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cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

Get caught cheating on your husband anywhere in the world and see if its not the same consequences.

O ga ju,is too tall.no be everything wey eye see,mouth dey talk or u go carry come narialand, bros na ur wife.go start fish business,that takes time and it will keep u busy.thank u

bulldoza:
Let your conscience kill you.

It's been 12 years now and I haven't died. Lol.

The family is still doing great today and I perceive she has repented. My conscience would have killed me if I had caused a seperation between them.

rigarmortis:
men are polygamous by nature. they can cheat without emotions involved. while for women its usually deeper than that.

You're not a woman. Speak for yourself. Do me a favor and don't tell me 'how I feel'.
I'll be the one to tell you how it usually is.

ziddy:
Tell the man immediately. Don't tell anyone else but the man, who knows if he's aware already.

The consequences of a woman cheating on her husband go beyond the sexual act. What if she passes off another man's child as her hubby's? That's why they say the child belongs to its mother (Iya l'o l'omo) because only a woman is absolutely sure of the blood tie between herself and her child. A man usually needs a dna test to be certain.

One of the worst tragedies that can befall any man on this earth is to raise another man's child unwittingly as his own. I don't care if a woman cheats on me because I learnt a long time ago that all women cheat given the right set of incentives e.g money, sex etc so I don't do love/trust where woman issues are concerned. Just don't bring another man's kid for me to raise.

Women are evil creatures.

Baba! May your days be long and fruitful.

yakubumohammed81:
but bros you just told the world na...

In what way have I told the world?

Do you know my friend? His name? Family?

I once saw a friend's wife at Abuja while she was suppose to be in Calabar where she stays. The friend works in uyo and visits her weekends.

The babe warned me to pretend I never saw her and that's what I did o. Well they now have a baby so I guess she wouldn't have such time anymore.

#singing# Anoda d|ck in ur uncle's wife pvssy
Ur uncle is indirectly using his D|ck to rub another man's DIck ..d oda guy is calling ur uncle stupid



If after reading this u dont tell ur uncle..den from a guy to anoda guy "u keeping this from ur uncle is wickedness!!!"

op, if it really bothers you that much,then I will suggest you hold you peace from for now and get evidence, maybe pictures or video, then send it anonymously to your uncle, I repeat ANONYMOUSLY, don't ask me why,and it doesn't mean you are a coward, it just means you are smart to save your head

victorD3:
I once saw a friend's wife at Abuja while she was suppose to be in Calabar where she stays. The friend works in uyo and visits her weekends.

The babe warned me to pretend I never saw her and that's what I did o. Well they now have a baby so I guess she wouldn't have such time anymore.

Gongrats .. Ekpa just gave anoda man a false reality... Karma be unto u

thesicilian:
Mind your business o, bro

what is mind ur business??on cheating and. Adultrous uncles wife.

victorjoe:
Imagine that the woman is ur wife, would u want to know about the affair? And when u later know about it (cos she will surely expose herself one day) what will be ur response to d situation? Especially when every other person already knows d secret and no one told u?

Imagine? I won't want to imagine having a promiscuous wife cos I don't pray for such. There isn't a way a husband who knows his wife too well wouldn't see signs of promiscuity no matter how smart she plays her game. I'll only advise men to know their women well before tying the knot and also ensure that love doesn't die after marriage.

I would feel really ashamed when I'm told such. How on earth wouldn't I have noticed? It would mean I have failed as a husband not to know my wife.

diva90:
But what of if the husband is a chronic cheat too?

Then they don't have a marriage or family and should have parted ways since.

Your question though. I hope you don't belong to the group that cheat back in return, when cheated on?

thesicilian:
Mind your business o, bro

you are out of point... what if it was to be your wife. and you elder brother son saw her in a guest house with another man...

sanyahkod:
In what way have I told the world?

Do you know my friend? His name? Family?

this is not real face.

If you are very sure send your uncle an blind email(create a new account). And ask him to donfirm for himself before taking any action.

Never keep quite when you see such evil. Exposing evil is the only to promoting good.

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

All these talk when una dey talk, you for just make sure say una greet."Hello Aunty, How Uncle and the Children" Matter end. Na she come know whether she go tell uncle where she for see you or una go dey look una selves with Badt guy eyes.

greatgod2012:
Such a cruel world!!!



This is serious, I'm speechless.
But honestly, if I were the one, I wouldn't tell my uncle, because I wouldn't want their marriage broken through me.






On the other side, how are we even sure the woman is not trying to pay the man back in his coin?

op, how faithful is your uncle to his wife?


Not trying to condone the adulterous lifestyle of the woman, but who knows what happens in that marriage.



What to do.......pick one as your conscience dictates......


~ If you know your uncle is a faithful husband, you can send an anonymous message to him, describing what you saw.


~ Keep your mouth shut forever, especially if your uncle too is a player.


~ Set her up...............you know the rest.


~Pay them a visit and have a personal heart to heart talk with the woman.

~ Pretend as if you didn't see anything.


~ Pray for their marriage.

Gbam!!!

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

Dont blame a woman when ever she cheats...Some do so cos they need money,Wana Upgarde,cant expect the boyfrnd to provide all, need to meet demands but some cheat cos it IN THIER LEINGE,ITS IN THE BLOOD,ITS RUNS THROUGH THEIR VEINS AND ITS HERIDTRY.......

Keep your and mind your business,otherwise, u will meat ur death fast.

Keep your head and mind your business,otherwise, u will meat ur death fast.

A cheating spouse isn't something to be made light of. Your uncle's life/health is at stake. He should know the actual situation of things before it leads to his death. Even the union can't be as enjoyable as it (probably) used to be since she started collecting penis from other men. What then is the point?

Since you have pictures to support your claim, make it known to him, albeit anonymously. Don't be a bastard.

HateU2:
nd u want him to destroy the family. Smh. See them. Some men sha

Which family ? The one already destroyed by cheating or another. In Felas voice Suffering and Smiling.

vague:
may your daughters end up being just another man's unmarried baby making machines, shout amen!

and may your wife be caught in an hotel beeping anoda man ijn!!!! shout amen.

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

Well, if i were you. I'll simply beacon on her so that we'll see each other clearly so she won't deny the allegation. With that she'll won't be comfortable with the spree and i'll of course blackmail her for awhile until she stopped.

ziddy:
Tell the man immediately. Don't tell anyone else but the man, who knows if he's aware already.

The consequences of a woman cheating on her husband go beyond the sexual act. What if she passes off another man's child as her hubby's? That's why they say the child belongs to its mother (Iya l'o l'omo) because only a woman is absolutely sure of the blood tie between herself and her child. A man usually needs a dna test to be certain.

One of the worst tragedies that can befall any man on this earth is to raise another man's child unwittingly as his own. I don't care if a woman cheats on me because I learnt a long time ago that all women cheat given the right set of incentives e.g money, sex etc so I don't do love/trust where woman issues are concerned. Just don't bring another man's kid for me to raise.

Women are evil creatures.

And men are saints according to your believe.

joshboo:
and may your wife be caught in an hotel beeping anoda man ijn!!!! shout amen.

what will i need a wife for?

Jadonjack:
Haha, reception keh, I dnt fancy long stories, that's why I summarised what happend there.

BTW, you dnt xpect me to detail every step as it happens, do you?

cos the story looks forgery.

BROS, either you have the pic, video or not I will strongly advise you to try as much as possible to pass the information to your uncle through an elder of the family you can confide in. If you keep it secret, your uncle's life is at stake because adultery wife has option of killing her husband or herself. Again, it's because God want her secret game to be exposed that was why you caught her red handed.
God will give you and the family wisdom to manage the issue.

rigarmortis:
men are polygamous by nature. they can cheat without emotions involved, while for women its usually deeper than that.

cococandy:
You're not a woman. Speak for yourself. Do me a favor and don't tell me 'how I feel'.
I'll be the one to tell you how it usually is.

What's most intriguing is the conviction with which they use that same line. It's as if they truly believe it.