far E don run, also check d interior weda E stil tight. She mst moan if nt is a quit.