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Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

bro tell ur dad

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

get out Jor

after the man is out there working is ads off to make and put food on the family'table... who else should be going out fucking up and down.. then I guess you can do same.. shame on u

efemena24:
are you f*ckin' serious?? I'd rather be a single person (parent) than to be with a cheating partner

Totally agree ooo...HIV isn't smiling dis period...( make I no go DE suffer for sin way I no commit

Oga, dem don pick your call but you just slack like jjc. Something wey u for snap some pics, then use am dey collect salary every month.

yankison:
get out Jor

after the man is out there working is ads off to make and put food on the family'table... who else should be going out fucking up and down.. then I guess you can do same.. shame on u

Y are u so angry at d truth....e can pain

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

You see that bold letters, FEAR ooo. or else u wan die. That is the normal thing there. Pretend as if that day never exist.

MsGlobalwonder:
angry?

At the post or the poster...?

Report ASAP!!!!! if he believes you or not is then his own biz.

teekay213:
to marry dey fear me.i have two neighbours,married women that fvck outside.and the most shocking thing is their husbands knows.crazy world.

What sort of husbands are they . Or is it that the women feed them ?

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

It's good that your father knows. He'll be mature enough to handle it. It's good that someone elderly knows about it. In case something happens, he will remember what he was told.

adanny01:
About 20yrs ago, my uncle, who's family lived like 4km from my family but works 400km from home. He comes for weekends at the time.

Something official brought him home unexpectedly. His wife didnt sleep at home that night leaving 4 female children on their own for the night with no explanation where she went. She drove home 5am in the morning to see her husbands official car at home. She immediately drove away to my house. She arrived our house crying on her knees begging my parents to intervene.

Even more unfortunate, she forgot her jewelry at the hotel. My bro was sent to pick it up and was given the room number. He told me he met the man still sleeping under covers, he asked for them and the man let him carry them back home.

My father summoned my uncle and their issues were resolved and i dont know how. I know my uncle is so calm and cool headed.

Fast forward 8yrs later, they moved to Abj, i lived with them for my 6mths IT. I was disgusted because this woman was all over my uncle's back with false accusations of sleeping with his secretary, colleages or any female around him. He worked with HR dept and traveled all over the country for weeks which she always complain. This woman was holier than most people i know and goes to a different church to her husband's. She started following him only when his office got him a brand new car which she will only enter on sundays. She couldnt stand me seating in front of the new car so she started coming with us to our church saying she has to start riding this car before young girls thinks he is not married!

WOMEN EH!

your Uncle has chopped serious efo riro of the baba kind

If it was you, would you be happy when ur relatives know ur wife was cheating on ur & decide to keep it to themselves...

Hypothetically speaking what if she transfer ur uncle one incurable disease she got from her FUN.

Just let the cat out of the bag, what happens afterwards ain't ur concern, tell ur blood relative the truth & ignore those people saying it ain't ur business, afterall they might be into dsame cheating club

teekay213:
to marry dey fear me.i have two neighbours,married women that fvck outside.and the most shocking thing is their husbands knows.crazy world.

its nt shocking to me

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

Reason why I never take you seriously. For a matured and married lady, you have a surprisingly warped view of conscience and morality.

Enough has been said!

Decide whichever works for you.

Infidelity = There's even no marriage there to destroy. (You'll only be cutting short the length of time two housemates share their apartment).

If they can't sort out their sh*t because you ratted her out, then do kids deserve to be raised in that kind of environment?

thesicilian:
Mind your business o, bro

mind which business tell somebody or in fact tell ur uncle before he realize 15years later that he is not the owner of his childrens.pikins i mean to spell.

If I were in the op shoes,I'd tell my parents everything I saw because they have a bigger role to play..Who knows if she had contracted STDs from the man.I'm sure they wouldn't want lose any of their relatives to a LovePeddler.

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

Am very sorry to say this
You're an idiot and I mature slut
With this your rubbish reply I have pity u
You can qoute me or call me names if you like but you're a slut.
Yes i'm hash on you so as to your reply above.
Claiming alpha female. Mtcheww

Tell your uncle or if you don't wish to break the news to your uncle by yourself, then tell your father, for him to do the talking.

Cheating is a terrible and dangerous thing, especially, in marraige because there's the risk of STD and the guy she's cheating with can cause serious harm to her husband in order to claim her!

If you chose to do nothing, then you would be guilty of supporting cheating! Let me ask you this: Would you want to be told if your future wife cheats on you?

Bros better "Lock up" and mind your business..... One day she shall be caught "Blue handed"

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

you called your mom right at the reception.

robosky02:
op what did you call the place ... Guest House ok

and you thought its your uncles wife abi ............ that mean you don't even

and what are you doing there? hmmmmmm

he came to supply them drinks.

Ode.. Mumu boy.. Oloshi omo.. What does he even think that he knows!?

robosky02:
op what did you call the place ... Guest House ok

and you thought its your uncles wife abi ............ that mean you don't even

and what are you doing there? hmmmmmm

Imagine that the woman is ur wife, would u want to know about the affair? And when u later know about it (cos she will surely expose herself one day) what will be ur response to d situation? Especially when every other person already knows d secret and no one told u?

Op, expose the bitch even if it means being anonymous. I wont pay that kinda long list i saw on nairaland and soneone will be sharing my pomo.

sanyahkod:
I once saw my friend's mum whom I know to have a loyal husband with another man in a hotel.



It's 12 years now and I didn't tell a soul. I don't want to be the cause of a broken home.


It's not everything the eyes sees that the mouth says.


It's such a cruel world we live in.

You better tell your uncle because if u don't, I will.

chronique:
I'd rather live alone,than have an unfaithful wife under my roof. I don't pray my wife cheats but if anyone catches her doing it,nobody should help me save any marriage. Just spill the beans and let's go our separate ways.

Exactly.....
Such Marriages don't need Saving

That's the headache of thse men who are. I come from a polygamous family but my choice is #team 1man,1wife. I don't need 2 women and I don't fancy polygamy. I'm a faithful and loyal lover,and I expect nothing short of that from my partner. Cheating is as unpardonable offence where I am;don't make a mistake of cheating on me. I could even dump a lady just by finding out she has plans of cheating(even if she hasn't done it). I hold myself to a certain level of responsibility and discipline when it comes to being in a relationship,and I expect same from my partner. Anything other than that,is a no deal.

MsGlobalwonder:
but men are polygamous in mature abi?

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

Squeal on her... You can tip off ur uncle anonymously

iPopAlomo:
Just watch all the girls on nairaland tell you to keep it to yourself...

it shows that it is something they can do...

as a guy... the woman nah stranger for your family... you need concrete proof... not some I saw your wife word of mouth shit... you need pictures, credit cards numbers, videos, then give the head of your family...

anonymously... thank me later...

True!!!!!!......Nice advice. Any one could deny his claims, if there isn't any proof.

HateU2:
nd u want him to destroy the family. Smh. See them. Some men sha

see sample here.

Spit on nairaland ladies supporting that woman. May their homes be broken whenever they get married. To those married already. Divorce is on its way.

HateU2:
nd u want him to destroy the family. Smh. See them. Some men sha

****. Where is the family he's sopposed to destroy. Just wait until the adulterous woman poisons his uncle because of the man outside.
Something that isn't even a one time thing. She does it 2-3times in a month. What if she infects his uncle with HIV or some other deadly diseases.. There is a high possibility that some of his uncles kids may not even be his biological kids, imagine getting to know when the child is all grown up.

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