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Jadonjack:
What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

PaulKillerman:
Seeyou cannot be making such comparison, it is a man's world., women were created for men and not the reverse... You cannot upturn nature... A man can marry as much wives as he chooses, with as many concubine he chooses as far as he can take care of them, u cannot say the same for women.... This is Africa... Bigamy is not a crime...
So please be guided...

samonom:
Just inform ur dad, his mature enough to handle d case, dat is women 4 u. The young man is out looking for how to feed his family ok, while she is committing adultery. So sad!

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

Jexbabs:
Telling dad or mum is the right thing but what evidence do you have?

You know dads and mums na!... The story might just be unbeleiveable to them considering the state(place) and state(status) you found her.

Mindfulness:
The receptionist should be fired for not respecting the guest's privacy.

If I were you, I would mind my own business since you are not close to your uncle.
If it was an uncle who is close to me, I would confront the lady on the spot and tell her that she has a week to go to confession or else I will.

basadenet:
It seems you are planning to write a book on indefinitely. Your story look like a movie script.

mineANDurs:
Yes, they are!
That includes your mother,wife,daughters, sisters and ur entire female generation!!!

HateU2:
If only you understand FAMILY. Unless that guy have a proof, pix or something. Nobody, I repeat Nobody will believe him.

Jadonjack:
The kinda pics I took ehn! She sf can't deny

badostic:
1. You told lies by saying you went to see the manager that was why you couldn't confront them. 2. You went to screw too. 3. Tell your uncle to ge part of nairalander. 3. Advise your uncle to apply magun on his wife that you no longer trust ladies.

jmichlins:
Did you take pictures of the alledged? If not shut up and imagine it never happened cause she will deny waking up today not to talk of traveling

ahamonyeka:
cos the story looks forgery.

placeofallure:
Just wondering... Who the heck are you?

chronique:
That's the headache of thse men who are. I come from a polygamous family but my choice is #team 1man,1wife. I don't need 2 women and I don't fancy polygamy. I'm a faithful and loyal lover,and I expect nothing short of that from my partner. Cheating is as unpardonable offence where I am;don't make a mistake of cheating on me. I could even dump a lady just by finding out she has plans of cheating(even if she hasn't done it). I hold myself to a certain level of responsibility and discipline when it comes to being in a relationship,and I expect same from my partner. Anything other than that,is a no deal.

HateU2:
Then your dad is the next person to contact. Just show him and let him decide.

HateU2:
Then your dad is the next person to contact. Just show him and let him decide.

MsGlobalwonder:
awww.. husband material 100yards. Tell that to your fellow men tho, it seems you are alone in your lane; most feel entitled to cheat.. they even claim GOD made that prospective cheat. Hehe

njokusboy:
My point, there is no marriage to break, it was already broken up the moment the woman decided to cheat.... The man is only living in an illusion, he doesn't have a marriage.....

njokusboy:
I am the enigmatic, smooth talking, finger pointing, eye brow raising, bull$h1t calling, ass-whooping, bone crushing njokusboy... Every word I utter is divine..... Go and sin no more.......

chronique:
Like I said,it's their headache. Anyone who has seen the bad side of polygamy,and has suffered the trauma of coming from a polygamous home,won't wish to put an innocent child through that trauma,if the person is mentally alright,and not an extremely selfish being. I wanna give my kids the life I never had,and I'm that committed to it,so Bleep polygamy.

CoCoLav:
Awwww! This is so sweet

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

MrCork:
[size=14pt] ^^^^^ AMEBO....thise ghana babes juss never mind ther own Buciness!!!!![/size]

HateU2:
CC: dominique

chronique:
That's the headache of thse men who are. I come from a polygamous family but my choice is #team 1man,1wife. I don't need 2 women and I don't fancy polygamy. I'm a faithful and loyal lover,and I expect nothing short of that from my partner. Cheating is as unpardonable offence where I am;don't make a mistake of cheating on me. I could even dump a lady just by finding out she has plans of cheating(even if she hasn't done it). I hold myself to a certain level of responsibility and discipline when it comes to being in a relationship,and I expect same from my partner. Anything other than that,is a no deal.