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alujonjonkijon:
arrant nonsense,you better get down to the real world before you die of frustration,your husband is not your mate,he is your boss but a benevolent dictator,if he decides to Bleep your best friend pregnant,u will discover u are so silly to abandon him and the marriage because very soon the man you remarry too will be worse that your last hubby.men are polygamous and if you can lay claim to any sense at all ,you would have notice that because a man bleeps ur best friend doesnt mean he hates you his wife.i didnt even bother to read your story in full ,who is cheating who.in marriage the African way it is about the wife's fidelity and the reason being that if you Bleep more than one man,we dont know who owns the pregnancy and the child and the entire society becomes confused and disorganized.


your only way out for you is to find how you get married to kumuyi of deeper life cus i cant guarantee u of fidelity with the pastors chris them,


very unnecessary article,you can as well teach women how to wear their pant.and who tells you some hubbies dont prefer their wives to be orobos.

please pardon me.,your advise is really very very unnecessary.did you talk to ur mum before writing these?

EYOUYO:
I don't know y a Lady should called ha husband cheater as if she's d one dat pays for d bride Price, if Na me I go open door send u parking any day u nag.
if u Lady wan to cheat go n pay d man price n have ur way full stop.

EYOUYO:
I don't know y a Lady should called ha husband cheater as if she's d one dat pays for d bride Price, if Na me I go open door send u parking any day u nag.
if u Lady wan to cheat go n pay d man price n have ur way full stop.

slimmingcare:
Well as for me, I do not think men cheating on their wives has anything to do with the latter body size or shape.
It has to do with women's attitude and character especially after having one or two children. Our women of today especially the " working class" are too emotional, aggressive and impatient when dealing with their spouse.
Some housewives even dictates when to sleep with their husbands.... .. ..
I am a major distributor of Green World products and I know what it takes to keeping fit. You can also know better on www.greenworldlagos..com

slimmingcare:
Well as for me, I do not think men cheating on their wives has anything to do with the latter body size or shape.
It has to do with women's attitude and character especially after having one or two children. Our women of today especially the " working class" are too emotional, aggressive and impatient when dealing with their spouse.
Some housewives even dictates when to sleep with their husbands.... .. ..
I am a major distributor of Green World products and I know what it takes to keeping fit. You can also know better on www.greenworldlagos..com

alujonjonkijon:
arrant nonsense,you better get down to the real world before you die of frustration,your husband is not your mate,he is your boss but a benevolent dictator,if he decides to Bleep your best friend pregnant,u will discover u are so silly to abandon him and the marriage because very soon the man you remarry too will be worse that your last hubby.men are polygamous and if you can lay claim to any sense at all ,you would have notice that because a man bleeps ur best friend doesnt mean he hates you his wife.i didnt even bother to read your story in full ,who is cheating who.in marriage the African way it is about the wife's fidelity and the reason being that if you Bleep more than one man,we dont know who owns the pregnancy and the child and the entire society becomes confused and disorganized.


your only way out for you is to find how you get married to kumuyi of deeper life cus i cant guarantee u of fidelity with the pastors chris them,


very unnecessary article,you can as well teach women how to wear their pant.and who tells you some hubbies dont prefer their wives to be orobos.

please pardon me.,your advise is really very very unnecessary.did you talk to ur mum before writing these?

alujonjonkijon:
bless you.sensible african woman with happy marriage.

inemani:
Hello Mamas!
Yesterday I read a thread of a man who was curious as to why women blow out of proportion after marriage/childbirth. I snapped out after he wrote this: "And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights? Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother?" This motivated my own thread!
Take a look at these true life stories:
1. A former colleague of mine who is married with a daughter lives very close to me. She's still in her twenties, tall, elegant and endowed with this hourglass shape men die for. Her husband is quite young too, with a comfortable source of income. You will think they are dating when they stroll outside - babe is still hot because she waist-trained after her baby, talk about flattest tummy! Now I was, to say the least, shocked, when I learnt Oga was going after other ladies, still in our neighborhood I mean, these girls can't measure to the wife half.

2. A lady I know advised me after my first baby to look trim and sexy so that my husband won't go after other women. You won't believe she is a mother of four, I really looked up to her for inspiration in my keeping fit regimen. Babe did not know her perfect gentleman was busy banging anything in skirts around town. She probably thought depriving herself of certain foods, working out and staying trim would put Oga in check!

3. What about our celebrities who retain their pre-baby weights after their babies yet their divorces are most times based on infidelity? what about countless beautiful women who put in their very best to maintain their shape but are still being cheated on?

What is my point? My fellow women, if you think you are staying fit, trim and sexy so that your husband wouldn't cheat on you, please change that mindset. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT, no point going on a long thing! Stay fit because of the health benefits, you wouldn't want the health risks associated with obesity, would you?
All these Nairaland boys bashing African Women with little or no respect, tuale!
All the men (married and unmarried) who gallivant around in potbellies yet criticize childbearing women, chop knuckle! It's a man's world, isn't it?
All the cheaters continue cheating, the day of reckoning would sure come

Women please, stay fit and trim not for Oga but for your health! *drops mic*

alujonjonkijon:
arrant nonsense,you better get down to the real world before you die of frustration,your husband is not your mate,he is your boss but a benevolent dictator,if he decides to Bleep your best friend pregnant,u will discover u are so silly to abandon him and the marriage because very soon the man you remarry too will be worse that your last hubby.men are polygamous and if you can lay claim to any sense at all ,you would have notice that because a man bleeps ur best friend doesnt mean he hates you his wife.i didnt even bother to read your story in full ,who is cheating who.in marriage the African way it is about the wife's fidelity and the reason being that if you Bleep more than one man,we dont know who owns the pregnancy and the child and the entire society becomes confused and disorganized.


your only way out for you is to find how you get married to kumuyi of deeper life cus i cant guarantee u of fidelity with the pastors chris them,


very unnecessary article,you can as well teach women how to wear their pant.and who tells you some hubbies dont prefer their wives to be orobos.

please pardon me.,your advise is really very very unnecessary.did you talk to ur mum before writing these?

EYOUYO:
I don't know y a Lady should called ha husband cheater as if she's d one dat pays for d bride Price, if Na me I go open door send u parking any day u nag.
if u Lady wan to cheat go n pay d man price n have ur way full stop.

Dabbyfab:
Exactly just do you. There is always an excuse for cheating but the real truth is that the cheater is a dog and lacks self control. Even if you give it to him real good, turn to a slave,have all the plastic surgery with the best surgeon,he will still cheat.Just stay fit cos it is healthy and not for a pathetic cheater.

inemani:
My sister! Irrespective of how hawwt u look, a dog is a dog o.

inemani:
Hello Mamas!
Yesterday I read a thread of a man who was curious as to why women blow out of proportion after marriage/childbirth. I snapped out after he wrote this: "And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights? Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother?" This motivated my own thread!
Take a look at these true life stories:
1. A former colleague of mine who is married with a daughter lives very close to me. She's still in her twenties, tall, elegant and endowed with this hourglass shape men die for. Her husband is quite young too, with a comfortable source of income. You will think they are dating when they stroll outside - babe is still hot because she waist-trained after her baby, talk about flattest tummy! Now I was, to say the least, shocked, when I learnt Oga was going after other ladies, still in our neighborhood I mean, these girls can't measure to the wife half.

2. A lady I know advised me after my first baby to look trim and sexy so that my husband won't go after other women. You won't believe she is a mother of four, I really looked up to her for inspiration in my keeping fit regimen. Babe did not know her perfect gentleman was busy banging anything in skirts around town. She probably thought depriving herself of certain foods, working out and staying trim would put Oga in check!

3. What about our celebrities who retain their pre-baby weights after their babies yet their divorces are most times based on infidelity? what about countless beautiful women who put in their very best to maintain their shape but are still being cheated on?

What is my point? My fellow women, if you think you are staying fit, trim and sexy so that your husband wouldn't cheat on you, please change that mindset. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT, no point going on a long thing! Stay fit because of the health benefits, you wouldn't want the health risks associated with obesity, would you?
All these Nairaland boys bashing African Women with little or no respect, tuale!
All the men (married and unmarried) who gallivant around in potbellies yet criticize childbearing women, chop knuckle! It's a man's world, isn't it?
All the cheaters continue cheating, the day of reckoning would sure come

Women please, stay fit and trim not for Oga but for your health! *drops mic*

nifton:
Men always cheat! Men always cheat!! Thats what we hear often from women but ask them if their husbands cheats and they'll say no. Then who the hell are those men that always cheat. My take on this is"If your husband cheats divorce him and have ur peace" shikena.

alujonjonkijon:
arrant nonsense,you better get down to the real world before you die of frustration,your husband is not your mate,he is your boss but a benevolent dictator,if he decides to Bleep your best friend pregnant,u will discover u are so silly to abandon him and the marriage because very soon the man you remarry too will be worse that your last hubby.men are polygamous and if you can lay claim to any sense at all ,you would have notice that because a man bleeps ur best friend doesnt mean he hates you his wife.i didnt even bother to read your story in full ,who is cheating who.in marriage the African way it is about the wife's fidelity and the reason being that if you Bleep more than one man,we dont know who owns the pregnancy and the child and the entire society becomes confused and disorganized.


your only way out for you is to find how you get married to kumuyi of deeper life cus i cant guarantee u of fidelity with the pastors chris them,


very unnecessary article,you can as well teach women how to wear their pant.and who tells you some hubbies dont prefer their wives to be orobos.

please pardon me.,your advise is really very very unnecessary.did you talk to ur mum before writing these?

topdee:
Not true, I couldn't agree with you less. Take a look at this scenario: Let's use universities or tertiary institutions as a case study; a student's ultimate goal is to get a good job after graduation, and as we all know the best way to achieve that is to graduate with 1st class or 2.1, but in reality those grades don't guarantee job placement. Some students with low grades even get jobs before students with high grades, but the fact still is that 1st class and 2.1 increases ones chances of securing good jobs. A woman's physical attributes creates a better platform for her man to stay faithful, and it's one of the criteria to win a man's heart, but doesn't mean it's the sole ingredient to man's faithfulness; just as good grades doesn't guarantee job placement. It applies to every facet of life, even living a healthy life doesn't guarantee longevity, but it's a contributing factor.
Abeg women out there, try as much as you can to look good often for your man and your health, likewise the men, also men like what they see, it's a known fact, give him reasons not to look elsewhere. .

numericalguy:
Of all the good men out there, you chose to marry a dog.

slimmingcare:
Well as for me, I do not think men cheating on their wives has anything to do with the latter body size or shape.
It has to do with women's attitude and character especially after having one or two children. Our women of today especially the " working class" are too emotional, aggressive and impatient when dealing with their spouse.
Some housewives even dictates when to sleep with their husbands.... .. ..
I am a major distributor of Green World products and I know what it takes to keeping fit. You can also know better on www.greenworldlagos..com