masqot:
Why not mind your business. Besides, you didn't catch the woman red-handed. You can't even defend she's the one.

Bros, read again. I'm very sure she s d one..

She even spoke and I heard her voice clearly

crackhaus:

If the OP was a lady who ran into her aunt's husband with another woman at the guest-house, would you be typing this same thing?



Who is responsible for destroying the family?

The woman cheating on her husband, or the OP who wants to out her?

If the OP were a lady, do you think the reaction would have been different? Well you may be wrong. I once caught my immediate older sister's (same parents) husband red handed with another lady, till date I didn't tell a soul. The man saw me, quickly disengaged. He didn't beg me not to say but I just feel that if any marriage will scatter, I won't have a part in it. That happened over a decade ago.
Another scenario, My best friend decided to go spend some weeks with her big sister who is married in another state. I was schooling in the state at the time so I always see my friend. She confided in me that her sister's husband has been pestering her for an affair. I advised her not to tell her sister and just leave the vicinity, it's dangerous. She spent the rest of her staying time with me on campus. Of course the sister was furious and all - she needed someone to help with the kids, someone to help with house chores etc, she didn't know we were actually protecting her.

Now, you may choose to be a whistle blower and scatter the marriage, you have achieved something. You may also decide to be mute and the erring party may come around, and the marriage may evolve into something beautiful. You have also achieved something. I choose the latter.

Marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled so I will never lend a voice to infidelity but if any of the parties is unaware of the other's philandering, then I won't be the tale bearer. Remember what the eyes do not see, the heart doesn't grieve after. What God has joined together....

GogobiriLalas:
Bros is mumulism worrying you? Why didn't you take pisure so you can use it to blackmail the sh*t out of her...I for one like my pounded yam, pounded not stirred with what she's done, I have found a permanent place for pounded yam and efo riro...without pisure or video she will deny everything and make your Uncle, nephews and nieces hate you...so just swallow what you saw and wait for another opportunity.

If it is about evidence, I have enough to nail her

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

Look at this thing. May God help whoever marries a thing like you.

Is this thread about the FACT that a shameless married woman was caught in a guest house with another man or about the hypothetical 'possibility' that her husband can also be caught with a woman? Why not look for a thread about a married man caught in a hotel and offer your useless opinion there?

We are talking about a given fact. Rather than face that fact and proffer an opinion on its own merit, you prefer to hypothesise about a probability. The nonsense you spewed here clearly indicates that you are bereft of common sense and hopelessly promiscuous in mind, body and soul.

Ishilove:

Send an anonymous text to your uncle. Describe everything, plus the result of your investigation. Please remain anon.

After that whatever happens is their own palaver.

The kind of woman that gives me hope.

Ladies........u can't satisfy them.

FuckTheM0ds:
lol the guy no get eyes. You enumerated clearly in brackets that (you went to see a manager) maybe for employment purpose or for an earlier booking of Olosho

Lol.. Yu nor well

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

Please ignore some bastards that are advising you to mind your business o. They are all birds of the same feathers.
Your uncle needs to know immediately!

It seems you are planning to write a book on indefinitely. Your story look like a movie script.

thesicilian:
Mind your business o, bro

Only a bastard will advise someone to mind his business.
A cheating wife is deadlier than an assassin.
I know you are a girl. I hope your husband cheats with your close friends and even your neighbors that are aware won't tell you.

HateU2:
Chai!
Eleyi gidi gan ooo
Biko don't tell anybody ooo. Just keep it to yourself.
The guy below me get sense no be small

Woe betide anyone that will have such information and won't tell me. Woe betide anyone that will also advise the person that knows not to tell me.
Some of you are just stupidlý selfish.
I hope your future husband will cheat with your close friends and even your neighbors that are aware won't tell you.

sanyahkod:
I once saw my friend's mum whom I know to have a loyal husband with another man in a hotel.



It's 12 years now and I didn't tell a soul. I don't want to be the cause of a broken home.


It's not everything the eyes sees that the mouth says.


It's such a cruel world we live in.

Let your conscience kill you.

Na who even ask you self..Abeg if you tell your bro or uncle,na you go no the result.Shebbi im send you in espionage? no tell anybody coz if you do..You are ruining ur brodas marriage and not only that,u re putting assunder which biblically wrong....

numericalguy:


What is this harlot saying sef. Where is the family he's sopposed to destroy. Just wait until the adulterous woman poisons his uncle because of the man outside.
Something that isn't even a one time thing. She does it 2-3times in a month. What if she infects his uncle with HIV or some other deadly diseases.. There is a high possibility that some of his uncles kids may not even be his biological kids, imagine getting to know when the child is all grown up.

I pity the man that will marry you.

CC: Dominique
Lalasticlala
Seun

thesicilian:
Mind your business o, bro

He should mind his business so that his uncle can die of HIV bah?

bulldoza:

Woe betide anyone that will have such information and won't tell me. Woe betide anyone that will also advise the person that knows not to tell me.
Some of you are just stupidlý selfish.
I hope your future husband will cheat with your close friends and even your neighbors that are aware won't tell you.

I wish you what you wish me.

Mindfulness:
The receptionist should be fired for not respecting the guest's privacy.

If I were you, I would mind my own business since you are not close to your uncle.
If it was an uncle who is close to me, I would confront the lady on the spot and tell her that she has a week to go to confession or else I will.

Your husband will cheat too.
Nobody will tell you.

ahamonyeka:
you called your mom right at the reception.

Haha, reception keh, I dnt fancy long stories, that's why I summarised what happend there.

BTW, you dnt xpect me to detail every step as it happens, do you?

Sunnysteve009:
bird of same feather, why won't you suport ur partner in crime, E-prostite.

CC: dominique

HateU2:
nd u want him to destroy the family. Smh. See them. Some men sha

So it's better for the man to be killed with HIV (from his own wife) than for the family to be destroyed? SmH


OP please pick up your phone and call your uncle but ensure you talk him into acting maturedly by making him trace and confirm her infidelity himself..

HateU2:
I wish you what you wish me.

I hate you.

francizy:



So it's better for the man to be killed with HIV (from his own wife) than for the family to be destroyed? SmH


OP please pick up your phone and call your uncle but ensure you talk him into acting maturedly by making him trace and confirm her infidelity himself..

If only you understand FAMILY. Unless that guy have a proof, pix or something. Nobody, I repeat Nobody will believe him.

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bulldoza:

I hate you.

That does not stop me from living. Now, run along

Nkan nbe

Nasri100:


Nobody will push u into anything. Its a choice if u want to be a w hore. She is a w hore.

Don't mind these funny people who make it seem like the normal or excusable reaction to a cheating husband is to wh.ore yourself around as a woman. It is ridiculous. If a woman is not fundamentally a slu.t who enjoys the experience of random dicks penetrating her, there is no way she would feel that the perfect way to pay back her husband is to be a shameless slu.t. I hate it when people refuse to take responsibility for their own actions... Saying that someone pushed you into something like this is stupidity and deceit of the highest order.

placeofallure:


If the OP were a lady, do you think the reaction would have been different? Well you may be wrong. I once caught my immediate older sister's (same parents) husband red handed with another lady, till date I didn't tell a soul. The man saw me, quickly disengaged. He didn't beg me not to say but I just feel that if any marriage will scatter, I won't have a part in it. That happened over a decade ago.
Another scenario, My best friend decided to go spend some weeks with her big sister who is married in another state. I was schooling in the state at the time so I always see my friend. She confided in me that her sister's husband has been pestering her for an affair. I advised her not to tell her sister and just leave the vicinity, it's dangerous. She spent the rest of her staying time with me on campus. Of course the sister was furious and all - she needed someone to help with the kids, someone to help with house chores etc, she didn't know we were actually protecting her.

Now, you may choose to be a whistle blower and scatter the marriage, you have achieved something. You may also decide to be mute and the erring party may come around, and the marriage may evolve into something beautiful. You have also achieved something. I choose the latter.

Marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled so I will never lend a voice to infidelity but if any of the parties is unaware of the other's philandering, then I won't be the tale bearer. Remember what the eyes do not see, the heart doesn't grieve after. What God has joined together....

Where is the place of logic in this your story....
When someone is cheating in an examination, your logic says that you shouldn't report them because you don't want the exam to be a failure..... You forget that the essence of the exam was defeated the moment the person starts cheating....
My point, there is no marriage to break, it was already broken up the moment the woman decided to cheat.... The man is only living in an illusion, he doesn't have a marriage.....
Finally, learn to think like me and your days would be long...

HateU2:
If only you understand FAMILY. Unless that guy have a proof, pix or something. Nobody, I repeat Nobody will believe him.

It's quit simple to catch the woman red handed since that has been her routine/norm activity (whenever her husband is away from home). All he has to do is tell the man to take it easy like nothing happened and pretend to have another business trip as soon as he comes back from this one he's been on. Then help him go catch the woman red handed on top of another man's infected dick!

DIKEnaWAR:



That family is already destroyed. She could go and get HIV and infect her husband which will destroy his life and dreams. She could conspire with her lover and kill the man, so they can have unrestrained access to the thing. The best is for the husband to walk out of the marriage alive and intact.

Isn't it funny that you women who preach to other women to leave abusive relationships with their lives are the ones refraining from saving a man who has been totally abused in his own marriage(cheating is the worst crime in a marriage) because you don't want to' destroy' the marriage. Where is the marriage in this instance?

At least, some one is sensible. I always say it, some peeps don't understand what they mean by family. Unless there is a pix or video, my bro, nobody will believe him.